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A Beginner’s Guide to Rough Sex

A Beginner's Guide to Rough Sex

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A Beginner's Guide to Rough Sex

  • by Katie Peachesa

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💥 Key Points to Remember 💥

  • 🔑 Understand your boundaries before diving in!
  • 💬 Communication is key – talk to your partner!
  • 💖 Safety first – always ensure consent!
  • 🔥 Warm up and take your time – rushing isn’t fun!

🧠 Key Advice and Tips from Our Experts 🧠

  • 👂 Always check in with your partner – it’s not just about the action!
  • 💬 Verbal and non-verbal cues are equally important – stay tuned to them!
  • ⏳ Don’t forget aftercare – your partner’s well-being matters!
  • 🌟 Practice makes perfect – the more you experiment, the more you’ll discover!

By Tatyana Dyachenko

Now when you’re young and in one of your first sexual relationships you may find that being romantic and gentle is the way to go. A few years into any relationship, or a few years into discovering more about yourself and what you enjoy in the bedroom, you may find romance and gentle go out the window. Not to say I don’t think romance should happen, if you’ve read Romance will get you Everywhere then you’ll know that romance is still important, all I’m saying is that sometimes, you may find that its not on the agenda. Romance becomes something special, and for every other day of the week, maybe it should be rough sex. Sex which leaves you panting afterwards for a few minutes. Thats the sex which gets your heart pounding, thats the sex which burns calories better than swimming.

Like I was saying, this is something you grow into, some people more quickly than others I may add. But for a lot of us, its the fact that the harder you go, the faster the pace, the better everything gets. Its the kind of sex where primal instinct takes over and you start craving more, and craving it rougher. And its nothing to be ashamed of, personally I love it, I think that more people should let their hair down and venture to the rough side. Some people I know consider rough sex boring, others I know consider it pretty kinky. To me its neither boring nor kinky, its necessity.

Its not exactly something you can improve upon, some people just don’t get passionate in the same way a lot of us do. But hey, you just need to know you’re partner well enough to know how rough to go. As you get rougher it can get, well lets say definitely know your partner. Hair pulling, rough thrusting, biting, scratching. All of these are normal with a partner that enjoys rough sex. No matter the position you can make it rough though personally hair pulling is something I don’t particularly like but trust me when I say that we more than make up for it with everything else.

So rough sex? Definitely the way to go in my opinion, hell, it should be in yours too. If you’ve not read any other article on this site you’d probably be let off, for our regular readers well. You know what we’re like here. Rough sex, yes please. Do you like it? Let us know.


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