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During sexual intercourse, the number one rule to achieve an orgasm is avoiding thoughts to get there. The best way to enjoy sex and climax faster is to accept that orgasming isn't the main sexual need. Shifting your focus to other benefits and enjoyment helps reduce anxiety, thus making you cum. This article explains the best sex positions that can assure an orgasm. Let’s look at them.

Best Sex Positions for Guaranteed Orgasms

The Doggy

The doggy sex style helps attain internal stimulation and gives a chance to reach the clit for more arousal. It's more fun to get into this ride with faster or rougher techniques. However, it may not allow the use of bigger toys. A good choice of sex toys is the finger vibrator. It has loops for ideal fitting around your finger. Therefore, as you enjoy thrusting and pounding, use the hand device to get external stimulation without struggling with big and inconvenient vibrators.

Elevated Missionary

In this sex position, the bottom lifts their lower back and waist using a wedge or pillow to make the usual missionary more lively. Good sex is seen in angles. Therefore, elevate with more modifications to offer pressure and friction for maximum stimulations.

Tense and Reverse

Nothing beats getting turned on without your view of occurrences. Allow your partner to edge by letting them stimulate you using their mouth, toys, or fingers. Do this until you can't withstand the pleasure anymore, finalizing with ultimate orgasms that blow your mind.

Wheelbarrow

This sex position is similar to the doggy style but is a bit vigorous. One can begin from the doggy style, then let the hind partner lift the receiver's legs and wrap around their lower back area. Not only will the position keep you fit but also allow deeper penetrations and orgasms.

Yab-yum

In this sex position, one partner sits with straight legs while the other goes on top with their legs straddling and hooking around the bottom's waist. It steams intimacy by allowing eye contact and matching your breathing with your partner. It's also a shower sex style that allows more grinding to increase stamina when thrusting.

Mutual Masturbation

Masturbation is not a sex position, but it gives more libido. Doing it mutually heats up the room with pleasure. Get on your back to give an open view. You can do it together or watch the other to get aroused, then join later. You can also help your partner by sucking their nipples, performing a handjob, or using sex toys.

Sixty-nine-69

This is a tested oral style that can stimulate and arouse sexual partners. Sex therapists report that it can sometimes be hard to give and receive pleasure simultaneously, but it's good if both partners aim to extend the session. 

Cowgirl

The giving partner lies on their back while the receiver straddles on top, taking charge. This helps women achieve orgasms easily and save energy through less thrusting and more rocking and grinding, leading to intensified pleasure.

Reverse Cowgirl

Get into the usual cowgirl sex position and allow the top partner to spin and face away. It's pleasurable for women that love taking charge during sessions and gives the bottom a different view. You can get both clitoral and internal sensitization, thus easily orgasm. 

Spooning

Spooning is an alternative for individuals that want to take things slowly but still enjoy intimacy. You can employ this position when tired but still want to extend or get closer to the end. This sex position makes it possible to incorporate anal and vaginal penetration. One gets to enjoy intimacy as things escalate slowly, giving powerful G-spot orgasms. 

Standing Sex

Standing sex is great as it helps change the usual bedroom environment. It is fun and entails several modifications, such as one partner raising a leg or leaning against the wall. If the receiver raises one leg, be sure to receive deeper penetrations that will leave you screaming in ecstasy. It's also fun because partners can move to whatever areas they feel like. Changing locations is exciting since it assures fun and great orgasms.

More Tips

Trying out Different Things

Apart from exploring different sex positions, you can use newer stuff, including toys, porn watching, or anal play, for more chances of increasing the sex urge and orgasming. Bondage play with the use of blindfolds or lighter restraints can help spice things up and bring more fun to the games. 

Don’t Fear Highlighting Your Desires

Communicate with your partner and tell them what you need them to do for or to you. Do you need an oral treatment but are afraid to ask? Don't fear since it's a great option, more so if one partner isn't ready for the main action yet. 

The Bottom Line

People’s sex drives differ. If you and your partner are lucky to have higher drives, modifications can help elevate your sexual life. This can be through a change in sex positions, as seen in the above article, or masturbation and the use of sex toys. Set the mood and apply the above positions for a different encounter if you want to get the most out of your sex sessions.