What You Need to Know to Pleasure a Penis
What You Need to Know to Pleasure a Penis
Let’s face it, we wouldn’t be shopping on this site if we didn’t know what a penis looked like, however, by learning the different parts we can use combinations that thrill every time. Just like the vagina, the penis has hotspots that respond to various methods of touch. Once you are familiar with each one you can vary your style to suit your partner finding out what works best.
Let’s Start at the Top
The Head: The head of the penis is called the glans; it is the most sensitive part of the penis. Some liken it to the woman’s clitoris. On a personal note, I once watched a program where a man was undergoing a sex change. They saved part of the glans of the penis for his new clitoris and promised he’d still be able to reach orgasm if stimulated enough.
The Ridge: Its specific name is the coronal ridge and can be found where the glans bends to meet the length of the penis. Treat this with care-and lubrication, as it’s very sensitive but treated well will produce lots of pleasure!
The Frenulum: This five penny sized spot is not to be underestimated. Found just below the ridge, tongue flicks, either hard or soft will drive him wild.
The Raphe: This looks like a seam, on the underside of the shaft. It’s delicious to lick, and even more delicious for him when you do! Nerves gather here making it ideal for blow job focus.
The Sac: You know what the scrotal sac is; however do you know how to tell if he’s excited just by looking at it? Make sure when you touch, you’re gentle, but if he likes what you’re doing you’ll feel or see it contract and tighten.
The Seminal Vesicles: This feel like little hard lines of veins and when excited they will harden. You’ll find one each side of the scrotal sac, now what are you going to do with them?
The Prostate Gland: About an inch up the bum and towards the scrotal sac is a little walnut of pleasure. Lube up well as press firmly to make his orgasm explode!
The Perfect Hand Job
Now you know the lingo it’s easy to follow instructions and if you give a good massage beforehand your partner will be ready for your touch. Apply plenty of lube, and proceed like this:
Take the underside and stroke along the raphe for a minute or two, using light strokes with your fingernails, then slide more firmly using your fingers starting at the glans and down the raphe to the sac. Repeat from the beginning and then carefully roll his testicles in the palm of your hand whilst playing gently with the seminal vesicles, you’ll find his sac twitches and he becomes very excited indeed.
Take it a little further and explore for the male G-Spot (we have articles here that explain how to do just that), press for five seconds at a time whilst still stroking his penis from glans to sac, and then try some different strokes to really increase the passion such as:
The Umbrella
Place your left hand over the glans like an umbrella whilst holding the shaft with your right. Now twist your left hand (gently) increasing pressure according to his groans. You may need some tissues very soon!