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Sitting Sex Positions

Sitting Sex Positions

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Tatyana Dyachenko
Written by:

Psychologist and Relationship Adviser
Veronika Matutyte
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Medical Doctor
Katie Lasson
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Sex and Relationship Adviser

🌟 Key Points on Sitting Sex Positions 🍑

  • 🪑 Comfort is Key: Find a sturdy chair or surface—stability leads to better balance and fun! 🎉
  • 💞 Eye Contact: Sitting positions allow for intimacy—maintain eye contact for a deeper connection! 👀
  • 🤸 Experiment with Angles: Tilt and twist for delightful new sensations; creativity leads to pleasure! 🔄
  • 💦 Keep it Lubricated: A little extra lube goes a long way—smooth sailing is the goal! 🛶
  • 🕺 Enjoy the Variety: Mix and match different positions for endless excitement—variety is the spice of life! 🌶️

💬 Expert Tips for Sitting Positions 🎯

  • 🌈 Get Creative: Use cushions or props to enhance comfort and explore new angles—innovation is sexy! 🛋️
  • 🎶 Set the Mood: Soft music can elevate the experience; let the rhythm guide your passion! 🎵
  • 💡 Communicate Openly: Share your desires and preferences—clear communication enhances pleasure! 🔊
  • ⏳ Take Breaks: Don’t rush; pauses can build anticipation and make the experience even better! ⏸️
  • 🎊 Have Fun Together: Above all, enjoy the journey and create beautiful memories with your partner! 🌹

Sitting sex poses are unsung heroes of bedroom pleasures. Most people have sex standing, lying down, or suspended in the air, and forgetting sex while sitting down is also an excellent source of intense orgasms. Plus, they prevent couples from falling into a routine, which can make the bedroom boring. While most sitting sex poses are not comfortable, they require minimal effort to pull them off. They also allow couples to see each other and observe what is going on during sex, which can contribute to a positive overall experience. If you want to add partnered sitting positions to your bucket list but don’t know where to start, this article has everything you need about these poses. Keep reading to keep your sex life red hot.

What Are Sitting Sex Poses?

“Sitting sex poses are positions that require one or both partners to be seated or reclined while giving and receiving sexual pleasure,” says Tatyana Dyachenko, a renowned sex therapist. “These positions allow couples to experiment with different angles, depths, and sensations, which can heighten intimacy and pleasure,” adds the expert. “They work for couples of different sexual orientations and preferences, allowing everyone to get a chance at orgasm.” While they can be a little bit uncomfortable, partners can navigate this issue by communicating during lovemaking.

The Best Positions for Sitting Sex

Anna

If you are a female-bodied person who enjoys the traditional woman-on-top pose and wants something that gives the same vibes, then the Anna position is a must-have on your bucket list. This position encourages physical contact and allows you to control the speed, angle, and depth of penetration.

In the Anna position, the penetrating partner sits at the edge of the bed, planting his fit firmly on the flow. They then bend their arms at the elbows and lean back for support. The receiving partner comes on top, sitting horizontally with legs slightly apart. They then stretch back one hand and rest it on the penetrating partner's thigh. From there, they can start moving and down or grinding on the bottom partner's love tool.

This position is great because it allows the top partner to maintain control and use their other hand to caress themselves or stimulate their clitoris. If using the hand is hard, they can bring in a bullet vibrator to show the clitoris some immense love.  If done correctly, the Anna position can elevate intimacy and improve the relationship through shared experience.

Tantra Chair

The Tantra chair is a tantra-inspired sex position that encourages deeper connection and exploration of erogenous zones. This position comes with prolonged physical contact and eye contact, which can heighten intimacy and connection in the relationship.

In the Tantra Chair position, the penetrating partner sits on a chair and leans back against its backrest. They spread their legs slightly apart and raised their feet from the ground, allowing them to be positioned on toes. The receiving partner climbs on top, facing the penetrating partner with their legs hanging off the side of the chair. They keep their back straight and place their hands behind the penetrating partner's back.

The bottom partner then holds the top around the waist and helps them move up and down on the penis. The Tantra Chair position allows couples to kiss during sex, which can elevate the overall experience. It also allows the man to suck or caress the receiving partner's boobs, which can cause nipplegasm.

Licking Master

You may have heard that most women do not reach the O-town through penetrative sex. It is true! Not every female-bodied person has the G-spot. If your partner is among the women who don’t enjoy his internal stimulation, why not give them a special treat with licking master position?

To start, the receiving partner sits on the edge of the chair with one arm bent at the elbow. They then place the hand behind the back, tilting the body backward. For easy access, they bend one leg at the knee and lift it upward. They plant the other on the floor, making sure it touches the ground with tiptoes.

The giving partner knees between the receiving partner’s legs and leans their body forward so that they can be close to the vagina. Once they do, the receiving partner rests the raised leg on their back for comfort. While the giving partner performs cunnilingus, the receiving partner can use their hands to stimulate their clitoris.

Ladies’ Man

This is another great position for a female-bodied person who enjoys oral sex. To execute the position, the receiving partner sits on the armrest of the sofa with their legs bent at the knees and hips spread wide apart. The giving partner lies down on his belly on the couch and bends the legs at the knee. They then place one of the legs on the floor, making sure it rests on tiptoes and the other remains on the seat of the couch. After that, they tilt their body forward to access the receiving partner's vagina. From there, they can start stimulating and pleasuring the receiving partner using the lips, mouth, and fingers.

Tips for Enhancing Partnered Sitting Sex Positions

Use Lubricants

Lubricants reduce unwanted friction and increase pleasure. If you plan to engage in oral sex, be sure to use a flavored lube, especially if you don’t like the taste of the vagina,” says Dyachenko.

Communicate Throughout the Play

“Maintain communication throughout the play. This will help you know what feels good and what should be avoided,” Dyachenko says.

The Bottom Line

Sex while sitting is not only more pleasurable but also improves intimacy and connection in the relationship. If you are used to sex while lying down, standing, or suspended in the air, partnered sex poses bring fresh vibes, which will keep both of you interested in engaging in sexual activities with each other. For positions that support oral sex, be sure to use a lubricant to give the receiving partner extreme pleasure. Lubricants are also important whether you enjoy penetrative or oral sex.  After the session, practice aftercare activities like cuddling, kissing, and showering together to increase connection.

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