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Gay Sex Toys Guide by Sex Expert Tatyana Dyachenko

Gay Sex Toys Guide by Sex Expert Tatyana Dyachenko

Are you looking to enhance sensational pleasures with some uniquely designed gay sex toys? Typically, these sex toys are designed by experienced men who understand what other men want. They understand the sensual and intimate functions of such toys; hence they develop specific designs to suit every man. Therefore, here is a comprehensive guide to gay sex toys for men who need to test how they feel.

Gay Sex Toys Guide by Sex Expert Tatyana Dyachenko

Who is better suited to design a gay sex toy than a man? The market is now full of gay adult sex toys that cover anal play, prostate stimulation, and even penis stimulators. These devices include prostate massagers, butt plugs, penis extenders, and many more. However, before using them, you need to establish the type of sensation you are looking for and how to use the toy. The question you have to ask yourself is, do you want anal products such as anal probes, or are you looking for prostrate stimulators and ball stretchers? Regardless, below is an in-depth guide to gay sex toys to maximize your backdoor pleasures and take your game to the next level.

What Are Gay Sex Toys?

Morales et al. (2018) explained that a sex toy could generally be described as a device or object designed to enhance sensational and sexual pleasures by facilitating orgasms. Gay sex refers to sexual activity that involves two men. Therefore, gay sex toys fall in the broader category of toys designed to enhance anal or prostrate pleasures during male masturbation or with male partners. Some, such as huge butt plugs, can stretch the anus, while others with minimal designs like anal probes are used to prepare the anus for penetrative sex.

Common Features of Gay Sex Toys

Smith (2018) explained that gay sex toys would commonly feature anal sex toys and masturbation devices. These include dildos for women, but gay men can also benefit from them. Anal but plugs and anal beads are also common sex toys in the gay community. The anal but plugs come in different sizes or three different sizes to fit anyone from a beginner to a pro. Anal beads contain six aligned together and fit with a finger loop at the end; they are good for beginners. Gay sex toys also feature penis sleeves and other masturbation devices that suit solo play or with a partner. Vibrators are also common in gay couples to give different sensations, which will feature several remote-controlled ones to explore different sensations.

Why Use Gay Sex Toys?

Döring (2021) explained many health and relationship benefits related to incorporating gay sex toys in the bedroom. Zeglin et al. (2018) explained that gay couples could enhance intimacy and intensify orgasmic experiences by incorporating adult sex toys in their bedroom. Among others, below is why you should use gay sex toys:

Boost Sex Confidence

People know how an underwhelming bedroom performance can knock down one self-confidence. People often experience difficulty climaxing or getting an erection. Melin et al. (2019) explained that gay sex toys could go a long way in boosting your performance. Something as simple as using a penis sleeve or cock ring to achieve and maintain a hard erection can be a real confidence booster.

Maximize Sexual Satisfaction

McArthur (2017) suggested that gay couples who regularly use sex toys will likely increase their sexual pleasure and satisfaction. It is because gay sex toys heighten pleasures by intensifying the quality of orgasms and masturbation.

Enhances Intimacy

Couples who report positive sexual experiences are more likely to have better and more intimate relationships. To maintain that, you can utilize gay sex accessories in the bedroom, use role-plays, and fulfill each other's sexual desires using sex toys.

How the Different Types of Gay Sex Toys Compare

Men looking to grow their experience with gay sex toys can try the following types to decide which gives them the desired stimulation.

Anal Masturbators

Anal masturbators are simply torsos or full-body sex dolls that come with a tight anus and balls. Some are miniature, while others are life-sized and offer the realistic experience you can have with a partner.

Prostate Stimulators/Vibrators

Nothing compares to prostate orgasms, especially when achieved using specialized tools. While novices can start with anal fingering to stimulate the prostate or P-spot, a prostate massager gives heightened pleasure with fewer efforts. Prostate stimulators, which can include hands-free vibrators or massagers, elicit intense orgasms by hitting the nerve endings located around the prostate. An individual can feel the resulting orgasms from head to toe.

Anal Probes, Strokers, or Masturbators

An anal stroker or probe can be a great companion on a lonely night. Besides, it can be an excellent foreplay tool to help you play and stretch your anal sphincter muscle in preparation for penetrative anal sex.

Male Masturbators

Male masturbators are fairly new to the marketplace but are increasingly becoming popular. Design-wise, they feature an erect penis, a realistic bubble buttock, a tight anus, and balls for extra fun. These features are designed to offer a realistic experience.

Cock Rings

Gou et al. (2022) explained that cock rings enhance sexual performance. They help you achieve and maintain erections by preventing blood backflow from the erectile tissues. That way, you will achieve harder, stronger, and long-lasting erections.

Anal Douches

Hygiene is key in anal sex; this is where anal douching comes in. These accessories are perfect tools to keep your ass clean when indulging in anal sex play. Chandra (2021) explained that some douches could also enhance solo pleasure when used correctly, leading to countless anal orgasms in the shower.

Factors to Consider When Purchasing Gay Sex Toys

Shape and Texture

If you want to experience the feel of a guy thrusting in and out of you, select a straight toy with a fixed diameter and width from the base to the tip. That way, you will experience a realistic thrust. The toys should also have a smooth texture to let you focus on the thrusts and deep sensations.

Body-Safe Materials

Experts warn against porous jelly or PVC sex toys because they pose a high risk of cultivating bacteria and infections. Also, since the sex toy industry is still unregulated, you should be careful with what you use or insert into your most intimate parts.

Buy the Right Size

As a rule of thumb, you must start small and proceed accordingly, especially for beginners. Besides, the anus is super tight because of the sphincter muscles. Therefore, select a sex toy size that you feel comfortable with.

How to Use Gay Sex Toys

Gay Sex Toys Guide by Sex Expert Tatyana Dyachenko

Gay sex toys have different usage criteria. However, beginners in anal stimulation may need to start with fingers, smaller toys, or anal trainer kits before using larger anal accessories. Always remember that, unlike the vagina, the anus does not self-lubricate. Therefore, anal sex lube is necessary and should be applied to compatible sex toys before inserting.

Safety Tips

  • The anus does not self-lubricate; hence, apply plenty of anal lubricants. That is because the rectal muscles are delicate, and you should strive to avoid tears. When using sex toys, it is also vital to apply compatible lube.
  • When inserting butt plugs for anal play, it is preferable to use those with flared bases, rings, or pull cords. It is to prevent devices from being sucked inside by the anus.
  • Star with an anal douche for a hygienic and mess-free backdoor play.
  • If your hands get in contact with the anus, always wash your hands before touching your genitals.
  • Clean and dry your sex toys with hot soapy water and toy cleaner after every session.

The Best Lube To Use with Gay Sex Toys

When it comes to lube, the most common are silicone-based lube and water-based lube, and each will fit different toys. Silicone-based lube is thick and long-lasting; it doesn't wash off easily. On the other hand, water-based lube is not that long-lasting and washes off easily. The thing with lube and sex toys is that you have to select lube based on the material of the sex toy. If your toy is made from silicone, water-based lube or any other kind of lube will do apart from silicone-based lube. It is because silicone-based lube degrades silicone sex toys, and the last thing you want is to break your toy. Water-based lube is indiscriminate and will suit all sex toys.

How Couples Can Use Gay Sex Toys

Gay couples may incorporate sex toys to spice things up in the bedroom. The shape and size of the toy will be a factor to consider depending on the partners and their experience in sex toys. Also, the use of sex toys by gay couples may be either to hold the toy in place, use it for prostate gland stimulation, or during penetrative sex. Anal beads can be used for beginners as an introduction or to prepping the anus beforehand. One partner can use vibrators to stimulate the prostate gland of their partner. Penis sleeves come in different textures and may be used to improve the sensations in penetrative sex. Gay couples may also use remote-controlled toys, preferably vibrators, to experiment with different sensations and intensities.

Frequently Asked Questions about Gay Sex Toys

What Are Gay Sex Toys Made of?

Lauritzen (2020) explained that most sex toys are made of body-safe silicone, which is non-toxic and non-reactive to the skin. Otherwise, sex toys can also be made by an individual from stainless steel, which is easy to clean, but unlike silicone, they are not flexible. Gay sex toys can also be made from glass which is equally easy to clean and non-flexible. Rubber and plastic are other materials used to make sex toys, but they potentially harm the skin due to their chemical composition. Though they are expensive compared to others, silicone-made sex toys are the best.

Are There any Risks of Using Gay Sex Toys?

If sex toys are not used responsibly, they may put one at the risk of contracting sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and blood-borne infections, which are infections passed on via the blood. To go around this, cleanliness of the highest degree should be a priority when using sex toys. Using condoms on penetrative sex toys will also minimize the risk of STI infection. Gay couples should avoid sharing sex toys and have different sex toys for each partner. Couples should also use penetrative sex toys carefully to avoid injury where blood may be drawn and may act as a means of passing blood-borne infections such as HIV and AIDS.

How Often Should I Use a Gay Sex Toy

In the course of experiencing sexual pleasure, different people seek different sensations and different effects. Some seek sexual satisfaction in their reproductive system alone, while others seek more intimacy. Those who only seek sexual satisfaction may get it from their partners or sex toys. So, whether flying solo or with a partner, how often you use the sex toy is up to you; furthermore, it is for your pleasure. Things are rather different when it comes to those who seek intimacy during sex as they may limit sex toys, but all in all, how much you use a sex toy is up to you. Just make sure that you get a quality gay sex toy that is durable and will last long. 

Conclusion

Gay sex toys are on the rise as most men who want to arouse themselves and use them in the bedroom are accessing them. It is important as it helps the individual feel what they want; other individuals cannot stimulate that. There are different sex toys on the market for gay men, and individuals can choose from them to soothe their personal needs. Gay sex toys can be selected by an individual depending on some aspects such as the size, the materials of the toys, and the experience that one has. Individuals should be careful when using such toys as they can be harmful when badly used. 

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