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PEGGING: WHAT, WHY & HOW

PEGGING: WHAT, WHY & HOW

  • by Jekaterina Gussarova
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PEGGING: WHAT, WHY & HOW

  • by Jekaterina Gussarova

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Key Points in a Nutshell 🥜

  • Pegging is a wonderfully playful way to spice things up in the bedroom! 🌶️
  • Communication is key – talk about boundaries and comfort zones. 💬
  • Start slow – remember, it’s all about fun and exploration, not a race! 🐢
  • Always use plenty of lube – it's the secret ingredient to a smooth ride! 💧
  • Safety first – go for body-safe materials when choosing your toys! 🛡️

Key Advice & Tips from Our Experts 💡

  • Use a strap-on that’s comfortable and adjustable for the best experience. 🧰
  • Keep a variety of positions in mind – some work better than others depending on angles. 🔄
  • Explore mutual pleasure – it’s not just about one person’s enjoyment! 🤝
  • Aftercare is just as important as play – check in with each other post-session. 💖

Anal play is a wonderful practice coming with different actions for pleasure, such as anal fingering and rim job. However, pegging outdoes the two. 

It is mostly done by women since they may not be gaining any clitoral or internal stimulation. However, pegging is not common. Many people do not know how to get into it. This blog highlights everything to do with pegging.

Understanding Pegging

It is an act whereby a woman anally penetrates a man by wearing a strap-on dildo. Pegging is a term that mainly describes a penis-bearing person getting penetrated by a vagina-holding person. This technique violates traditional norms whereby men are the penetrating partners and females are the receivers. Going against the norms is what most pegging partners find sexy. 

Pegging in men is meaningful due to the prostate,  the male G-spot. It is a walnut-size spot internally located in the anus measuring two to three inches. This part contains numerous nerve endings, which, when stimulated, can make one achieve intensifying and uncompromised orgasms. 

Reasons Why Pegging is Important

It Leads To Communication

Traditional gender roles have made people quiet on sex matters that they think are taboo, including pegging. This is why pegging with your partner is a big thing that can ruin your reputation. The fear of being branded a 'slut' for women can't allow them to bring up the topic. That said, you need the confidence to broach this pegging matter, thus forcing you to communicate.

It's right to determine your desires and own them. Telling your playmate what you like and want during and after sex essentially makes intercourse better. It's best to know that anal sex requires getting used to it, and communication will help you know how to get into him rightfully.

Some Men Like Pegging

Men like pegging due to the phenomenal orgasm they receive without too much struggle. Some men may not subscribe to the idea of pegging, but you'll find them having it in the masturbatory regime since they can orgasm by massaging their prostate.

Some women continuously get clitoral stimulation through the thrusting action. 

A certified sex expert in Michigan, Joe Kort, says that a person’s mind during sex determines their climaxing ability. Many women indulging in pegging mainly get sensitized by the fact that they dominate. The feeling of taking charge over a man gives them that satisfying arousal. 

How To Peg

Talk To Your Partner

The first step is having an in-depth talk with your partner and letting them know your thoughts on the experience of pegging. Know the role your playmate might want to play, submission or dominance. You can also integrate pegging during sexting to fantasize about it and anticipate the action.

Don’t Rush Events, Go Slow

There’s no way you’ll immediately race from nothing to using a dildo for a great experience. It’s recommended that you bring in a finger, followed by two, or a toy- butt plug. Use the finger for experimenting different stroke types, cycles, in and out movement, or sideways. Suppose the tissue starts feeling smooth, it's good as the nervous system is possibly relaxed and ready for deeper insertion. Sex therapists also suggest tracing the prostate when fingering to ease working on it with a dildo when inside.

Use lots of lube

Unlike the vagina, the anus does not self-lubricate. You shouldn’t worry about creating a mess. Don’t use a silicone-based lubricant if your dildo is crafted from silicone, as it will likely damage the toy’s surface. You need a water-based lube for safety.

Get Into Position

Sex positions in pegging vary in couples. However, the best suggestion is doggy style since both partners can effectively take control. Missionary sex position can also be used as it allows partners to maintain eye contact and make out. Spooning style is allowed as partners lie on their side in the same direction. Use various possible positions as agreed by both of you and have fun.

Clean Up

After the session, ensure there’s enough lube to help slide out easily, then head to aftercare practice. You can use a warm washcloth or a towel and wrap it around the dildo. Find out how your partner is doing and if the experience was fantastic.

Be ready to meet some poop. Cleaning is essential, and it should happen before the main session begins to get the toys and dildos ready. For the sheets, you can soak them and wash them later.

The Bottom Line

Pegging is a sex act where the woman wears a strap-on dildo and anally penetrates a man. It's continuing to gain popularity in people's consciousness. The main pleasure target is the prostate gland, described as the G-spot in men. Massaging this part stimulates the nerve endings to yield intensifying arousal that blows the receiver's mind. Some men say the stimulation leads to a full-body orgasm. Women who like pegging say they enjoy being the dominant partner, while others feel great from the clitoral stimulation when they penetrate and begin thrusting. If you need to familiarize yourself more about pegging, follow this guide and get the experience.


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