A Blow Job Beginner's Guide to Spitting or Swallowing
By Elena Ognivtseva
This is one of the age old questions in sex, do they spit or do they swallow? Is it really actually something that people care about? To be honest I’m not so sure. I think this maybe another one of those ideals which has been fully developed and enforced by Hollywood, why is it they always seem to get things, well lets say exaggerated? I know many people who do either. And having spoken to many of them I also know the reasons why they spit or swallow.
Some women, or men, find that the taste is just something that is too strong. Not everyone is a big fan of the salty sperm flavour. Some people physically cannot swallow, this is fair as you are suddenly having some form of liquid squirted down the back of the throat and this can be disconcerting. However since salt is tasted at the side of the mouth in general this can be kind of useful if you’re not a fan of the flavour of sperm. On the other hand some people really do love to swallow, out of their own enjoyment, and love of the taste. Its a bit of a marmite thing, you love it or you hate it. Okay some of us just don’t mind it but men just need to remember not everyone likes every flavour in the world, if we did the world would be a more boring place.
A lot of people I know swallow even though they hate the taste. Now you’d wonder why they’d bother with this? Well so did I but it turns out many of them swallow for the simple fact that it is a ego, or confidence, boost to their partner. The fact is, when you give a guy a blow job and he sees you cringe at the taste and spit it out, hes not going to feel too happy with himself is he? And as for you well, as much as you try and explain it away its not exactly fair. Men don’t tend to spit and rinse their mouths out at the taste of your vaginal excretions.
Like I’ve said before in Blow Jobs and Puddings theres a lot of ways to make this work in your favour. Ultimately it is a pleasure for him, and whilst you may not like the taste you should still try and make it as pleasurable for him as possible. Its not easy for everyone but its worth the effort in the end! Give it a go, swallow next time! Tell us what you think, do you agree?