How to Have Steamy Shower Sex - Positions & Tips To Try

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Who doesn’t feel that sweet twitch when their partner slides the shower door and joins them? The spanking skin growing under the steam, the aphrodisiac aromas of soaps and shampoos swiftly dancing through the air, it is the perfect sexual ambiance.  But for many, shower sex remains just but a dream. The same things that make it so hot are the same that make it challenging. You need to slide into your partner and have a smooth glide without slipping or even falling in the bathroom. But this does not mean it’s impossible, you just need to get a few things right first.

Important Shower Sex tips and precautions

While it is beautiful and extremely erotic, you need to be precarious for your personal health and wellbeing when engaging in shower sex. Here are a few things to consider: 

• Invest in a Non-Slip Shower Mat

Wet floors are not only annoying slippery but can also be deadly. So it is important that you place a good quality non-slip shower mat in the bathroom before having sex. This ensures you don’t fall or keep slipping when enjoying an intimate moment with your partner. You should also consider placing a foot drying mat outside the bathroom door to avoid falling or slipping as you step out of the shower or tub.

• Use Condoms And Dental Dams

Although it might seem clean and hygienic, water can’t protect you from unwanted pregnancies and STIs. So be sure to take a moment and wear condoms for protection during penetrative shower sex for you and your partners’ health.  This also applies to oral sex. Use dental dams for deep oral sex including rimming.

• Buy Water-friendly Sex toys

Sex toys are simple and extremely pleasurable items you need to introduce to your shower sex. Turn your bathroom into a pleasure-room with water-proof vibrators and thrusting dildos. Imagine a relaxing moment in the bathtub with a waterproof vibrator that makes you moan with pleasure every few moments. Or, your partner inserting you with a smooth warm metallic butt plug then thrusting you to nirvana while sweet warm water flows under you. The things you can do to each other with sex toys are out of this world.

For shower sex, buy waterproof sex toys especially for vibrators or anything that may need batteries of electricity. Always confirm before buying the product whether it can be used underwater. You also need to consider toy materials. Waterproof materials such as silicone, glass, and stainless steel make the best showers sex toy materials although this purely goes down to your personal preferences.

• Buy Water Friendly Lubricants

Lube is an essential part of sex especially if you plan to use sex toys in your shower games.  You really don’t want to end up with a dry ramming, especially during anal sex. Silicone and oil lubricants are best because they don’t dissolve easily in water. But don’t forget to check your toy materials before use. Remember that silicone lubricant reacts with silicone toys causing surface damage.  

Shower Sex - Positions & Tips to Try

Now that we know you are safe and ready, here are some awesome sex positions you must try out in the shower.

1. The Wraparound

This can be said to be one of the easiest show sex positions ever invented.

How it’s done:  Lean with your back against the shower wall while your partner stands facing you. Then wrap one leg around their waist. From this angle, your partner can penetrate you with his penis, waterproof vibrator, dildo or whatever your both desire. This position allows you to enjoy face-to-face sex hence a nice moment of deep intimacy.

2. Sit and Slide

This style will need you to introduce a love chair in the bathroom if you don’t already have one. However, you can still do it comfortably in the bathtub.  

How it’s done:  Let your partner sit on the chair or bathtub with their legs stretched out. Then, sex them in whichever version of woman-on-top tricks that best work for you. Gliding, sex toys, and watery blowjobs are all tricks he will thank you for.

As a woman, this position gives you control over pace and intensity, letting your organs in your own rhythm.   The water falling on you or hitting your back is an erotic image you will both cherish.

3. Standing Doggy-Style

Doggy- style is one invention that hits all the rights spots. Now imagine that, but with warm water hitting your already aroused skin. It’s a sexual symphony you have never known before. It is just earthshattering.

How it’s done: Hold on to the shower wall with your palm and slightly bend your knees for support and comfort. Now lean towards the wall at 45-degrees degrees so that your partner can finger or penetrate you from behind. They will also have easy access to the breast or clitoris so pleasuring you from both sides, awesome!

This style is even most pleasurable because you are secured between the wall and your partner so no worries of slipping. This feeling of safety allows you to concentrate on the sensations of every thrust.  

4. The Hanging Garden

This style might need you to be a bit of a yoga-Flexi but it’s one of the most erogenous shower styles worth trying.

How it’s done: your man takes full control of everything here. Facing him let him pick you up as you wrap your legs behind his waist so that you are suspended mid-air. Then he can easily penetrate you while your hands caress him, with the water flowing beautifully on both of you. It is most intimate because you are face-to-face and can kiss and look into each other’s eyes, making the moment even more special.

5. Stand and Kneel

For this style, everything goes. Whether you want oral, or toy penetration, your partner will be able to pleasure you to your ultimate best.

How it’s done: One partner kneels while the other stands over them. With a good view and access to the genitals, be creative and pleasure your partner with toys, mouth, and hands. Alternate frequently to make sure everyone gets their fill of the wet pleasure.    

6. Try Non-Penetrative Sexual Pleasure

Don’t get stuck on penetration to enjoy sex in the shower. You can heat things up by using some erotic tips such as lathering each other, shaving each other’s genitalia, breast sucking or even fingering to keep up the heat for nice bedroom sex.  Let her sit with her legs open for you in the bathtub as you finger her to ecstasy. Or get his mind mashed with crazing orgasms as your insert him a butt plug while you play with his balls. Sex is more than penetrations. It is the moment of intimate sharing that settles your soul.

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Recommended Sex Toys for the Shower

6-Inch Curvy Rocket Tickler Multi-Functional Waterproof Vibrator

Introducing the 6-Inch Curvy Rocket Tickler Multi-Functional Waterproof Vibrator; your dependable battery-powered boyfriend, this toy comes in a brilliant yellow color, and a curvy compact body with six graduated ridges, and an ergonomic handle at the base; that allows you to maneuver your toy to reach the most elusive pleasure spots deep inside your womanhood. It comes with an ample size to provide a sense of fullness, and a good length to reach the depths that gives a lasting fulfilment. The toy’s curvy shape is no accident, it’s deliberately placed in all the right spots to hit a woman where she wants it the most, and the slight curvature is perfectly in sync with the female anatomy, and will deliver thrilling results.

Among the many advantages of this incredible toy is that it can go all night long, and won’t stop until you are totally satisfied. The 6-Inch Curvy Rocket Tickler Multi-Functional Waterproof Vibrator is a real stand up toy, it’s neither emotional nor selfish and only dedicates itself wholly to your pleasure, there is no such thing as fatigue or exhaustion when it comes to this toy, and you can rest assured that moods or feelings won’t get in the way of your pleasure, and what’s more; this toy delivers such amazing stimulations that your boyfriend should be concerned about upping his game or have some serious competition from the 6-Inch Curvy Rocket Tickler Multi-Functional Waterproof Vibrator. The innovative sex toy is powered by 2 AA batteries which are included in the pack; there are also 2 terrific speeds and 3 pulse modes for varied sensations. In addition; the 6-Inch Curvy Rocket Tickler Multi-Functional Waterproof Vibrator is 100% waterproof and can be used anywhere pleasure takes you, it’s also more than just a female solo plaything, couples can also use it to amplify their foreplay. This toy was manufactured using smooth body-safe silicone. Clean simply with hot soapy water and a toy cleaner. Zoom off to a planet of mind-blowing erotic bliss. Shop for the 6-Inch Curvy Rocket Tickler Multi-Functional Waterproof Vibrator now!

Specifications of 6-Inch Curvy Rocket Tickler Multi-Functional Waterproof Vibrator

Length : 6 Inches
Washing : Hot soapy water and toy cleaner
Insertable : 1 to 5 inches
Diameter : 1.75 Inches
Width : 5.75 Inches
Colour : Yellow
Flexibility : Slight
Controller : Built In
For Who : Female
Brand : KY Lubricants
Power : 2 x AAA (included)
Size : 6 Inches