HOW TO HAVE INCREDIBLE SHOWER SEX + 9 SHOWER SEX POSITIONS

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Are you planning to explore shower sex? Use these nine shower sex positions, including doggy style, to rock your world of shower sex. 

Shower sex should be on anyone’s sexual fantasy list. Having sex in water is erotic. Having water running over your body when having sex brings a sense of intimacy.  When you touch and wash each other’s bodies in romantic situations, it takes your pleasure to an imaginable level. However, shower sex has some issues and would like to talk about before we narrow down to the positions. 

The Mechanics of Shower Sex 

Before learning how to engage in shower sex, it is important to note some crucial tips that will make the experience pleasurable. Most people don’t prepare themselves before engaging in shower sex. Such people end up experiencing the worst of shower sex which makes them quit the play. 

Before getting into action, wash or remove any makeup on your body so that your body will be free, relaxed, and great. However, you can skip this stage if you have applied waterproof makeup. 

Applying soap to each other’s private parts is fun and sexy. However, before penetration, it is advisable to wash off the soap. That is because the soap you are using might contain chemicals that may be harmful to your genitals. Don’t be mistaken to use soap as lube. Sex and lather do not mix. If you ignore it, you are at risk of contracting a bacterial infection.

During shower sex, you should take turns and change positions. However, this may not be necessary if your shower has two showerheads. The prime spot should be shared. If one partner is not underwater, it will be cold and wet. This is not the best thing for a sessional romantic play. 

If there is a mirror on the walls or near the shower, you can watch yourselves touching each other in pleasure. This is a sexy move. You can also purchase suction cup mirrors that will conveniently attach to the perfect position and location. 

Shower sex cannot last for a long time. It is not easy to trust your partner and change positions in such a small, confined place (unless the shower room is big). Shower sex can be best in preparing for the actual battle in the bedroom or quickies.

Oral and anal sex are ideal for intercourse in the shower since you can face the same side thus easing access. 

Setting the Scene for Shower Sex 

You can set scented candles at the rim of the bathtub or over the counters to bring out the atmosphere that will perfectly match your situation. If you are afraid of fire risks, there are LED candles that you can use. You can also burn some incense. What you choose depends on your preference.  

You may also play some soft music. You can bring your waterproof phones and bluetooth music devices into the shower to get high-definition sound.  Don't forget about cleaning the bathroom before the act. A clean bathroom will make things sexier. You can also change the atmosphere by spraying a sweet-scented spray. 

Sex Positions That Work Best in the Shower

Stand While Facing Each Other

The standing sex position works perfectly if both partners are the same height. In this position, the number of showerheads doesn’t matter. One showerhead is enough because you will both be at the prime spot simultaneously. 

Stand, Facing the Same Direction

If the first position is troublesome for you, you can try this sex position. Not all sex positions are perfect for anybody. Each person has their preference. Let your partner stand while his back faces the showerhead. You can lean against the wall and let him penetrate you from behind. 

Sitting 

The shower chair in the bathroom should be under maximum use. This sex position is best for oral and penetrative sex. Also, the position is not dangerous since you are near the floor.

Bathtub Sitting

You might prefer sitting in the bathtub. This is best for oral sex, and it may be tricky for penetration unless you are under caution. The position may be similar to the lotus sex penetration. Both partners face each other scooting closely until the man can penetrate. 

Doggy Style 

This position is common. You can bend over in the bathtub and let your partner penetrate from the back. According to DeAngelo (2001), this is the best position for stimulating the G-spot during shower sex. For rough sex, you can let your partner pull your hair to arch your waist upwards for better penetration. 

Bulldog

Although this is not specifically a sex position, it can work well. It is a variety of the doggy style for anal and vaginal sex. Support yourself with your arms to avoid water splashing into your face.

Tea Spooning

This position is incredibly intimate but is only applicable if your shower allows it. In the tea spooning sex position, your man kneels behind you for either oral sex or penetration. According to El-Gharib & Albehoty (2018), this sex position is ideal for G-spot stimulation. However, the position may be hard for your knees.

On Your Knees 

This position is good if you are giving oral sex to your partner. Also, the receiving partner can kneel for vaginal and anal penetration. However, the position might be dangerous since the knees might be sour unless you have some pods.

Kneeling Burning Man

This is not an actual sex position, but you can try it if you want to get down on the play. You can get dirty, and that’s nothing to worry about since you will clean yourself in a short while. 

References

DeAngelo, D. (2001). Sex Secrets.

El-Gharib, M. N., & Albehoty, S. B. (2018). Sex in Elderly Women. Reprod Syst Sex Disord, 7(221), 2.