How To Anal Masturbate for Total Beginners

Anal masturbation is becoming common among people. The modern culture is embracing this type of stimulation and some of the many other types of orgasms. A person cannot go without hearing any word about anal sex like rimming, pegging, and poppers nowadays. Consider exploring tips for doing anal masturbation, and its benefits.

Anal masturbation is the stimulation of the anus, the rectum, or the prostate area for sexual pleasure and satisfaction. This is mostly done by oneself and their comfort and pleasure. Below is a guide on acquiring pleasures from anal masturbation.

Benefits Of Anal Masturbation

• Lowered stress levels in the body are due to the release of dopamine.
• Better sleep patterns
• Improved mood levels due to the release of the feel-good hormone of the body.
• Helps one to explore the parts of the body that has been less talked about or thought about.
• Anal masturbation gives pleasure, like any other form of masturbation.

According to Salonia et al. (2020), the anal orifice and canal have a huge supply of nerve endings that work to provide a huge level of pleasure when stimulated. it allows anal masturbation to happen.

Tips on Making it Right

Anal masturbation has a few tips on how you can go about it to make it right. They include

Choosing the Right Method

Anal masturbation has two key players which are toys and manual stimulation.

Manual stimulation involves the physical touching of the anus and its opening, as Valente (2005) noted. The most common thing to use is lube which will help in allowing the fingers to easily enter the anus for shallow penetration. A person may also use latex gloves or finger clots which will be discarded afterward for hygiene.  Most important is maintaining hand hygiene after the anal play as one is required to wash their hands before they touch anything else to avoid the transfer of micro-organisms and infectious particles onto other surfaces.

Using Of Sex Toys Such As Butt Plugs, Anal Beads, Rimming Toys, Dildos

Most sex toys work in the same way in stimulating the anal opening giving sensuous pleasure to the person doing the anal play. They come in different shapes and sizes and have a variety of methods of how they can be used. They are found in the vibrating and non-vibrating forms which aim at giving pleasure to the desired range of the user. According to Taormino et al. (2006),  sex toys are mostly used to stimulate the anus rim or the walls of the rectum as in the case of the dildos. All of them are considerably used for the solo stimulation of a person. It s advised that a beginner should start from the low levels and climb up to the high levels of using these toys where two can be combined for more pleasure. Also using lube is important for the lube to decrease the levels of discomfort.

Preps for Anal Masturbation

Cleaning

A person should clean themselves up by showering properly before engaging in anal plays, as McKie et al. (2020) suggested. A person might also try to defecate and clear up the rectum in considerable time before the start of anal play. This will prevent coming into contact with any fecal matter that may disgust the person and destroy the mood for anal play. However, if you feel a little uncomfortable with the anal movement it is not advisable to indulge in anal play because something disgusting might happen and it will create a mess.

Loading Up on the Lube

It is important to use a lot of lube if you are a beginner because this will help in easing the discomfort that comes about with trying anal masturbation. Skin to skin contact between the toys and the skin around the anus may lead to tearing and fissures around the anus if lube is not used. The type of lube depends on the type of anal toy being used. It is advised to use latex or silicone made and wooden toys to reduce the effect of friction on them causing a tear on the normal rubber which will eventually lead to a wound on the anal surface or the walls of the rectum.

Relaxed Mood

The key to a successful anal play is getting relaxed totally and stimulating your mind to get into the mood for anal play. This helps in maintaining the aura of anal masturbation. This can be done by reading erotic stories that involve anal masturbation, watching anal pornography while touching the anus, and gently rubbing it to provide a sensation to stimulus. This can also be achieved by lighting scented candles in the room, keeping the room dimly lit, taking a warm bath, with essential oils, and practicing the heavy breathing patterns. Once this is achieved, you can now start the exploration by slowly pushing your finger or toy past the anus rim before trying to go in further up the rectum.

Tips on Anal Masturbation

Keep the nails short and if possible, wear gloves to allow for good hygiene. Also taking breaks is important to allow for breathing and relaxation. Anal masturbation while in the shower will work very well because it will relax the muscles of the anus and whole-body muscles. Also, try other speeds and motions to help in realizing the best speeds to use so that optimum pleasure. Some like fast motions while others like deep slow motions.

Conclusion

Anal masturbation can be done using different sex positions such as doggy style, missionary, with your facedown on the bed and straddle. it's advisable to clean up and take a shower after anal masturbation. You are supposed to stop masturbating for a while until you feel ready to try again if you feel pain in the anus or the experience is not good.

Anal play is categorized as a way to stimulate the anus and is very recommendable for all those who want to try it. It provides an opportunity to explore yourself.

References

Mckie, R. M., Skakoon-Sparling, S., Levere, D., Sezlik, S., & Humphreys, T. P. (2020). Is There Space For Our Stories? An Examination Of North American And Western European Gay, Bi, And Other Men Who Have Sex With Men’s Non-Consensual Sexual Experiences. The Journal Of Sex Research, 57(8), 1014-1025.

Salonia, A., Giraldi, A., Chivers, M. L., Georgiadis, J. R., Levin, R., Maravilla, K. R., & Mccarthy, M. M. (2010). Physiology Of Women's Sexual Function: Basic Knowledge And New Findings. The Journal Of Sexual Medicine, 7(8), 2637-2660.

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