PROSTATE MASSAGE 101: MULTIPLE, GIGANTIC, SHAKING, FULL-BODY ORGASMS?

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Do you want to have an orgasm twice as intense? Which type of orgasm do you want to experience? What is prostate massage? What are some of the orgasms one might experience? This article explains prostate massage and some types of orgasms that an individual may experience. 

It may be better than the usual feeling, say four or five times more orgasms. If it makes you feel better, individuals should learn the science behind massaging the prostate. It's the most effective route to a different erotic pleasure level. Despite society’s liberation of sex, some old practices, including pegging and prostate play, are becoming dominant as men's activities for all sexual urges and orientations. Even the internet carries most of this information, including sex toy manufacturers that design new models from time to time. Numerous toys may not provide enough details on using them, such as prostate massagers. But we shall discuss how to massage the prostate and ultimately intensify orgasms safely. 

Understanding The Prostate

The prostate gland is a man's organ sited in the endocrine system. It produces prostate fluid found in semen. Its located below the bladder and near the urethra in the male genitalia. According to Eidelman et al. (2017), this organ is popular for its excitement when stimulated with a new orgasm that leaves your mind-blowing in ecstasy. You can reach it using two methods: the anus lining, which is found around two inches toward the anus. Insert your fingers crocked towards the testicles. You can also use the perineum- a small part between an individual's balls and anus to access it. Pushing your hand firmly through his skin can arouse the prostate.

The prostate gland is walnut-shaped. It feels stronger when sensitized. If you notice a different texture or size, larger, it may indicate the prostate is unhealthy. Perhaps you're afraid of getting to the prostate because of its access through the anus. Maybe you're not sure about his action in massaging the prostate because you think he's gay. You being a woman and he's a man, you're attracted to one another and have sex. That means he's not gay. You may also be straight but enjoy anal sex play. Don't be afraid. Explore the pleasure with him and if one hesitates, discuss between yourselves and make him learn about trying out a new thing for pleasure.

Prostate Massaging; Preparation

Some individuals are uncomfortable about prostate massaging, thinking it can be a mess. When dealing with anal play, expect messes with fecal waste. But an individual can lower the mishap by applying the considerations below;

• Thorough clean using wet wipes.
• Use a small anal douche to rinse the part.
• One clean recent bowel movement should be clean. Advise one to eat more fiber for a more regular bowel movement.
• Remember to shower and refresh.

Preparation involves cutting your nails short and making them feel smooth to avoid injuries when stimulating your man (Cadilhe 2017). A barrier may also feel better when massaging your partner. For example, a condom is good when worn on one or two fingers. You can substitute with a glove but ensure to avoid latex, especially if any of you is allergic. Another preparation tip is lubrication. Apply enough lube on the finger and glove for smoother slipping when massaging. Sex toys, such as prostate massagers, can help if your fingers get exhausted. That way, prostate massaging will be safe and more pleasurable.

Making The Experience Unforgettable

While you may be excited to get into prostate play directly, some things are ideal for putting in mind if you want them to enjoy. Suppose you're a beginner; going slower defines it all. It also applies to women trying anal play for the first time. Therefore, before inserting the fingers or toy, stimulate him manually around the anus and butt. Ensure to apply more lubrication because his prostate doesn't self-lubricate like the vagina. According to Padoan et al. (2017), a thick water-based lubricant is recommended as one may also pick silicone-based lube for its long-lasting features, but reapplication is necessary when needed.

Insert one finger and increase gradually to the point one gets used to them and loves the feeling. Offer a sensual massage and encourage one to inhale deeply throughout the session. It helps relax the body for more excitement. If you were having a quickie, getting to the prostate may not help because reaching the climax may take almost an hour. In sex, we say it's better to focus on the journey than the outcome. The practice reduces any possible pain during the process.

Massaging The Prostate; How It Feels

Many individuals enjoy prostate massaging or milking, but the feeling differs in each. It may cause an erection instantly. One may also soften when they stimulate it, but that doesn't mean they don't like it. Sextreffen (2020) explained that one must stick to communication if they want a unique experience. Moreover, it may require several trials before getting an orgasm. A man needs to adapt and embrace the pressure or improper control during this process to get there. It also takes some time for sensation to accumulate. 

Individuals got varied descriptions of how it feels from different men. For instance, one said that it feels good. Another individual termed it a deep sensation that felt as if their penis was being sensitized. Many described it as a massage feeling but from another angle. Others said the massage made them acquire a peeing feeling. Perhaps the feeling might be similar to stimulating the G-spot. It's a way women can also understand how prostate stimulation feels in men. Surprisingly, many of the interviewed men couldn't describe the feeling completely.

Prostate Orgasm

Different men reported that prostate orgasm feels more intense. They talked of how they lost control of their legs, becoming 'spaghetti .'They noted longer recovery and breath-catching afterward. Others said they ejaculated longer than usual. The process may be easier if a partner massages and the guy mainly focuses on the sensation. Once one cums, stop the massaging and pull out slowly and allow the body to readjust to the empty emotion.

Conclusions

Prostate massaging is a wonderful way to get ultimate stimulation for double or triple orgasm intensity. An individual can also combine it with other sex plays to make the feeling more pleasurable. The main trick is taking matters slower than slow, especially for beginners, to void, ruining the feeling. 

References 

Cadilhe, J. P. (2017). Transrectal prostate biopsy after prophylactic preparation of the rectum with povidone-iodine–A prospective randomized trial. J Urol, 197, e143. 

Eidelman, E., Twum-Ampofo, J., Ansari, J., & Siddiqui, M. M. (2017). The metabolic phenotype of prostate cancer. Frontiers in oncology, 7, 131.

Padoan, A., Basso, D., Zambon, C. F., Prayer-Galetti, T., Arrigoni, G., Bozzato, D., ... & Plebani, M. (2018). To identify prostate cancer biomarkers, MALDI-TOF peptidomics analysis of serum and post-prostatic massage urine specimens. Clinical proteomics, 15(1), 1-15.

Sextreffen, K. (2020). Prostata Massage Sex.