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20 INTENSE (& SOMETIMES WILD) SEXTING EXAMPLES TO GET HIM HOT & BOTHERED

20 INTENSE (& SOMETIMES WILD) SEXTING EXAMPLES TO GET HIM HOT & BOTHERED

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Katie Lasson
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Veronika Matutyte
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🌟 Key Points for Spicy Sexting! 📱💌

    • 🔥 **Start with a Bang**: Kick things off with a cheeky compliment to set the mood! 😏

    • 💋 **Get Creative**: Use your imagination—be playful and a tad naughty! 🎨

    • 🥵 **Build Anticipation**: Tease him with tantalising hints of what’s to come! ⏳

    • 👀 **Use Visuals Wisely**: Don’t shy away from cheeky selfies—just make sure you’re comfy! 📸

  • 🎉 **Keep It Fun**: The key is to enjoy yourselves—laughter is the best aphrodisiac! 😂

💡 Expert Tips for Wild Sexting Adventures! 🌈

    • 📖 **Know Your Audience**: Tailor your texts to his likes—keep it personal and engaging! 💌

    • 💖 **Check In**: Make sure he’s enjoying it too—communication is key! 🗣️

    • 🔄 **Mix It Up**: Don’t stick to one style—experiment with different tones and themes! 🔄

    • 🌟 **Be Confident**: A little swagger goes a long way—own your words! 💃

  • 🥳 **Have a Backup Plan**: If things get awkward, lighten the mood with a joke! 🤪

Texting may be great, and this doesn't come as a surprise to your relationship. Sexting is the best way of spicing a relationship, be it new or old. Herein are tips for sexting, including playing a game, asking questions, and coming up with sexy plans.

Levine, D. (2013) defined sexting as the process by which one shares sexually suggestive pictures and messages through mobile phones or media. Sexting is not hard, but sometimes you may feel unsure of how you can start. As well, it may be difficult to overcome the awkwardness. However, beginners will always need tips to get started by simply biting the bullet. People may think you are not creative or don’t know what to say, but you don't have to rush into such dirty and kinky things. Sexting may make someone uneasy, but you don't have to daunt it because it may be silly and playful at the same time. Find a language that you are comfortable with, and start slowly. However, the challenge is when the only language you can use is English because you must avoid common errors. Sexting is very simple, and you can easily start from your last sexual encounter. Talk of the best part of it. Below are discussed best examples that will make your experience easy and your man hot and bothered.

Talk to Your Partner About Your Thoughts

The best way to start sexting is to tell your partner what you think and see where your conversation goes. Tell them everything that’s running in your mind, especially if they are among them. Below are some of the thoughts that you can tell your partner. 

  • I can't stop having thoughts of you.
  • I was thinking of you today while showering.
  • Last night I dreamt of you, and both of us were naked.
  • I thought of you, and I am turned on at the moment.
  • I am texting with one hand, and the other is busy with something else.
  • I need you inside of me right now.
  • Just a thought of you fucking me tonight makes me very wet.
  • I can't figure out why I usually have difficulties telling you my thoughts, and I am not that shy.

Come Up with Sexy Plans

Allow the sext times in your mind to come to reality. Sexting may help you make that change. Below are some of the best texts to help you bring your sexy thinking to real life. 

  • I can't wait to kiss you tonight.
  • I have prepared a very sexy surprise for the man I love when we meet next.
  • I will give you the best massage when we meet tonight.
  • I have bought whipped cream, and I know how to use it in a fun way.
  • I am reading sexy stuff on the internet, and I would like to try it out with you.

Tell Him About the Things You Do When You Are Not Together

Below are the best texts to send to your partner.

  • Today it's very hot outside, and I removed all my clothes.
  • I have been baking, and I now have chocolate frosting.
  • Today I have been a bad girl.
  • Lately, I have been turned on randomly, and I don't know why.

Play A Game

Try switching up things by playing with your beautiful body. Below are some of the texts you should send him and keep him bothered.

  • Finish up the story. You arrive at home and find me masturbating furiously. Being busy fucking myself am unable to notice you. You…….
  • Guess the part of my body that I am touching. If you get it right, ill send you the picture.
  • Let me know any two parts of my body that you like to touch, and I will also tell you.
  • Prove to me how badly you want me, and ill be glad to provide whatever is needed.
  • Guess the color of my underpants, and I will make sure I ''take them off before our date.''

Compliment Them

Compliments are the best way of flirting, and it works better when done over text. According to Gao, Z. et al. (2017), compliments play a vital role in developing and maintaining interpersonal relationships. Compliment your partner’s sexual prowess, parenting skills, looks, and abilities like a ''romantic partner'' if you want his charm to be turned on while texting. Make him feel powerful, strong, or capable, and he will ravish you in return. Below are some of the texts you can send your partner. 

  • The last time we made love, my legs were left shaking.
  • I love seeing you from different angles, such as seeing your face ''between my legs.''
  • I hope it doesn't bother you because I like seeing the expression on your face while going ''down on you.''
  • If he does things such as being a great dad or even fixing things, I am good to compliment him. I know you aren't doing it to be sexy, but you are.
  • I am thinking of how sexy you will look in the new jeans
  • Every time that you kiss me, I get turned on. 

Ask Him Some Questions

Asking him some questions guarantees that he will respond to all your sexy messages. 

  • I can't wait for tonight's date…and what will come after?
  • Babe, do you think I am weird because I get turned on easily (mention all the things he does and turns you on, and they should not be ordinary)?
  • What will you make me do if I am to be your sex slave tonight?
  • Let us play roles in a very steamy scene. Which one is your favorite?  

The Bottom Line

Sexting is powerful and awesome, as shown by the above-discussed examples. Always do it when the time is right, and know how you can do it. Don't start texting very soon, or else you will imply that your relationship is only for sex and may not be exactly what you wanted. Remember not to send something you are uncomfortable with, such as sexy photos. Being naughty and the frequency of sexting will depend on you.

References

Levine, D. (2013). Sexting: A Terrifying Health Risk… Or The New Normal For Young 

Adults?. Journal Of Adolescent Health, 52(3), 257-258.

Gao, Z., Gao, S., Xu, L., Zheng, X., Ma, X., Luo, L., & Kendrick, K. M. (2017). Women 

Prefer Men Who Use Metaphorical Language When Paying Compliments In A Romantic Context. Scientific Reports, 7(1), 1-11.

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