Guide to A Better Sex Life
OUR TOP TIPS FOR BETTER SEX
By Elena Ognivtseva
Hey, everyone is looking for the ultimate experience in the bedroom, but often things just don't go the way you want. Either he doesn't last long enough, there's not enough passion involved, or things just don't feel right. Luckily, though, there a a few easy things you can do to give yourselves the sexual experience you've been craving. Try out these Simple Tips to Improve Your Sex Life tonight, and you'll soon have the neighbours banging on the walls.
TIPS TO IMPROVE YOUR SEX LIFE
SET THE SCENE
An important part of any intimate experience is making sure that you really take some time to make everything as conductive as possible to enjoyable sex. Scented candles are a popular choice, as well as mood lights, music, and a spot of massage before you take things further. Doing all of this will get you both mentally prepared for a better sexual experience, as it shows your partner that you truly value spending this intimate time together.
KEEP THINGS INTIMATE
When you've been with the same partner for a while, it's easy to take things for granted and forget about the simple things that make us feel loved and cared for- an important thing during sex. Don't just jump right into things, but instead start off by kissing and caressing, taking time to undress each other in a sensual way instead of just tearing each other's clothes off.
GOOD COMMUNICATION
Good communication is extremely important for good sex, as without it you'll probably both be left blundering in the dark, not knowing what it is that really turns your partner on. Before you start,talk to each other about what feels best for you, and keep that up during the act itself. Try not to tell your partner off for doing things you don't like, but rather praise them for what feels good and encourage them to keep going.
MAKE THE MOST OF FOREPLAY
Foreplay plays a very important part in sex, getting both of your bodies more receptive to stimulation and ready for penetration. However, men in particular can often be guilty of skipping this step out of laziness- a big mistake. Show your partner how much you love them by making things just about them for a while, using your mouth and hands to pleasure them before swapping round. As we said above, keep communicating with your partner about what feels good so that they know the best ways for them to please you. The longer you keep up the foreplay, the more satisfying penetration will feel when you get to it.
TRY SOME NEW SEX POSITIONS
If you're looking for a really quick way to change things up in the bedroom, then a new position might be just the thing. If you keep on doing the same old things in bed night after night, things are going to naturally get a little boring, which can stop you from enjoying sex as much as you used to. We have a whole article on the best sex positions, so check that out for a whole range of inspirational ideas on how you and your partner can best enjoy yourselves.