ANAL MASTURBATION: HOW TO MAKE IT INTENSELY PLEASURABLE

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The thought of anal masturbation may sound taboo as most women are quick to stimulate their clitoris or vagina only. Some people may need to work themselves up to the idea, while the exploration of anal play may come naturally to others. If you need an immense orgasm, you may need to learn how best to masturbate anally in a way that perfectly works in your body. This article will outline how to masturbate anally to generate intense pleasure.

Have you ever asked yourself why people like anal masturbation? Well, here is the perfect answer in case you haven't got one. As a woman, sometimes it becomes quite challenging to start thinking about how you could blow up the moment because you don't have a prostate like a man. However, few women can orgasm when incorporating butt play into their masturbation session, which they enjoy too much. Anal orgasm is not possible to be archived, but you can still feel fantastic when inserting items around the entrance of your anus. Now let us dig deep on how you can make anal masturbation more pleasurable and what types of sex toys to use.

Types of Anal Sex Toys

There are many things that you can use internally for anal play. You can easily access them from your local sex shop or a trusted online retailer. Some of the sex toys that would give you immense anal pleasure include the following:

Dildos 

They can be used if they have a flared base, or you can still use them with a strap-on-harnesses. You can also experiment with thrusting and angled dildos to make this more pleasurable. You can also use juicing dildos, typically glassing with a flared base. Instead of thrusting, these versions always come with a crack that you can use to turn them. 

Anal Vibrator

They come in different sizes. Some may look like a G-spot toy, while others come while "C" shaped.  If you need simultaneous anal or vaginal stimulation, you can use the ones with multiple prongs and extensions. Always thrust with the right shape, or you can as well hold them in place.

Butt Plugs

Butt plugs have flared bases, making them suitable for insertion since they remain in place during masturbation or having sex.

Anal Beads

They consist of beads arranged in a row on a string.  For intense anal pleasure, insert the beads and pull them out one by one. You can still use a similar silicone toy with bulges since they are also more hygienic.

The shapes, sizes, and colors of anal sex toys may sometimes vary. You may find butt plugs with pretty gems at the base. Also, you may find a flowing fury tail that will still give you fun. Well, some toys are shaped like tongues to give a rimming sensation. For anal training, all you need to do is gradually increase the size at your pleasure. Sometimes you may decide to use your finger to stimulate your butts. It is probably the best option for newbies before shelling sex toys.

Most people think that Anal masturbation necessarily needs to have penetration. That is not the case since sometimes you don't need to insert anything at all. If you need to send a shiver down your spine, you can also use your finger or a vibrator around your anal opening.  Also, you can consider small vibrators for external use if you don’t fancy insertion.

How to Prepare for Anal Play

Most people are worried about butt play turning out to be too messy. To avoid that, you need proper preparation by ensuring bowel movement earlier in the day. Make sure you thoroughly clean it in the shower or using wet wipes. A small douche may be used to rinse the canal if there is any remaining matter for thorough hygiene. You should also avoid anal play if you feel ill or constipated since it may lead to embarrassing and unsightly situations.

Before inserting any item, always make sure it is free from ridges and sharp edges. You can fill or cut down your fingernails to avoid cutting the soft tissues, failure to which you risk getting infections due to bacteria formed in the tear of your anal lining.

Don’t Forget Anal Lubricants.

Another vital aspect is to use sex lubricant in much quantity for ease insertion since the butt is not self-lubricating like the vagina. Always consider a thick lubricant to reduce friction since they are long-lasting than water-based lubes. Nevertheless, please do not use it so much since it will make you lose your grip on your toy.  Just keep the bottle within in case you may need to reapply. 

How to Get the Most Out of Anal Play

Make sure you are always relaxed before getting into the dirty game. You can use candles, music, or lighting to set up the mood. Go further and explore your body and masturbate as much as your body would require. This will bring your body to orgasm, making your muscles relax fully. To get the same effect on your butthole, you need to relax your throat. For easier insertion, push slightly to expand your sphincter muscle.

Materials with ridges or a velvet finishing might cause dragging, so ensure to use smooth material for maximum pleasure and easy insertion. If you need to warm the toy for more sensation, all you need to do is place it in a bowl of warm water. Alternatively, you can wrap it with a warm cloth before insertion.  Such activity will make your anus relaxed since cold toys may shock the body.

Everyone has their preference since there is no right or wrong way for anal masturbation. For some, slowly thrusting the finger in and out maybe their favorite method, while others may like to wear a butt plug while masturbating vaginally with their favorite G-spot toy.  Running your finger around your hole when you are on the verge of clitoral orgasm might sound fantastic. Some women may achieve vaginal stimulation when playing anally. To make the game more intimate, try to orgasm anally the same time your partner is about to cum.  If you have a toy in both holes, you can achieve dual stimulation through anal masturbation. The sensation may transmit through the thin vaginal wall into the other if one of the toys is a vibrator.

The Bottom Line

While anal sex may sound taboo, the idea can come naturally to others who want to explore their backdoor for solo pleasure. However, if you are interested in incorporating anal play in your sex life, always consider using smooth toys with sex lubes for maximum pleasure. You should also ensure you are always relaxed before the game. With these safety tips at your fingertips, you can masturbate as many times as your body may need.