THE TIP OF THE TONGUE: ORAL SEX POSITIONS THAT TAKE SERIOUS BALANCE

Oral sex is a type of stimulation that some people love to explore. The oral sex positions that take serious balance include squatting 69, standing 69, and the bent butler.

Kumar et al. (2015) defines oral sex as the act of giving or receiving oral stimulations in the genitals. The history of oral sex is unrecorded and undocumented according to DePierre (2017). Times have changed, and sex is not just about lying on the bed and having the same sex position. Changing positions is very important. The same goes for oral sex. No one wants to have their genitals stimulated in the same position every day. Having different positions for oral sex is a sign that your partner is involved and enjoying it because no one cares about changing positions if they are bored. Some oral sex positions are thrilling because they need balance, and some of them need a lot more balance between the partners than other positions. The following are some oral sex positions that take serious balance;

Squatting 69

The squatting 69 resembles the ordinary 69, where the two people place themselves in a position that keeps them on each other's genitals. 69 has hints of reciprocity as discussed by Lewis et al. (2016). One partner lies on their back while the other gets on top of the other partner, such that their mouth will be on each other's genitals. The squatting 69 is similar to the ordinary 69, except that the partner on top is squatting. If the partner on top is not flexible and cannot maintain the balance, they will topple and fall.

The Standing 69

The standing 69 resembles the ordinary 69, except in this position, the stronger partner stands while holding the other partner upside down so that the person standing has the other partner's thighs beside the head. The standing 69 takes a lot of serious balance from both partners. The standing partner must have stamina and strength while the partner in the upside-down position should be flexible enough to maintain that position. The standing position is all about balance because the partners must focus on enjoying the stimulation and be conscious that the balancing act is on edge. The standing 69 is risky, but that’s the fun part of it as stated by Comfort (2003). Sex must be hazardous. If the standing partner cannot keep up with the position, they might lose focus and drop the other partner.

Backward Flip Oral Sex

The balance test on the backward style depends on the partner giving the oral sex. One partner sits or kneels but will not be in contact with the other partner's genitals. Instead, the other partner will bend backward as if doing a backward flip. While in that position where the partner is on all four limbs, they will stimulate the other partner's genitals. The backward flip oral sex needs a lot of flexibility because the partner will have to stay in that position throughout the session. If the partner cannot balance, then the position will not be successful.

Wheelbarrow or Aerial Butler Oral Sex

In this sex position, one partner gets on the floor on all fours. While on the knees, the other partner holds the legs up, looking like a person holding a wheelbarrow. While the partner is on the floor with the hands, the other partner holds the legs, spreads them slightly apart, and goes for the genitals. If the partner on the ground is not flexible or cannot endure the balance needed to keep up with this position, the oral sex will not be successful.

Bent Butler

The bent butler resembles the wheelbarrow aerial butler position. One partner kneels, and to ease the stress felt on the knees, the partner should kneel on pillows. The other partner will bend so that the genitals are on the other partner's face. The bending partner can place their hands on the other partner's knees to maintain balance. The bent butler may seem easier than the aerial position, which involves hanging the legs in the air, but the bent butler is tasking too for the bending partner. 

Bent 69

The bent 69 is uncomfortable and impossible for people who lack balancing skills, especially for the bending partner. The bent 69 resembles the bent butler, but in this case, the bent partner holds their legs for support to stimulate the kneeling partner's genitals. The kneeling partner is also stimulating the bending partner's genitals. The bending partner holds the kneeling partner's knees in the bent butler position, but in the bent 69, the bent partner holds their legs. If the bending partner holds the kneeling partner's knees, they will not be able to reach the kneeling partner's genitals. They will also not have balance, and the bent 69 will be mission impossible.

The Sitting 69

You would think that writing is a comfortable position. Still, the sitting partner in the sitting 69 is anything but comfortable and should have great balancing skills to stimulate their partner. Their genitals are stimulated while sitting with their hands on the ground while leaning backward. Meanwhile, the other partner will be bending their genitals on the sitting partner's face with their hands on the ground. The bending partner should bend their knees to minimize the strain on their legs. The sitting partner should be strong enough to stay in that uncomfortable sitting position, and the other partner should be flexible enough to go that low for the partner's genitals while bent.

Conclusion

Oral sex is only as interesting as you are willing to get involved with. The more the challenges, the more the thrill. Some people yearn for crazy oral sex fantasies, and they feel pleasure when they can live their dream. Boring oral sex is as bad as no oral sex. However, when trying oral sex, balance can be a challenge. We need to be careful not to push the limits too much. Some balancing positions can turn into serious accidents, for instance, the standing 69. If the standing partner drops the other partner, the accident can be fatal. It is recommended that if we want to try oral sex that challenges our balancing skills, we start slow. We should not attempt risky balancing acts as first-timers. Start with less-risky positions and advance to more complicated ones.

References

Comfort, A. (2003). The joy of sex. Simon and Schuster.

DePierre, D. (2017). A Brief History of Oral Sex. McFarland.

Kumar, T., Puri, G., Aravinda, K., Arora, N., Patil, D., & Gupta, R. (2015). Oral sex and oral Health: An enigma in itself. Indian journal of sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS, 36(2), 129. Lewis, R., & Marston, C. (2016). Oral sex, young people, and gendered narratives of reciprocity. The Journal of Sex Research, 53(7), 776-787.