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Pegging Sex Positions

Pegging Sex Positions

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Tatyana Dyachenko
Written by:

Psychologist and Relationship Adviser
Veronika Matutyte
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Medical Doctor
Katie Lasson
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✨ Summary of Key Points

  • 🕵️‍♀️ What is Pegging? – Explore how this exciting role-reversal activity can spice things up.
  • 🎭 Experiment with Positions – From simple to adventurous, try a position that suits your style.
  • 🔑 Communication is Key – Share boundaries and expectations to create a safe space for pleasure.
  • 🎉 Have Fun! – Remember, it's all about connection, exploration, and a dash of cheeky fun.

🌟 Key Advice and Tips from Our Experts

  • 🛠️ Start Slow – Use plenty of lubrication and go at a pace that feels comfortable for both partners.
  • 🌈 Choose the Right Gear – Opt for comfortable and body-safe toys to enhance your experience.
  • 💬 Open Dialogue – Share your likes, dislikes, and fantasies openly.
  • 📚 Stay Informed – Read guides, watch tutorials, and expand your knowledge about pegging.

Pegging is a sexual activity where a lady penetrates his man’s butt hole using a strap-on sex toy, specifically a dildo. Originally, pegging only referred to ladies wearing the strap-on and dildos penetrating men’s butt hole. However, you can also peg your girlfriend with the strap-on. With the strap-on dildo, you can penetrate them anally, vaginally, or in the mouth. You can also let your friend give your dildo oral sex by offering a blow job. However, when changing from hole to hole, you cannot use one dildo. This reduces the risks of infections.

What is needed for pegging?

Strap-on and dildo. If you want to peg with the feeling of a realistic penis, begin with a small and thin dildo with a curved head.

Harness or undergarments that are specifically meant for holding the dick firmly and in position.

Good Old Missionary

This pegging position is ideal for a lady who intends to peg her partner first. This position is the best for guys who are shy or hesitating. This way, the guy's private parts will not be displayed openly. The lady will not see; hence the position is considered subdued and modest. The lady will be under the control of the dildo as the guy lies there on his back waiting for pegging. A greater way to enhance the lady's power is by completely submitting. Ladies rejoice secretly as this method is an erotic romance, and more eye contact makes pegging sexy and lusty. Moreover, the lady controls the depth and speed with which she feels okay.

The only drawback of this position is that it will be tough for the lady to locate the butt hole since the anus is hidden from sight as the guy lies down. However, when the guy slightly pops his knees upwards, the butt hole is easily located.

Prostate Perfection

There is a huge P-spot stimulation when using this position. The guy uses his arms and slightly raises his butt upwards. His arms rest on the bed as it forms an angle higher to the pelvis region. This angle makes penetration easier. It also encourages simple prostate stimulation as the lady thrusts the butt hole.

In this position, the guy is in complete control of how high he should lift or lower his butt. This makes it easier for him to determine the angle with which he enjoys prostate stimulation. Most guys like this position since the lady will not know that she is hitting the prostate gland in the butt hole. Guys make sure that they adjust their position, thus making sure that with every thrust, the lady reaches the P-spot. The man is likely to experience pegging orgasms quickly in this position. Additionally, the methods leave the body open and exposed so adult toys can be used on both of them.

In this position, both the man and the lady are in control. The lady controls the speed and depth of thrusting while the guy controls the angle of penetration.

Practical Pegging Posture

This is the pegging position that most beginners love the most. Guys who are not sure about pegging make up their minds and appreciate this position. This position makes both partners’ faces away from each other, hence no eye contact.  This is a good opportunity for emotional separation, so there will be no embarrassment or weirdness. In this position, a man will conclude if he likes pegging or not.

The size of the participant's bodies does not matter. This is because the guy can either close or spread his knees, thus lowering or lifting his butt. The man can easily adjust the angle of penetration as the lady is busy thrusting him. If the guy loves it, he can lay his torso on a pillow and leave his hands free to stroke his penis.

Communication is essential as the guy will give the lady feedback on how deep or fast she should thrust. The lady is always in control with her hands on the guy’s hips. This increases intimacy between partners. It will be tough to achieve consistent anal play if your dildo is short.

Reverse Cowboy

This method works similarly to reverse cowgirl. The lady lies on her back, and the guy sits from the top in a reverse manner. The guy here is in control of the speed of penetration as well as angle and depth. He can either lean forward or backward when changing angles. Furthermore, he can move vertically, determining to what depth the dildo will enter. He also controls the speed in this manner. The lady here is just supporting the guy’s butt with her hands speeding up or down the thrusts. If the guy is big-bodied, he will have to squat on his knees as the lady does all the remaining work.

The Bottom Line

Numerous styles may be employed when pegging. However, the ones discussed above are some of the main and popular methods for pegging. Lube must be used for easier penetration to get the most out of pegging since it involves anal penetration. In pegging, a lady can either penetrate a man or a woman. The man or lady can also give oral sex to the dildo. However, the dildo that enters different holes should be distinct. No matter how the butt hole is cleaned, it will not lack bacteria. The bacteria might cause infections if transmitted from one person to another.

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