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Best Lube for Anal Sex: What to Look for And What to Avoid

  • by Jekaterina Gussarova

GRAB THE LUBE, AND LET'S CELEBRATE ANAL SEX DAY!

Whether you are new to anal sex or are an expert, it's time to celebrate anal sex. Grab your lube today and learn about anal sex day in this article.

Butthole sex differs from oral or vaginal sex. You need preparation to get the most out of it. That is because the anal hole was not originally meant for sex like the vagina. However, it has numerous nerve endings that lead to intense pleasures when stimulated. For that reason, people have been exploring the anal hole for pleasure over the years. April 18 is the national anal sex day. In this guide, you will learn how anal sex is done so that you can be prepared for the same. The guide also features some tips you can use for celebrations and explore different approaches to anal sex.

How to Celebrate Anal Sex Day

Get Erotically Inspired

You can achieve this by visiting the Volente Website for the fiction section. It will fill you with every taste you have or haven't used in your life. The stories on this website will help your imaginations run wild quickly. It features a three-part erotic adaptation that will erotically inspire you to have anal sex. Also, it involves a certain lesbian's first anal sex experience, and it just fits you for a perfect holiday.

Study It Up

According to Marston & Lewis (2014), you must study anal sex before engaging in it. The anal sex experts you think of never woke up and found themselves where they are. They started from the bottom step by step until they achieved their level of expertise. You can also do the same. There are many anal sex guides on this website. They will help you bone up before engaging on the journey of anal sex day. Although the back door is unique depending on the person, grabbing a lube is safe for everyone because the anus doesn't self-lubricate like the vagina.

Let Your Mouth Do the Moves

You may be new to anal sex and know nothing about it. It may be because of your culture or beliefs that hindered you from exploring. However, that is no problem. You must realize that in anal sex, penetration doesn't have to be the key and main point in the play. You can include other types of play, such as rimming for additional pleasure to your sex life. Do not knock it off unless you have rimmed. This is for your good as it will enable you to explore different stages of anal sex for more pleasure.

Switch Positions

Most people assume that the doggy style is the best position for anal sex. Although it is, many other better anal sex positions will make your experience one of a kind. They include:

Doggy Style      

The receiving partner will be on all fours while the penetrating partner stands or kneels behind them. It is the same for vaginal sex. The only difference is the love hole (butt hole). This position is perfect for beginners because the receiving partner controls the speed, rhythm, and penetration depth. The position is fun because you can add sex toys such as vibrators for additional pleasure on other erogenous parts like the nipple and clitoris, as described by Döring (2021).

Side-By-Side Anal Sex Position

This position is also good for beginners. When lying down on the sides, the anal muscles relax and coupled with the lube applied, penetration will be easy and comfortable. It is like a spooning sex position, but penetration is involved in this context. After lying down on your sides, let your partner penetrate you from behind and feel the bliss. It will cause your butt hole to relax and call in for deeper penetration. According to Sayin (2012), you can add a sex toy for extra stimulation on other erogenous zones.

Lap Dance Anal Sex Position

In this position, the receiving partner has a lot of control over the overall situation. It involves the receiving partner sitting on the penetrating partner's lap while facing away–like a lap dance. They can then move at their desired pace, depth, and comfort after penetration. The position allows the receiver to stimulate other erogenous zones such as nipples and clitoris.

Back It Up Anal Sex Position

This position is good for partners who want to experience anal sex while standing. It calls for allowing penetration; thus, it is the beginner's best position. You can add a pillow or wedge for comfort if the position seems tough for you.

Practice Pegging

Anal sex is perfect for anyone; hence if you have prostate glands, you need to get done and explore it for more pleasure. According to Maddison (2012), pegging is now a common anal sex activity that's on-trend like vaginal sex.

Use a Vibrating Plug

Since sex toys have filled the world of sex toys, it would be a loss of pleasure if you didn't include some butt plugs and remote-control vibrators. These toys are perfect for exploring the butt holes, making you tremble with pleasure. The toys are flared at the base for hand-free sensations and safety.

The Bottom Line

This article doesn't guide you on how to live your life. However, if you want safe anal sex, lube is a must regardless of whether you are an expert or beginner. Doing slower thrust call for more pleasure, and the erotic intensity is also boosted. You are not competing on who goes faster; hence take your time and explore the pleasures in the butt hole. Any sex toy used for anal stimulation must be flared to prevent it from sinking into the butt hole. Wear a condom on the toy before acting on the other love holes, such as the vagina. You need to study anal sex before engaging in it.

References

Döring, N. (2021). Sex toysEncyclopedia of sexuality and gender. Cham, Switzerland: Springer.

Maddison, S. (2012). Is the rectum still a grave? Anal sex, pornography and transgression. Transgression 2.0: Media, Culture, and the Politics of a Digital Age, 86-100.

Marston, C., & Lewis, R. (2014). Anal heterosex among young people and implications for health promotion: a qualitative study in the UK. BMJ open4(8), e004996.

Sayin, U. (2012). Doors of female orgasmic consciousness: New theories on the peak experience and mechanisms of female orgasm and expanded sexual response. NeuroQuantology10(4).


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