Pegging Sex Positions for Beginners

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Pegging sex positions are basically a way to add some spic to your sex life. Relationship experts say that one of the major contributing factors to Divorce and Breakups is a boring, routine sex life. The same missionary style or doggie style at the same hour of the day on the same bed, in the same room with the same person on top, facing the same direction. There’s probably a fixed way to go about it and anything outside the usual procedure is considered abnormal, then one day, one partner gets tired and ups and leaves.

If you have decided to move a bit from the “usual” and add some surprise moves to that exercise you indulge in with your other half, then trying some Pegging sex positions would not hurt at all. You just have to be comfortable with it, but how would you know if you don’t try?

Things to have for Pegging Sex Positions

If you know the first thing about Pegging Sex positions, then you would know that it requires more than your body, your partner’s body and your individual sexual expertise. I’m talking sex toys and lubes baby! So here we go:

Dildos

What is pegging without a dildo? It’s the presence of the dildo that allows he woman peg the man in the first place. If you have decided to indulge in any of the Pegging sex positions, then a dildo is a must have and where better to get the perfect one than here at Peaches and Screams? Get some and get started on your pegging.

Lubricants

I have not told you what pegging is yet, so you are forgiven if you never anticipated the use of lubes. For all Pegging sex positions, lubricants come in handy. As you know, these dildos do not lubricate themselves and without lubrication, you’ll go from having sex to having sores, literally. Some people are shy of purchasing these things from local retailers, no problem. Who said you have to let the world know that you need a lubricant? After all, you could place an order from the comfort of your home with just one click.

Sexy outfits

If you're doing it in a new way, then be new altogether, right? Wearing the usual lingerie, panties or bras he sees you in may play the trick of surprising him when a Dildo pops up, but why not make it perfect and keep him guessing what you have in store for him by purchasing new lingerie here. When you visit that page, you will discover that there are lingerie for women and some lovely underwear for the male folk. If you are a man, you could get you a pair or more while buying lingerie for her, and as a woman, who says you cannot entertain yourself by getting your man to wear a thong? Peaches and Screams has got you covered as usual.

Communication

Just like sex, Pegging sex positions could be no fun if the couple is not communicating. Remember, it is not the usual, everyday sex so it is very important to let each other know your preference and reservations before, during and after trying out any Pegging sex position. This will go a long way in boosting your sex and general relationship life.

Solid Bowel Movements

Pegging involves anal penetration and it could get messy if you are not careful. Make sure he has solid bowel movements and encourage him to consume fiber rich diets and lots of fluid at least 6 hours before the action.

Some Pegging Sex Positions you can try

Most of these positions have the word “reverse” in them because the male automatically takes the role of the female. There’s Reverse doggie style, reverse cowboy, etc. There are so many of them but we’ll discuss a few.

Reverse Cowboy Position

This Pegging sex position is one that involves the woman lying down and man sitting on the woman with his back to her face. The dildo is already strapped on the woman, it is inserted into the anus of the man (after lubrication of course) and he begins to rock, controlling the rhythm and movement as per his wants and satisfaction.

Reverse Doggie Style

The man goes on all fours (resting on his elbows), just as the woman is required to do in Doggie style. The woman straps on the dildo and goes behind the man. The dildo is lubricated and inserted into the man’s anus and the duo begins to move in a comfortable rhythm. If the stress is too much on the man, he could lie on his stomach while the woman lies on him and enters from behind.

Backdoor man

The woman sits on the edge of the bed with the dildo strapped on and lubricated. The man sits on her and they move in harmony. Just make sure he’s having fun.

Bend him like Beckham

Get him to bend over; he can get balance by resting his hands on his thighs or placing them firmly on the bed. Lubricate the strapped on Dildo and rock him, start gently and gradually pick up speed. If he’s taller than you are, no problem, just get you some comfortable heels, slip them on and get to work.

Face-to-Face

There’s this emotional touch that comes with seeing your partner’s face during sex. This position allows for pegging and staring. Get him to lie on his back, put a pillow under his hips, and let him get the knees up to his shoulders so that his but is slightly raised, now slide in gently and rock him accordingly.

The thing about Pegging sex positions is that physically, it may do nothing for the woman but it sure has some psychological and mental benefits, after all women get wet without being touched. The key is to ensure that you are both having fun. The woman can touch herself too and nothing stops the man from strapping on a dildo and doing her from behind. It just depends on what the couple wants.