10 EXPLOSIVE TECHNIQUES: HOW TO FINGER YOURSELF TO ORGASM

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Masturbation is a normal and natural sexual activity; hence, there is no need to feel guilty. Surprisingly, many women who masturbate cannot admit or talk about it like men. Luckily, here are ten explosive techniques women can finger themselves to orgasm.

Female masturbation is all about fingering. It is very easy and requires no skills for one to do it. Female masturbation is quite a complicated process than males. For instance, males only need to stroke the penis shaft in up and down motion and at a preferred speed to easily reach orgasm. On the other hand, women take time to reach orgasm. Many masturbation techniques help women feel pleasure, but reaching orgasm is never guaranteed. Masturbation releases hormones that help in loosening tension in the body. Besides, it enhances blood flow, which promotes a healthy vagina.

Reasons for Masturbating

Women experience different feelings after masturbating, and this is completely understandable. Some find it satisfying, while others might feel sad after masturbation. Though women can use various masturbation means, fingering is easiest since it does not need a partner to feel the pleasure. When you are in a good mood and a favorable environment, finger yourself until you feel the intense pleasure. 

Some women may reach a more powerful orgasm during fingering than when they have actual sex with their partner. You can add sex toys to the play to get more pleasure than before. However, you need to understand vital things that will make you the best masturbator. Below are some discussed ways of making your pussy wetter.

Hygiene

The fingering game is very dirty, but it doesn't mean you neglect hygiene. Wash your hands first before inserting them into your vagina to prevent infection. Dirty hands can carry bacteria that may infect your vagina or anal cavity when not cleaned properly. Don’t forget to trip and file fingernails before fingering to prevent injuring your genitals. You can also take a shower to have a fresh feeling before starting.

Be Relaxed

We all have pressure and tension, but it doesn't mean that we should not enjoy masturbation pleasure. Although we worry about many things in life, we should not hinder masturbation pleasure. We need to ensure our mind is relaxed and focused on fingering. To ease the tension, fantasize with your favorite actor or partner. You can have a warm shower or even a bubble bath in the bathtub to unwind. 

Stimulate the Sensual Part Using a Mirror

You can stand naked in front of a full-body-sized mirror to help you get to a good mood. Some women are turned on when they see themselves naked. The mirror will help you familiarize yourself with your body. You can also appreciate your butt, boobs, and the cut between your legs. Slowly and softly touch your body to know the most sensitive parts.

Use Plenty of Lubricants

Women's bodies are softer than men's. However, this doesn't mean they should not use lube to enhance the desired sexual pleasure. Use silicone lubricant while fingering to melt your body like chocolate ready for licking. Apply sufficient lube in the whole body as you feel how your body becomes excited. If you don't like lubing the whole body, you can apply a lot of lubricant to your fingers. A heating sensation is an indication that you are going to have the best orgasm.

Don’t Rush

Masturbation is not a compulsory duty that you have to do it very fast. Ensure you have enough time to build the emotions and feelings before the fingers reach the vagina. Begin by touching your neck softly as you glide the hands to the boobs. Press the boobs in a circular motion until the nipples become hard. Pinch, stroke, or tug the nipples to turn yourself on.  Play with the nipple affectionately as you apply saliva at the nipple. You can now take your hand to the inner thighs and rub them with the tip of your finger. After some time, you can now tease the vagina as you keep rubbing the other body parts. When you feel that the vagina is ready, insert the fingers.

Stimulate the Clitoris

Clit is a very sensitive part and is covered by a hood. Many women have an orgasm through clit stimulation than fingering. Use one hand to massage the other parts of the body while the other hand massages the clit, preparing the vagina for what is next. Slide back to expose the clit and massage it using fingers. To feel the intense pleasure, press and rub the clit in circular, clockwise, and anti-clockwise motions. You can also move the fingers sideways to increase speed and build tension.

Explore the Vagina

When you feel like running out of breath while massaging the clit, gently insert the fingers instead of stopping. Beginners should start with one finger then upgrade later. There is no need to use lube when the vagina is wet. Bend the finger in a “C” shape inside the vagina, then slide it inside and out. Use one hand to rub the clit to make the sensation more intense for a mighty orgasm.

Try Various Positions

Changing positions gives you different sensual sensations. For example, stretching your body while masturbating enhances lustful slide, leading to a powerful orgasm. When masturbating solo, you can explore different sex positions, including squatting, standing, sitting, missionary, and doggy-style positions.

Use Sex Toys

Sex toys are a booster of enjoyment as they increase sensual sensation. You can use a dildo to fantasize your partner, favorite actor, or a porn star as you stimulate the clit with your fingers. You can also use a vibrator for nipple stimulation to add sensation. Vibrators are the best for giving your fingers a break, and some women can't experience orgasm without them.

Explore the Anus

Fingering can also involve playing with your anal cavity. You can stimulate the G-spot indirectly when you finger the asshole leading to an anal orgasm. Doggy style is the best when anally. However, remember to use a lot of lube to avoid painful friction.

The Bottom Line

Fingering is a natural female masturbation process and helps women mentally and physically. It is also counted as solo sex since there are no worries about contracting. Like any other sexual activity, fingering helps women reach orgasms easily, reducing anxiety and stress. Learn more about the best ways of fingering yourself to have an explosive orgasm as a sign of appreciation and self-love.