Beginner's Guide To Anal Sex

Are you looking to experience backdoor stimulations? Here is the anal sex guide for beginners that ensures you get the best experience.

Anal sex has multiple health benefits. More than 40% of men are into backdoor stimulation, whether on the giving or receiving end. This insane figure is contributed by civilization. In the past, anal sex was considered sinful. Therefore it was done privately. With civilization, more people are spicing their sex lives anally behind closed doors. Below are the first-time anal sex tips that will ensure you get the stimulating experience you are looking for. Take a deep breath and relax because this article has a wealth of information about how to have good and safe anal sex with your lover.

Eliminate Fear and Tension

A relaxed mind and body are all you need before attempting anal penetrations and stimulations for the first time. One of the important ways to ensure you have a relaxed body and mind is by taking a warm shower. Nonetheless, you can meditate or ask your penetrating lover for a mind-boggling massage. As you relax your body, do not forget the sphincter muscles because they decide how the whole session will be. To relax your ass, tighten the butt muscles, hold for a few seconds, then release.

Talk to Your Lover About Anal Sex

Things get more exciting in anal sex if you are on the same page. Communicating openly with your lover is vital for finding out how to pleasure yourself anally. It tables your fears and expectations in the new sexual activity you want to experience. Nonetheless, talking about it will help you agree on the penetration depth and speed that will work for you.

Create Boundaries

 Always communicate what you feel during anal penetration and stimulation. As your experience grows, you will learn what is good and bad for you. If penetrations feel uncomfortable or cause pain, alert your lover on time so that they can stop. Establish a safe word that will alert your lover to adjust the penetration speed or completely stop if you are not feeling the vibe anymore.

Begin With Fingers or Small Toys

Moving from zero to intense stimulation in anal sex can be risky. For that reason, start expanding your sphincter muscles with fingers or small butt plugs. One finger will be ideal to start the play. If your lover can take it, insert two fingers or a large anal sex toy.  If the recipient is super cool with the massive penetrations, do not hesitate to insert your erect love tool in the craving ass. Insert small inches of the penis in your lover, and hold on for a few seconds before dipping in more inches.  While doing this, always check on your lover to know if they feel great.

Use a Lube

We all know the anus does not self lubricate like the vagina. Therefore, you will need to throw a bottle of safe lube in the mix to lubricate the anus, dildos, or the penis for smooth penetrations and more sweetened sensations. The lube you choose should be condom-safe to prevent the spread of bacterial infections. Avoid oil-based lube and choose between water and silicone-based lube. Remember that the anus also highly absorbs materials; hence, you must frequently reapply the lube to maintain the pleasure.

Find a Comfortable Sex Position

The recipient of anal sex will decide on the penetration speed and depth. While some receivers like it you are on their back or stomach, some find it exciting when you penetrate them while on top to gain control of the game. Choose a sex position that gives you a better sense of control while grinding your love tool in the receiver’s booty for intense stimulations and mind-blowing anal orgasms.

Take Everything Slowly

First anal sex should be approached with more caution despite the amount of lube you use. Slowly rub your lover's anal opening with your finger to see how they feel. If the receiving partner is comfortable, insert large sex toys or your penis. Penetrate them slowly to make them feel every inch of you. Rushing things can build up unbearable pain that might kill the sex vibe.

Always Start with a Sex Toy

Your first anal sex may not fully open up the tight sphincter muscles. Therefore, always begin with small butt plugs or a dildo to open the anal canal for amazing penetrations. However, you should be gentle with sex toys and communicate if you feel uncomfortable or experience painful penetrations.

Avoid Using Anal Toys in Your Vagina

Avoid inserting the finger, toy, or penis you have used in the anus to the vagina for health purposes. If you want to use the same tools to stimulate the vagina, sanitize or wash them to avoid the spread of UTIs.

Use Protection

Low chances of getting pregnant during anal sex should not make you avoid throwing condoms in the mix. Smashing your lover anally without protection increases the chances of contracting sexually transmitted infections. Also, do not switch from anal to vaginal stimulation with the same condom to avoid the spread of infections.

Do Not Force it

Anal sex is not for everyone. If this sexual activity is a possibility for you, do not hesitate to try it. Also, if it is a no-go for you, it is okay.

The Bottom Line

Apart from satisfying your sexual needs, anal sex packs multiple health benefits worth your attention. The above tips explain how to have pain-free anal sex for beginners. Read through and try them for mind-boggling first anal sex. Moreover, you can share these tips with your friends who want to experiment anal sex to help them add flavor to their bedroom experience.