11 THINGS YOU NEVER KNEW ABOUT THE FEMALE ORGASM
Have you ever noticed that female orgasms in movies and porn films are easy to achieve? They're made to appear explosive and extremely simple. Female orgasms may require more effort. Therefore, people need to learn and familiarize themselves with a few things to help ease the work. Some information and misconception, such as condoms can prevent orgasms, may be misleading. This article discusses some facts that will help you deal with your partner for unbeatable sexual experiences. Let's read on to gain more knowledge.
Orgasms Can Possibly Ease Pain
Research has shown that orgasms can relieve various body pains, such as headaches and surgical pain. The oxytocin hormone produced helps in relaxation and bonding. The relief may not be long-lasting, but it can be of help.
Female Orgasms Are Easy
A 2018 study suggested that about 10-40% of women could not achieve an orgasm, with others having difficulties achieving them. Various reasons such as anxiety, stress, and moods, can result to failed orgasms. Another study suggested that lubrication and arousal difficulties were among the reasons of failed orgasms in women.
Doubts In The G-spot Existence
A study suggested that the squishy emotion felt when inserting a finger on the upper internal vagina is at the urethral tissue covered by the clit's arms. This part is believed to indirectly affect the vagina and clit when sensitized.
Orgasms Get Better With Age
When a person ages, their frequency and orgasms quality get better. A survey noted that about 61% of women aged between 18 and 24 didn't experience an orgasm when they last had sex. The opposite happened for 70% of women aged between 40-50, whereas 65% of those aged 30 and above had an orgasm. The survey wasn’t clear about the ease of getting an orgasm. It may be because older women have more experience, thus play the game well.
Combining Several Techniques Helps
Sex therapists advise that you switch things up if reaching an orgasm is giving you headaches. Women can achieve orgasms when engaging in numerous stimulation acts. For instance, combining oral and vaginal sex can steam up a woman to initiate an orgasm. Don’t dwell on intercourse alone to climax. You can incorporate sex toys to up the game.
An Orgasm Takes Time
Most women orgasm after their male partners, and this is perfectly fine. Women can take up to 13 minutes to steam up before orgasming.
Genital Stimulation May Be Unnecessary
When stimulated, the nipples react similarly to the cervix, clit, and vagina. Its stimulation releases oxytocin hormones that cause uterine contractions, triggering the genital brain area.
You can join online support groups with individuals experiencing spontaneous orgasms (an orgasm lacking genital arousal).
Most Women Fake Orgasms
About 85% of women reported lying about reaching the crescendo in their lives. They gave various reasons for faking it, such as they wanted to boost their man's ego or want to finish a sex session. Most women hide their expression for sexual needs. There's a lot of pressure for women's orgasms, resulting in guilt and performance anxiety. It's best to have an open discussion for better stimulations.
Cannabis Heightens Orgasm Chances
Some proof shows that cannabis can increase sexual desires and the orgasms chances. It works by its vasodilating property that raises blood flow, leading to more arousal. It's more meaningful to women because blood flow is great for lubrication, thus boosting the general sexual experience.
Clitoral Stimulations Give the Most Orgasms
A study concluded that only 6% of women achieved internal orgasm. Conversely, another study suggested that 36.6% of women achieved orgasms through clitoral stimulation. You can use the two techniques simultaneously to receive multiple pleasure and orgasms. This can be through particular sex positions, including cowgirl and doggy styles that allow access to the clitoris.
Lesbians Orgasm More Than Straight Women
There's a gap between orgasms in lesbians and straight women. A study indicated that more than 80% of lesbians said they mostly climaxed. 66% of bisexuals and 65% of heterosexuals achieved it. This has more weight on the sex type in place. The study also suggested that most women that had an orgasm indulged in manual genital stimulation and deep kissing, meaning foreplay is also key.
The Bottom Line
The above hacks are important, especially for male partners, to note to help improve their women's orgasming experiences. More research is underway to provide more information about what ruins female pleasure and sexuality. Understanding female orgasms helps reduce the pleasure gap.