Boost Your Married Sex Life With Sexting

By Elena Ognivtseva

Being married doesn’t mean you can’t have sex like a singleton. That doesn’t mean you should be going out to bars to pick up potential partners (unless you’re both into the idea of having an anonymous threesome!) - it simply means that you can still enjoy each other and rekindle that feeling of the “first date” even if was more than a few years back.

Sexting has taken the nation by storm and people are getting to know each other more intimately than ever before with suggestive flirty texting. It’s as easy as letting go of your inhibitions and letting the other person know why you think they’re so sexy. Even celebrities are doing it, and if it’s good enough for them, it’s good enough for us!

Here are our five top sexting tips for married couples:

Married couples have more fun

Don’t look so surprised. You’ve been married for years. You know each other intimately. What could be sexier than a little sexting between friends? Make his day by sending him an early-morning sext that lets him know what you’ve got planned for later. Remind him of a hot and steamy sex session you had in the past, and let him know that’s what you’re in the mood for when you get home.

Make sure that the coast is clear

If you’re thinking about sexting your partner, make sure that the coast is clear. You don’t want to start sending saucy texts while he’s in a really important business meeting, or if he’s with the guys at the pub (who may just steal his phone to see what all the fuss is about).

Roleplaying is a great start for shy couples

If you’re not sure where to start, why not experiment with a bit of text-based roleplay? Invite your husband around to fix your faulty washing machine, or ask him to deliver “those important documents” to your office pronto! Let your imagination run wild for a pleasurable distraction from your working day.

Your smartphone probably has a camera - use it

If you’re not tech-savvy, it’s time to get the latest on your smartphone. It has a camera… and you can use to photograph more than just the kids. Nip out to the office bathroom and surprise him with an unexpected photo that might knock him off his feet.

Delete the evidence!

If you have kids AND the latest smartphone then chances are your kids are going to pick up your phone at some time. Delete your texts and prevent any unexpected awkwardness in the future.