FIRST TIME PEGGING ADVICE

Learn tips for successful first time pegging to add a little spark to your rut stuck sex life below.

Gone are the days when men used to dominate on the bed. In the 21^st century, couples are going out of the way to take reigns on the bed and create new pleasure ways that spice up fornication behind closed doors. Since gender does notmatter in the bedroom, why not try pegging?  This is a gender norm-breaking act thatdelivers unbelievably intense stimulations like other butt stuff, including rimming and anal fingering. If you have secretly wanted to attempt pegging, this article has a wealth of information you need to get started.

What Is Pegging?

The term "Pegging" came into the limelight in 2001, referring to a woman penetrating a man anally using a strap-on dildo.   Since Dan Savage's description, pegging has evolved over the years, giving men and women a chance to take charge of sex sessions.  For further understanding of the term, watchBroad Cityand Deadpool if you are a movie buff. Pegging benefits one taking penetrations and the one giving. For instance, the woman enjoys the dominance and power of being a pegger while the man gets intense anal stimulations and prostate milking that results in toe-curling orgasms. Nonetheless, the vagina-owner in charge of the act gets mind-boggling clitoral stimulations that make the whole play fun and exciting.  Assuming you are ready for pegging, here is all you need to know before diving into the pleasurable world of violating bedroom gender roles.

Communicate With   Your Lover Openly

You may be disappointed if you surprisingly show up with a strap-on dildo ready tobang your lover's booty without their consent.  Like any sexual behavior, create time with your lover and talk about pegging. Everyone may not like surprises when it comes to matters involving butt sex.  The conversation will table your expectations and concerns about the act.  Nonetheless, an open conversation with your lover will help you understand yourroles and boundaries in the play. If you are a dynamic couple in bedroom activities, bringing out the pegging talk may not be difficult. If you are unsure about your lover's response, go out of the way and speakhypothetically aboutthe issue. For instance, you can tell your lover you read an article about pegging and use their response to determine if they are into it or not.

Respect Your Lover’s Decision If They Say “NO”

As much as opening up to your lover about pegging to your loveris important, always expect a "no" or "yes."  If your lover does not buy the idea of pegging, respect their decision and introduce the topic another time.  Do not force an uninterested partner into pegging.  Remember, this is something they have never done before, and it equally needs time to digest the idea.  If your lover's response doesnot match your expectations, stick to the traditional way of having sex where theman isdominant in bed.  However, this should not worry you as there is always the next time. Do not hesitate to bring up the topic later to gauge your lover’s interest.

Go Shopping for The Pegging Tools Together

It's time to go for some shopping if your lover borrowed your pegging idea. Shopping for the dido, safe lubes, and harnesses together is the first step in laying afoundation for your pegging experienceand stayingconnected to your lover.  Go for adjustable harnesses that enhance comfort with the right sense ofcontrol and stimulate the pegger’s clit in the best way while thrusting. For the dildo, go for small-sized models because you are beginning, the find your way up as the experience grows. Also, pay attention to silicone dildos, which are non-porous, hypoallergic, and easy to disinfect.  Porous dildos easily store dirt and bacteria that may cause infections. Nonetheless, they are difficult to sanitize and clean with warm soapy water after use.

Spice Up Peggingwith Vibrations

Pegging should not benefit the giver or the receiver alone.  Remember, the reason to try pegging is to add a little spark to your sex lives. For that reason, you should be creative when shopping for strap-on dildos to enjoy the pleasures of pegging.  In the adult sex toy shop, look for vibrating strap-on dildos that deliver a gentle buzz to the anal canal of the peg-ee, leaving them down on their knees, begging for more.

Avoid Colon Cleansing

We all knoweveryone poops.  For that reason, chances are fecal remains will be seen on the sex toys whenyou eventually indulgein pegging. However, you can easily clean up the booty for your lover and keep things fresh with warm water and soap before hitting the bedroom.  This might help reduce the nervousness about what the pegger will findin your craving ass.  Avoid anal douching with enemas because itcan fuel infections. Keep everything simple for a stimulating first pegging experience.

Lube Up the Anus for Intense Sensations

We all know the anus does not self-lubricate like the vagina.  This calls for the need to throw external lubricants in the mix to make pegging pleasurable. The choice of lube to use for pegging depends on the dildo material. For instance, if you choose silicone dildos, forget silicone-based lube because the lube reacts with the material and can compromise the safety of the peg-ee and the durability of the sex toy. Also, understand the anus absorbs every material it makes contact with. With that in mind, you will be needed to reapply the lube frequently to reduce frictionand increase pleasure.  As you go shopping for the strap-on dildo, ensure you also walk out of the sex shop with a large bottle of safe lube for a stimulating pegging experience.

Begin With Foreplay

Before pegging, both of you need towarm up the bedroomwith intense foreplay for maximum arousal. Spice up pegging with the normal activities you do before vaginal sex, including kissing, oraland handjobs for next-level arousal and relaxation.

Fingers And Small Butt Plugs Can Start the Session In A Better Way

Going from zero to stimulation has never been better in pegging. For that reason, begin with one finger and graduate to five or small but plugs to bring the peg-ee into the mood of taking large dildos.

The Bottom Line

If you have secretly wanted totry pegging, this is the right guide to read to peg or be pegged like a pro.  Share with your friends the above tips and watch riveting films like Broad city and  Deadpoolfor a stimulating first pegging experience.