What are some ideas that can spice up one's sex life? Can an individual use a phone to spice up their sex life? How can you improve your sex life? This article explains five ideas that one can use to spice up their sex life by using a phone. 

If you’re looking to find new ways to spice up your sex life, one place to start is with your phone. That’s right, your phone. These five ideas will show you how to make your sex life better in many ways, from increasing foreplay to helping with the clean-up process. And all you need is your phone. All it takes is these five ideas and a bit of imagination.

Have a Phone Date

Sometimes your partner might be away for an unexpected responsibility, but how can you keep the fire burning? Ai et al. (2015) stated that a  great way to keep in touch is through your phone. Plan on a day when both of you are free and get ready for a date; the only thing that would be different is that this time your date will be through the phone. Get crazy and prepare a nice meal while you are video calling your partner for an amazing time even though they might be a mile away. Having fun with sex over a video call is not just limited to food and talking; it can also extend into some naughty play. With phones getting more advanced every year, there's no reason why you shouldn't take advantage of what technology has to offer unless your partner doesn't like having fun. To spice up your sex life by using your phone as part of it all, follow these tips: Make sure there's nothing that could disturb either one of you or cause problems like pets running around or kids screaming in the background.

Use Apps to Spice Things Up

The greatest thing that has happened with smartphones is apps. There are apps for nearly everything, although there might be apps for the silliest thing you might think of: there are great apps that you can use to spice up things with your partner. If you and your partner are the types that love having fun in a little competition, then measuring up your time in action or how loud you can go can be a great start. Cama (2021) stated that individuals could even measure the number of calories they burnt while doing sex; the apps have no limit.

Another great way to use the apps and games on your phone to spice up your sexual experience is playing a good sex game just before bed. It can be a great foundation for a nasty night; for example, the sex game can give you in detail what you need to do to your partner. Playing a sex game just before bed can be a fun new way of turning each other on. Even more, apps help you with pleasure and pain during sex. Some applications let you create photo albums or videos where you can make notes and write your own rules on how things should go.

With the advancing technologies these days, you can even use your phone as a remote controller to control your partner’s toy. Take it up a notch by stimulating them when you are out in the park or taking a walk. It will be fun to watch them take every vibration while struggling to walk or act normally. It is a fun way to enjoy your time with your partner while they enjoy an awesome stimulation at the same time. The phones have no limit. You can also download some cool apps that can spice things up and make sex more interesting for both of you. You might want to check on how many calories you burned during sex and how long it took you to reach a climax or see how long your partner lasted before he came.

Keep Your Phone Handy in Bed

Contrary to what phones can do today, phones could only be used by an individual for talking in the past. The smartphones in the modern era can do nearly everything; you can access music and videos easily with a single click. Let the phone be a little more useful, as Ahlm (2018) explained that individuals could use the phone to watch some porn with their partner as they get ready. You can find new and interesting porn videos that you and your partner might be interested in trying out yourself with a single click.

Your Phone into a Personal Massager: One of the best things about phones is that they are portable, and you can carry them with you anywhere. An individual can use many adult toys in bed, but they can be very bulky or big to carry around with you all day long. The phone is always on hand, so why not use it as a vibrator? You can use your phone as a personal massager, turn up some relaxing music and have fun with your partner; you could also add sensual massage oils for extra pleasure.

Just put your phone on vibration mode and take your creativity to a new level. Almost everybody has tried using the phone as a vibrator when one is alone, so why not try it out with your partner. Let your imagination have no limit.

Try New Position Thanks to Technology

With just a single click, you and your partner can get a collection of a whole new sex position to try out yourself. Cirilli et al. (2019) stated that some might be a little extreme, some might be easy and seem familiar, but they are worth trying out. Trying out new sex positions with your partner will come a long way to help your relationship stronger as you get to know what each partner loves and enjoys during sex. You might even find a new way to make your partner orgasm with less effort while exploring new ways. 

If you don't know how to start things off, here is an example: The Love Hone app allows couples to discover over 400+ different sex positions that should spice up their love life with one another. It also offers tips on making things better for both partners by using techniques that aren't commonplace in every bedroom worldwide. Each video tutorial is designed specifically for that position so that both parties involved understand exactly what is expected from them without confusion. So you have the whole Kamasutra in your palms every day, be sure to use it and maximize its advantage.

Record Yourself Having Fun

What is better than having sex with your partner? Recording it and watching it over and over again. Modern technologies allow your phones to have amazing recording capabilities, so why not use them when you're with your partner. When you decide to take a naughty walk in the woods with your partner, you can spice things up by recording your sexual experiences together. The thought of recording yourself and having a camera recording your every touch will give you an amazing adrenaline rush to enjoy the sex even more. If making a sex tape is on one of your bucket lists with your partner, you better grab the phone in your pocket and make the most out of the moment you have.

Conclusions 

The phone is just more than a talking device. These are just examples that prove you can turn anything you have at hand to spice your time together with your partner. Be creative and try out new things with your phone; we are sure you will enjoy having it around even more.

References 

Ahlm, J. (2018). Mediated Sexualities and the" Dating Apocalypse": Gender, Race and Sexual Identity on Hookup Apps (Doctoral dissertation, the University of Illinois at Chicago).

Ai, L., Chen, S., & Jin, S. (2015, January). A Panel Date Model of Cell Phone Internet Influencing on Undergraduates’ Score. In 2015 International Symposium on Computers & Informatics (pp. 998-1005). Atlantis Press.

Cama, E. (2021). Understanding Experiences of Sexual Harms Facilitated through Dating and Hook Up Apps among Women and Girls. In The Emerald International Handbook of Technology Facilitated Violence and Abuse. Emerald Publishing Limited.

Cirilli, E., Nicolini, P., & Mandolini, L. (2019). Digital skills from silent to alpha generation: an overview. In Edulearn19: 11th International Conference on Education and New Learning Technologies; Chova, LG, Martinez, AL, Torres, IC, Eds (pp. 5134-5143).