Spork Sex Position: The Best Anal Sex Position

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Tatyana Dyachenko
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Veronika Matutyte
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Katie Lasson
Sex and Relationship Adviser

Ever wished for a sex position that hits the sweet spot between deep penetration, comfort, and intimacy? Meet the Spork sex position—a game-changer for anal sex. It’s like the Spoon position but with a twist, giving you better access, control, and a snug fit for maximum pleasure.

This position isn’t just about intensity—it’s also super comfy. Whether you're after slow, sensual strokes or deep, toe-curling thrusts, the Spork’s got you covered. Plus, it lets you maintain full-body contact, making the experience even more intimate.

In this guide, we’ll break down how to do it, why you should try it, safety tips, and ways to enhance the fun with sex toys and tools. Ready to spice things up? Let’s begin!

What is the Spork Sex Position?

The Spork sex position is a spicy twist on the classic Spoon sex position, designed for deeper penetration, better control, and intense intimacy. It combines the comfort of side-lying sex positions with a better angle for pleasure, making it perfect for anal sex. If you're looking for a move that balances passion and relaxation, this one's a winner.

Here’s how to get into the Spork sex position, step by step:

1. The penetrating partner (man) lies on his side, keeping his legs slightly apart, with one knee bent.
2. The receiving partner (woman) lies on her back, with her buttocks facing his pelvis.
3. She bends her knees and rests her legs over his shoulder and hip.
4. The man supports her hip with one hand while slipping the other under her knees for better control.
5. He can thrust at a slow or deep pace, depending on comfort and rhythm.

Spork vs. Spoon: What’s the Difference?

At first glance, the Spork and Spoon sex positions seem similar, but the difference is all in the angles.

Barbara Santini, a psychologist and relationship advisor from Peaches and Screams, explains: “While the Spoon is perfect for slow, lazy sex, the Spork takes things up a notch. By shifting the partner’s legs higher, penetration becomes deeper, offering a more intense experience. It’s a great way to combine comfort with a more stimulating angle, making it ideal for those exploring anal sex.”

With the Spoon sex position, both partners lie snuggled together, offering gentle, shallow penetration. The Spork, however, opens up the hips, allowing for a deeper and more fulfilling sensation.

Katie Lasson, a sex and relationship advisor, adds: “The Spork gives the penetrating partner more control without putting too much pressure on the receiving partner. It’s a fantastic sex position for couples who enjoy deep penetration but still want a comfortable, intimate experience.”

Unlike sex positions that demand awkward flexibility or tricky balancing, the Spork keeps things relaxed, making it an excellent choice for extended sessions.

Tatyana Dyachenko, a sexual and relationship therapist, notes: “For those new to anal play, the Spork is a fantastic option. It creates an angle that allows for easier entry and reduces unnecessary strain. Plus, with the right rhythm and communication, it can be just as intimate as face-to-face sex positions.”

By lifting the legs slightly higher, the Spork also allows for better stimulation of the G-spot and prostate, making it a pleasure-packed position for both partners.

Enhancing the Spork Position with Sex Toys and Tools

Want to take the Spork sex position to the next level? A few sex toys and essential tools can intensify pleasure, increase comfort, and boost stamina. Whether you’re after extra stimulation or better endurance, the right accessories can transform your experience.

Lubricant (Lube) – The Non-Negotiable Must-Have

Anal sex without lube? No chance! Unlike vaginal sex, the anus doesn’t self-lubricate, so a high-quality, long-lasting lubricant is a must.

For anal play, go for a silicone-based lube—it’s silky, lasts longer, and reduces friction. If you're using silicone toys, opt for a water-based lubricant to keep them in top shape.Pro tip:Warm up the lube in your hands before applying—it makes things feel even more natural!

Vibrating Cock Rings – Extra Stamina and Stimulation

Want the penetrating partner to last longer while adding extra sensations? A vibrating cock ring is your best friend.

These stretchy rings fit around the base of the penis, restricting blood flow to enhance erection strength and delay ejaculation. The added vibration stimulates both partners, especially if positioned against the perineum or clitoris.

For the Spork position, a remote-controlled cock ring lets you adjust the vibration intensity without interrupting the action.Why it works? It enhances endurance, boosts pleasure for both partners, and keeps the rhythm steady.

Bullet Vibrators & Nipple Vibrators – More Pleasure for the Receiving Partner

The Spork sex position naturally exposes the receiving partner’s body, making it perfect for extra stimulation. Small but powerful, a bullet vibrator can be used to tease the clitoris, inner thighs, or even perineum while in this position.

For those who love sensitive touch play, nipple vibrators add another layer of pleasure. Since the Spork keeps the upper body free, the receiving partner can use a toy on themselves or let their partner take control.Fun tip: Try using a bullet vibrator during deep thrusts for an intense blended orgasm experience.

Wand Massagers – Full-Body Stimulation on Another Level

Want to heighten sensations all over the body? A wand massager is a powerhouse toy that can stimulate any erogenous zone while in the Spork position.

For the receiving partner, it’s perfect for external stimulation on the clitoris, thighs, or stomach. For the penetrating partner, it can be use don the lower back or perineum for a more sensory experience.

Ultimate pleasure hack: Use a wand massager on a low setting near the anus to enhance nerve sensitivity before penetration.

Safety Tips for the Spork Sex Position

The Spork sex position is comfortable and intimate, but like all anal sex moves, it comes with a few safety considerations. Protection, physical comfort, and communication are key to making the experience safe and pleasurable. Let’s break it down.

Using Condoms – Non-Negotiable for Safe Anal Play

Anal sex carries a higher risk of STIs and bacterial infections compared to vaginal sex. That’s why using condoms is essential—not just for protection but also for peace of mind.

Dr. Veronika Matutyte, a healthcare professional, emphasises:“Unlike vaginal sex, the rectum doesn’t have natural defence mechanisms against bacteria and viruses. Using a high-quality, lubricated condom significantly reduces the risk of infections, including HIV, gonorrhoea, and chlamydia. Even in monogamous relationships, condoms add an extra layer of safety.”

If you’re switching between anal and vaginal penetration, change the condom before continuing. This prevents bacterial transfer, which could cause infections like bacterial vaginosis or UTIs.

Dr. Rimas Geiga, a medical doctor, adds:“It’s also crucial to use extra lubrication when wearing a condom during anal sex. The rectal walls are thinner and more prone to microtears, which can increase STI transmission risks. Lube reduces friction, making penetration smoother and safer.”

For those who prefer not to use condoms, consider thorough hygiene routines and regular STI check-ups to keep things safe.

Physical Strain Awareness – Avoiding Discomfort and Cramping

The Spork position is comfortable, but staying in one position for too long can cause muscle cramps or joint strain. The receiving partner’s legs are lifted, which may lead to hip tightness or fatigue if unsupported.

Tatyana Dyachenko advises: “If you feel any discomfort or tension building up, don’t push through it. Adjust your positioning, stretch before sex, or use pillows under the lower back for extra support.”

Switching leg positions or taking short breaks can prevent stiffness and keep both partners relaxed. If one partner experiences discomfort, slow down, re-adjust, or switch to a different variation of the Spork.

Communication – The Secret to a Pleasurable Experience

No matter how exciting a position is, communication is the difference between pleasure and pain. Both partners should check in with each other, especially when experimenting with deep penetration or new sensations.

Barbara Santini highlights:“Many people shy away from talking during sex, but it’s the best way to ensure comfort and pleasure. Simple cues like ‘slower,’ ‘deeper,’ or ‘change angle’ can make all the difference. Don’t hesitate to pause and readjust if something doesn’t feel right.”

Non-verbal communication also works—moans, body language, or gripping movements can signal what feels good and what doesn’t.

Final Thoughts on Spork Sex Position

Maybe there’s excitement bubbling up—curiosity, anticipation, a little thrill at trying something new. Or perhaps there’s hesitation, a voice whispering, "Is this really for me? "That’s normal. That’s human.

But pleasure thrives on openness, exploration, and connection. The Spork sex position offers deep penetration, ultimate comfort, and spine-tingling intimacy—a perfect balance of control and sensuality. Dare to discover. Experiment. Communicate. Embrace every sensation. Because pleasure isn’t just about movement—it’s about confidence, trust, and sheer, uninhibited bliss.