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Beginner's Guide To Orgasm Denial

October 19, 2017

Beginner's Guide To Orgasm Denial

Beginner's Guide To Orgasm Denial

Day after day people are encouraged to embrace the journey and not to direct all their focus towards the destination. Orgasm denial is the sexual practice dedicated to ensure that the end is delayed for as long as possible, submitting the submissive to psychological and physical torture designed to help them enjoy the arousal for each moment that it lasts. The dominant makes a point of driving the submissive to the edge and then turning back and starting the journey over and over again. This constant frustration keeps the body on high gear and the final release is guaranteed to be so explosive that the submissive starts to look forward to the extended play dates.

Whilst the concept seems pretty straightforward, the game itself is nothing but. Acquaint yourself with the various types of orgasm denial techniques before embarking on this complex and confusing journey.

Tease and Denial

This is a form of orgasm denial that is friendly to the beginners who have not the heart to hold off for long. The game is much simpler, allowing for some form of release only when a milestone is achieved. The dominant may decide to play a game with the submissive, allowing them to indulge in some arousing practices that may as well lead to an orgasm. However, the rules that are set are stacked wholly against the submissive as it is evident that the restrictions will not allow them to actually reach the intended orgasmic release. For example, the submissive is allowed the chance to dry hump the couch corner until orgasm, but only if the orgasm is achieved within a minute. This timing ensures that the submissive gets a dose of arousing sensations without the end goal getting achieved.

This is a creative way to engage in the mild denial game, making sure that the torture isn’t too much for the inexperienced. This stepping stone allows the submissive to develop tolerance, making them capable of more.

Edging

Whoever came up with this one must have been a great timer. Edging requires that you have a great understanding of your partner’s body. Timing is of the ultimate importance if this technique is to be successful. The submissive is stimulated until the point where they feel like letting it all out. Once the dominant feels the submissive is on the brink of cumming, the stimulations are withdrawn completely, bringing the experience to a sudden end. The process is repeated over and over again, each time with the same end; no orgasm. This game may have the submissive developing coping mechanisms whereby the body can withstand long session due to the level of control the submissive has over their body functions.

Ruined Orgasms

Sadism is the backbone of this game. The dominant goes as far as having the submissive start their orgasm before delivering an unexpected painful sensation that stops the orgasm in its tracks. Ruining your submissive’s orgasms delivers a level of frustration so high they will love to hate you. This extreme game can be incorporated during couple’s play or solo sessions, but it requires great timing and a great understanding of your or your partner’s body.

Ruining an orgasm may be achieved by withdrawing the stimulations, adding a well-timed pain stimuli or even redirecting the fluid right back into the body. Whichever mechanism works for you should be employed to ensure a successful session every single time.

Complete Denial/Chastity Play

Chastity play is a game designed to deny the submissive any form of release. Accomplished through the use of chastity belts, tubes and cages, the genitals are kept in full lockdown even for days. The devices allow for peeing and that’s just about it. Designed to let nothing go in, the devices have a locking mechanism mostly in the form of padlocks and the dominant gets to be the key holder. Chastity play is the extreme orgasm denial play as the submissive gets a zero chance of cheating, making the mental torture even greater. To top it all off, the dominant may incorporate the device with teasing, making the submissive feel even more helpless and frustrated, ensuring that there is bound to be an explosive release.


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