WHAT IS PEGGING? EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW!

Have you ever thought of introducing pegging in your sex life, but you do not understand it? This blog takes you through everything you need to know, from its meaning to how to bring it up.

Pegging is slowly gaining popularity, as many lovers try this sexual act. However, bringing such subjects into your sex life might be challenging. Exploring new and different sensations is essential but requires complete understanding. How would you feel when your woman wears a strap-on dildo to pound your butt hole? It might be tricky, but it will give you pleasurable sensations to satisfy all your sexual desires and fantasies. Learn more about pegging below.

What is Pegging

The term pegging itself seems so intimidating, especially because guys are used to being in charge of all the pumping and thrusting. Pegging is an anal play where the woman is entrusted with thrusting and pumping instead of the man. The woman uses strap-ons or dildos to penetrate their male partner. Pegging is a common sexual activity among heterosexual couples. However, this sexual act remains a stigma among anal players. While the definition might vary, it is obvious that it is an anal play involving men and women. The main features of pegging are the anal sex and strap-on and not the assigned sex or gender.

Why People Enjoy Pegging 

Pegging can give you the stimulations you desire to fulfill your sexual fantasies. Here are some of the reasons why most people enjoy pegging;

It Physically Feels Good for the Receiver

Generally, men have numerous nerves around their prostate glands. These nerves can be stimulated through anal penetration to deliver sensational and mind-blowing orgasms. Most men admit that prostate orgasms are stronger than other orgasms. Anal penetration will still feel amazing even if the receiver lacks P-spot. 

It Flips the Scrip

In heterosexual pairings, there are two acting partners (the giver and the receiver). However, this is reversed when it comes to pegging. In pegging, the typical roles are switched with the man now receiving and the woman giving. Surprisingly, this act is emotionally and psychologically amazing and pleasurable for all parties involved. 

It Can be Used during BDSM Play

Introducing BDSM games in your sex life gives you new sexual feelings. Pegging can also be sensational when used with restraints or blindfolds. You can control the dominant partner while being pegged with your submissive partner. 

It is Pleasurable for the Giver

The pleasures generated while thrusting your partner around your clitoris are magical. The bottom of the strap-on dildo stimulates your clitoris for mind-blowing pleasures.

How Do You Bring Up Pegging with a Partner?

Like any other sexual activity, both parties must be involved before introducing pegging. Understanding, love, and trust are the general beginning of a good sexual experience. Here is how to introduce the idea of pegging to your partner.

Come Prepared

Have a conversation with your partner on whether it is right to introduce pegging in your sex life. Also, make your partner understand why you are interested in pegging. 

Talk Fantasies 

Talking with your partner about different sexual fantasies allows you to introduce pegging easily. You can also watch porn videos involving pegging or listen to erotica. This will help you understand more about pegging.

Make the Conversation About the two of You.

Even if you wear the strap-on dildo, you will explore this fantasy as a couple and not an individual. Amazing sexual pleasures are often built on trust, communication, and pleasures. 

Acknowledge the Scary Stuff

Pegging is not something that most couples embrace. Even if you decide to take it in, acknowledge the scary part, your worries, and your fears. 

How To Make Pegging Feel Good?

Here are the things you need to know before pegging with your partner. 

Talk it Out

Anything discussed that concerns sexual matters feels safe and comfortable. Therefore, consider discussing why you want to introduce pegging in your relationship with your partner. This will gauge their general interest in your proposal. 

Know that Your Partner Might Reject the Idea

Any opinion that is rejected must not be forced. If your partner says no to pegging, consider leaving it. However, you can try different ways to make your partner understand your concept. Converse with your partner about the different ways of anal sex stimulation or watch pegging videos. 

Screw the Stereotypes 

Traditionally, there was nothing like pegging or anal sex. However, times have changed, and people are exploring different sexual pleasures. 

Take Baby Steps 

The anus is full of sensitive and fragile tissues that can easily damage when precautions are not taken. During penetration, start slowly to make the experience safe, comfortable, and pleasurable.

Clean 

Before pegging, clean your rectum gently using soap and warm water. Ensure there is no dirt remaining after washing. Avoid astringent cleansers since they can draw all the moisture from the asshole, increasing the chances of contracting STDs.

Lube Up

Before penetration, apply plenty of sex lubricants on your asshole and dildo or strap-on. Stick to sex lubes designed specifically for anal use. This will prevent you from any injuries during penetration.