Paddles

Welcome to our curated collection of BDSM spanking paddles – a sensual selection crafted for erotic impact play, dominance, and playful punishment. Whether you're a curious beginner or an experienced kinkster, Peaches and Screams offers spanking paddles in leather, wood, silicone, rubber, and metal to suit every taste and intensity level. From soft furry paddles to punishing vampire styles, explore tools that tantalise, tease, or throb with pain and pleasure.

What Are Spanking Paddles?

Spanking paddles are flat, impact-based BDSM tools used to strike the skin during kink play. Designed for consensual spanking, they enhance sensation, stimulate blood flow, and intensify erotic control and submission. Paddles come in a range of materials — each offering different levels of sting, thud, or teasing warmth — and can be used on the buttocks, thighs, or other erogenous zones. Unlike general spanking toys like crops or floggers, BDSM paddles provide broader impact and are ideal for couples exploring D/s dynamics, punishment play, or sensory thrills.

Types of BDSM Spanking Paddles

Spanking paddles come in various modes and features, making them perfect for spanking games. They also come with a first aid kit, which helps solve any problem during the play. Below is a collection of spanking paddles for sex.

Vampire Spanking Paddles

These spanking toys are specifically designed for intermediaries and experienced players as they feature spikes that can cause bruises or pierce through your partner's skin during the spanking. Avoid using the punishment paddle on multiple partners since it contains bloodstains that can cause contamination. Consider them if you are looking for intense and extreme pain and pleasure.

Furry Spanking Paddles

Do you want something softer and more comfortable? These BDSM spanking paddles are ideal for a newbie. Unlike vampire paddles, they leave no marks on the skin. You aren't likely to feel them as you do with other BDSM paddles. Buy this type for a great spanking experience.

Knopfler Spanking Paddles

These paddles for BDSM are one of the big paddles in this collection. They are rectangular-shaped, with a large surface area, but fail to deliver intense and severe sensations. This makes them the perfect choice for starters. Advanced individuals can also use them to deliver mild and extreme sensations.

The Spencer Spanking Paddles

Spencer paddles are spanking toys designed perfectly for experienced individuals featuring several holes for more intense delivery. You need to be careful when spanking your partner with Spencer paddles since they are quite harder than other punishment paddle. Avoid the Spencer paddles if you are a beginner since they can easily cause blisters and bruises on the skin.

How to Use BDSM Paddles: Positioning and Technique

Spanking isn’t just about the swing — it’s about the angle, the rhythm, and the delicious anticipation. Here are the best positions and techniques to turn every paddle strike into a pulse-racing, pleasure-packed thrill.

Position

Paddling is a game of angles. It can be enjoyed in different positions whether standing, lying down, bent over or doggy style. You might need to change between positions to allow access to the thighs, breasts and genitals.

For those slim people without the extra natural padding, lying down or standing are the safest positions. If bent, the skin and muscles are stretched and can risk hitting the pelvic bone or sciatic nerve.

Technique

As the master, you have the power to control the intensity of the sensations delivered. For a sting impact, lift the sex paddles immediately to allow a swipe of cold air on the skin. For a deep thuddy sensation, hold down the sex paddle after the strike. Twist things up, and alternate both sensations in one session for body-numbing erotic gratification. Then climax with a furry soothing and maybe a deep penile thrusting for toe-curling multiple orgasms.

Be sure to respect your bottom and deliver only what they can handle. Establish a safe word for safer play.

Shopping For the Best Spanking Toys

There are several aspects you need to prioritize before shopping as a beginner. They include:

Designs

The design of the spanking paddle for sex matters, especially when it comes to colour and general style. Consider going for your favourite appearances and colours to locate a sex paddle that fits your desires and tastes.

Compare the Handles

The handles of the BDSM spanking paddles dictate a lot when it comes to spanking. Purchase paddle handles that are comfortable and easy to hold. Avoid sex paddles with two small handles. Consider reviewing the paddle's measurements to confirm if they fit perfectly in the hands. Buying perfect handles will prevent you from causing injuries during the play.

Consider the Intensity and Marks

Looking for something that won't cut or leave bruises on your skin? Consider buying paddles for BDSM with no spikes as they can easily leave bruises and cuts on the skin, especially when using force on your partner. Buy spanking toys made from pure leather or silicone. Also, consider using the paddles for BDSM with care to prevent hurting your partner.

Materials

The most common materials used in crafting spanking toys are soft leather. There are other materials, including silicone, wood, rubber, and fluffy, which are also perfect. There are numerous material choices from which you can choose for a good start as a beginner. Material like leather, rubber, and silicone is soft, flexible, and high-quality, making them a perfect choice for you. If you are looking for a hard and erotic experience, go for harder materials like Perspex and wood.

Sex paddles are made from different materials each crafted to deliver a unique sensation. You will find them in wood, metal, leather, rubber, plastics, silicone, padded and many other materials. Here is a breakdown of materials sensations.

Fluffy: these combine two materials such as wood and wool to create a light soothing BDSM paddle. They are more for teasing than pain delivery hence, perfect for beginners. You can use them to warm up and arouse your bottom. For advanced plays, these paddles for BDSM are great for soothing and cooling down the nerves after a rough play.

Rubber: only use this material if you are dense into pain. It can cause intense pain with a stinging sensation.

Leather: the impact varies depending on how soft the bondage paddle is. It tends to have a stingy sensation. Leather is commonly combined with wood to create a rigid and thuddy impact.

Silicone: don’t be cheated by its smooth feel, these bad boys deliver a deep painful sting. Start slow and work your way up to your desired sensation.

Wood and Plastics: these materials are perfect if one needs pain and adrenaline. Because of rigidity, the stinging sensation reverberates into the skin, stirring you up into a fiery confusion of bittersweet arousal.

Metal: it is aesthetical and enticing to the eye, but extremely painful and stinging. It is best left for advanced players who are turned on by dense pain.

Type Matters

Spencer Paddles: famous for their severity, they have multiple holes on the surface to reduce air resistance and intensify the sting sensation. They can cause blisters in the case of rough play.

Furry Paddles: these are best for a warm-up and teasing sensory play. Furry paddles deliver a light sting sensation that doesn’t last long.

Short Board: These are short-boarded paddles worn on the hand. The intensity delivered depends on the force applied to the swing. It’s great for use during sex, simply slide it in and spank your partner repeatedly as you thrust them to intensify their sexual excitement.

Imprint Paddles: these are designed to leave patterns or strips on the skin like a temporary pink tattoo.  They can deliver a thuddy or stingy sensation depending on the force and materials used.

Electro-Stim Paddles: If you like enjoying some electric shock therapy, turn up the orgasmic voltage with every spank. Just remember to apply electro gel to your skin to avoid burns. Also avoid E-Stim paddles if you suffer from any heart condition, epilepsy or when pregnant.

Vampire Paddles: if you like it bloody, then you are in for a treat. These paddles consist of sharp spikes that pierce the skin with every strike, leaving you with a bloody painful bottom. Its brutal design is better left for dense sadistic players. Be sure to sterilize the BDSM paddle and take health precautions to avoid infections.

Spanking Toys Safety Tips

Spanking in bondage games doesn’t always turn out as sweet as you thought. Sometimes, it involves punishment and the instillation of pain, which might be fun or extremely erotic. The following safety tips should be considered.

• Safe words should be discussed before the play with critical boundaries.
• Avoid spanking the ribs, spine, neck, joints, face or blood vessels, and other critical organs like genitals. Concentrate on areas like the upper thighs and butt as they can take any form of spank.
• Avoid sharing BDSM spanking paddles, especially those crafted from porous materials. Sharing increases the risks of spreading bacterial infections.
• Be responsible and respectful to your submissive partner. Consider nursing their injuring when in case the bondage paddle slips during the play. This is a form of increasing trust and intimacy between the parties.

Padding Guidelines and Precautions

• Don’t hit your partner using the edge of your paddle sex toy. You also need to ensure the surface is smooth (no splinters) before use.
• Be gentle, especially on the genitals and breasts.
• Avoid striking the face, neck, kidney areas, back, spine and joints (elbows, knees and ankles).
• Don’t share your paddles for BDSM if they are made from porous materials.

Bondage Paddle Care

Most paddles are easy to clean. Soak a cotton pad in warm soapy water and an antibacterial toy cleaner (visit Peaches and Screams) and wipe the paddle sex toy surface and handle after use. Apply a conditioner on leather materials to preserve the texture.

Beyond Spanking Paddles: Whips, Floggers, and Feather Ticklers

Spanker and Ticklers

Spanking and tickling are two types of BDSM activities that can add an exciting element to your bedroom repertoire. Spankers are tools used in BDSM play that can involve soft light slaps or hard smacking spanks depending on preference. Feather ticklers are another fun option for exploring tactile sensations during intimate moments with a partner. They are used by gently tracing over each other’s body parts resulting in pleasurable stimulation. The sensation provided by this type of toy is more subtle than spanking, however, it still can create goosebumps while eliciting pleasure if done just right.

Floggers

A flogger or whip is a type of impact toy that is usually constructed with a handle and multiple strands. The number and length of the strands determine how much sensation they provide when wielded against a person's skin.

Feather Ticklers

Feather ticklers are one of the most common forms of bondage toys used by couples during their intimate moments. They provide an intense sensation that can be both sensual and fun depending on how it's used. While some people may think that using a feather tickler is too intimidating or scary, it really depends on each person’s own level of comfort when it comes to trying new things.

Frequently Asked Questions About Paddles

Is Leather Better Than Other Types Of Spanking Toys?

Leather is one of the most popular materials when it comes to spanking toys because its durable surface delivers an intense thud that both tops and bottoms enjoy experiencing! It’s also great for those who want something relatively lightweight but still offers plenty of stings when necessary. Just remember to always start slow when playing with leather floggers and other similar tools until both partners feel comfortable pushing boundaries further!

Are Metal Spanking Paddles Safe?

Metal paddles are usually made from steel or aluminium and provide a heavy-duty sensation when used in role play activities. As long as you use them responsibly and don't hit too hard or too frequently, these kinds of sex paddles should be safe for both partners. Just make sure that you're communicating clearly about what level of intensity each partner is comfortable with during playtime.

What types of activities can I do with my paddle?

Sex Paddles offer plenty of creative possibilities when used properly within a consensual setting between adults who trust each other completely. You can experiment with different positions whether standing up or lying down depending on preference as well as various intensities from light tapping to hard whacking depending on tolerance levels. You may also want to incorporate accessories such as blindfolds or restraints for added fun too.