How to Choose the Right Size Anal Toy

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When it comes to sexual pleasure, we all have our preferences, and anal play is only for the chosen few. But if you are, however, who enjoys anal play, bet you have considered anal toys. Leave alone normal anal toys; there are larger ones that will mean something completely different when it comes to anal pleasure.

Everybody is all about pleasure when it comes to sex. However, like sexual pleasure, our differences have completely different meanings individually. Some find pleasure in penetration, either hard or soft, some are more into toys, and some incorporate toys and penetration. Some people are into vaginal sex, some into oral sex, while a few are into anal sex. Yes, not everyone is into anal play. Getting introduced and getting used to anal play may take quite some time. Anal play is somehow sophisticated since safety needs to be a priority. However, the anal play incorporates all the activities done in vaginal play. These include anal sex, fingering, sex toys, or even the tongue. Though many go with anal toys, it is unusual for someone to go with large anal toys. However, this is not completely weird, and if you enjoy or want to enjoy large anal toys, you are at the right place.

Why Large Anal Toys:

There are plenty of reasons why people go for large anal toys instead of normal-sized ones; these include: 

• The love of being filled inside.
• The incredible feeling that comes with these toys.
• Women fantasize about sex with large men. 
• Stretching and filling the hole is a kink.
• For P spot orgasms.
• Big anal sex toys are an achievement.

Döring (2021) explained that anal sex toys are amazing, and the bigger, the better. They allow you to explore your body and experiment with different techniques and sensations. Anal play with sex toys applies to both men and women and gives explosive pleasures in addition to the P-spot orgasm that you have to try. 

The Best-Oversized Toys 

Large Butt Plug 

For precocious anal play lovers, the butt plug is just the best. The large one is just as flexible as it is firm, and its silicone material makes penetration easier. Designed with a flared base, you need not worry about it going all the way in. If this is not enough, it has a hole in the base where you can slide in a bullet vibrator and vamp up the sensations. The tip is tapered, and the shape of this toy gives you amazing pleasures when it presses against your anal curves and the sensation when it is inside of you. Yücel et al. (2021) stated that individuals need to keep in mind that the key to anal play is lube; use water-based lube for easy insertion and to reduce friction, and this way, you will enjoy anal insertion.

 Large Anal Dildo

It doesn't get better than this. Created by a legendary porn star, the Large Fisting dildo is a personal favorite to advanced anal play lovers. It is shaped like an arm with its fingers together, making the sensations feel realistic. The detailing on this toy makes it feel like the real thing featuring knuckles and fingernails. However, it is just as firm as it is flexible, optimizing your anal pleasure. Whether you want to go the extra mile in anal sex toys or try something new, this is just the advanced toy that gets the job done. 

Outsized Anal Beads

Oberacker et al. (2019) stated that anal silicone beads have been in existence for quite some time. However, the giant silicone anal beads will give you unimaginable pleasure. When it comes to oversized anal beads, you ought not to rush. Take time with each bead before you can think of inserting it all in. It will increase the pleasure and sensations of the toy. These oversized beads are ideal if you love the stretching sensation and seek something more than average. Designed with a finger loop at the base, it makes retrieval easy, so you need not worry about pulling it out when you are at the climax to cum. If you enjoy pleasure inside your walls, the oversized anal beads have you covered.

Big Prostate Massager 

Compared to the rest of the toys above, this is not so gigantic. However, its size and reputation earn it a spot in the anal sex toy industry. But don't let the size fool you; it gets the job done and hits the right spot. The prostate massager is designed with a rotating head to give you those incredible prostate stimulations. It combines prostate and perineum stimulations to send you into an exciting world of pleasure, even to achieve P-spot orgasms. The design of this toy is a pro that it pushes against your P-spot with no effort needed to make you cum all the way.  

Care Tips  When Using Large Sex Toys  

Use The Right Lubricant

Miranda et al. (2019) stated that different sex toys have different lubricants. There are things you need to know when it comes to sex toys and lubricants to avoid injuring your toy and being uncomfortable; they include:

• Silicone toys don’t work with silicone lubricants. 
• Coconut oil isn’t safe for use with condoms.
• Oil breaks condoms. 
• Most sex toys work well with water-based lubricants.
• There is a difference between anal and vaginal lube, and anal lube is rather thicker and long-lasting.

Please apply lube on the toy repeatedly if you aren't using anal lube.

Warm-Up Is Essential 

It is essential to warm your anus first before thinking of sliding that toy inside. There are numerous techniques for warming up: you can use a smaller sex toy at first, use fingers to stretch the muscles, ensure you use plenty of lube, and start small and work your way up. 

Anal Hygiene

Cox-George, & Bewley (2018) stated that cleaning all your sex toys is necessary. You don't want infections on your anus caused by dirty sex toys. Cleaning also makes them long-lasting and keeps them in great form. Before washing your sex toys, make sure they are waterproof, and if not, use wet wipes or sex toy cleaning wipes. Consider taking a proper bath focusing down there before you can slide the sex toy inside. It will reduce the discomfort of fecal matter and reduce the chances of infection. 

Consider Anal Desensitizing Cream 

When testing a toy, you need to be careful when using an anal desensitizing cream. You don't want to use a large anal toy and not be able to sense or feel if it's stretching you excessively. However, it is not a bad idea to use desensitizing cream, but go slow and be cautious.

Conclusion 

Before actually running to the store to get large anal toys consider the small ones. If you have never tried anal play before, with big toys, you are the risk of causing damage to your anus. Consider warming up; though this will not apply to everyone, it is worth taking the extra time. All the toys above will apply to both men and women for pleasure and orgasms, apart from the prostate massage, which is only for men. As a lover of anal play, you should consider these toys.

References 

Cox-George, C., & Bewley, S. (2018). I, Sex Robot: the health implications of the sex robot industry. BMJ Sexual & Reproductive Health, 44(3), 161-164.

Döring, N. (2021). Sex toys. Encyclopedia of sexuality and gender. Cham, Switzerland: Springer.

Miranda, E. P., Taniguchi, H., Cao, D. L., Hald, G. M., Jannini, E. A., & Mulhall, J. P. (2019). Application of sex aids in men with sexual dysfunction: a review. The journal of sexual medicine, 16(6), 767-780.

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