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How to Use a Large Dildo

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How to Use a Large Dildo

  • by Katie Peachesa

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✨ Key Takeaways ✨

  • 🔗 Not all dildos fit every harness – check compatibility before purchase!
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  • 📏 Size matters – make sure the girth and length suit your comfort level.
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  • 💪 Sturdiness is key – firmer dildos work better for hands-free fun.
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  • 🔄 O-rings and Vac-U-Lock systems – know your options!
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  • 🎭 Experiment and have fun – the right fit makes all the difference!

💡 Expert Tips & Advice 💡

  • 🛠️ Double-check your harness size before buying a new dildo.
  • 🧼 Silicone dildos are top-tier – body-safe, durable, and easy to clean.
  • 🩲 Adjustable harnesses offer the best fit and comfort.
  • 🛍️ Invest in a quality harness for a secure and pleasurable experience.
  • 💃 Confidence is key – the right toy and harness combo will elevate your play!

By Tatyana Dyachenko

When it comes to penetrative sex, size always matters. While some may prefer their dongs small or average sized, there are those who like the bigger things in life. Large dildos are by far the most intensive toys as they require a bit more practice compared to the other dildos. Large dildos are designed to be used by those with a bit of experience under their belt. When it comes to beginners, the medium sized toys are a bit less intimidating compared to the large dildos. If you have had your fair share of dildos and are looking for some big loving, here is how you go about it.

How to Use a Large Dildo

Choosing Your Large Dildo

Material

The composite material of the dildos can be categorized as flexible or rigid. The flexible large dildos include those made from rubber and silicone. Although the flexibility is slight, it makes the toy a bit easier to use especially during vigorous play. Rigid materials include stainless steel and glass. These may not be the best toys if you are just starting out in the large dildo game.

How to Use a Large Dildo

Size

When the word large is mentioned, this is relative. Every brand has its own measuring system and the sizes may vary from brand to brand. To be on the safe side, always check the circumference of the dildo you plan on purchasing to ensure that you get the right dildo and not one that may be too small or too big that you cannot handle.

Using the Dildo

How to Use a Large Dildo

Lubrication

When it comes to using sex toys, lubrication is of the utmost importance. With large dildos, you are assured that you will be stretched out to your limit, and this requires a generous amount of lubrication to prevent any friction that may lead to intense pain. Water based lube is compatible with so many types of toys and is the safest option when it comes to indulging in the large toys. However, depending on your sensitivity to ensure that you do not get a lube that may have a negative reaction with your skin.

Solo Play

Once you are ready to start your session, ensure that your toy is cleaned and sanitized. Apply a generous amount of lubricant on the toy and your vaginal opening. If you feel a bit tight, you can take the time to warm up with your smaller toys. Whether using a bullet vibe or a medium sized dildo, get the muscles relaxed to ensure the stretching goes smoothly. Once you feel ready, insert the toy slowly inch by inch while monitoring the sensations to ensure that you do not tear anything. Once the toy is inserted, grab a hold of the base and start stroking slowly, increasing the tempo as you feel like to match your needs and mood.

For a vibrating large dildo, turn on the motor and enjoy the intense vibrations that take a hold of your body. Play with the controller to feel the various vibrational patterns and pulses until you reach the orgasmic finale that you crave for.

Couples’ Play

Using a dildo for penetrative sex is not confined to the singles only. The dildo can be incorporated into play time either for double penetration purposes or as you both see fit. For some, climaxing is a problem if the dick is not big enough. For such, the dildo comes in handy for after your partner cums, he can use the dildo to get you to reach your orgasmic bliss. However, the large dildo can also be used for pegging purposes. By getting a compatible strap on harness, you get to give your partner the filling sensation that is bound to have them enjoying every single moment in orgasmic bliss.

How to Use a Large Dildo

Cleaning Your Large Dildo

When it comes to maintenance of the large dildo, cleaning is of the ultimate importance. For non-porous surfaces, cleaning is simple and easy. However, porous surface trap fluids and tend to require intensive cleaning. You could always wrap up your dildo in a condom to make the process easier but this beats the purpose. Always ensure that you never share dildos with porous surfaces and if you plan to share the non-porous ones, thoroughly sanitize the toy before and after use.

How to Use a Large Dildo


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