10 INTENSE HAND JOB TIPS THAT WILL GIVE HIM EXPLOSIVE ORGASMS

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Giving a great hand job to your guy is one of the most valuable weapons that you should equip yourself with. The hand jobs will help you bring up your man begging for more and with an arching ecstasy at the back.

This will make you know your level in giving oral sex, which satisfies your men well. However, it might make you know some bitter truths to discovering that you are perfect in giving hand jobs which blow up. Let us now look at the hand jobs one after the other;

Build up or… or no build-up

Most women like slow build-ups towards sex. A slow sexual tension slowly amped up the whole night, a whole week or even a day which is followed by teasing foreplay just before the climax and passion are reached satisfied incredibly, and can be so addictive. Men are said to enjoy this build-up even more.

Others may find a long build-up with foreplay and sexual tension so frustrating. You will only realize that you are a queen who can give a blow job to your man with the hand job when you are able to give lousy jobs.

If your man enjoys your blow-up skills, then before even taking the penis out of the trouser, gently and slowly massage his penis while still inside his pant. This is the easiest thing you should do to arouse him and turn him on.

Reach Inside With Gentle Fingers

Rub your man from outside his trouser for some time; this will automatically create a feeling in you to want to move inside. Unzip his trouser, then pull them when this happens to you.

Move your fingers gently over his penis instead of grabbing it. Your touches should be very light and soft while trailing your fingers on his penis. Touch downwards till up to the rough skin which separates his anus and the testicles, called the perineum, then back to the tip of his penis, the glans.

Precum play

If he is already producing the semen-like fluid for lubrication, slowly touch his penis with the tip of your finger to spread this fluid around his penis tip and across it.

This precum makes the perfect lube; hence it makes sensations in your fingertips very intense. The period you use to build up foreplay is proportional to the ability of your man to produce precum.

The Gentle Claw

Making your finger be like claws like those in-game arcades is a very sensitive hand job technique. Here, you just need to keep together with your fingertips with your lower hand on top of the penis head of your man. Touch it first with your fingertips. Then spread the fingertips over his penis head then lower it down.

You can either focus on the head of the penis or slowly move your fingers to his shaft downwards. Moving your hand up and down with very little pressure provides a lot of sensations, mostly when using lube.

Traditional With A Twist

The traditional, the standard way of giving a hand job to your man is by grabbing his penis, then wrapping it with your fingers and stroking it upwards and downwards. This might be slightly dull.

Ways of enhancing this technique for pleasure include;

First, grab his penis, then around the shaft, wrap your fingers. Close to his balls should be your ring finger with your index finger close to his penis top.

Give him slow upward and downward strokes using your hands as you can.

This is a very important step; as you stroke him, keep rubbing your thumb back and above his penis head. Your finger is meant to perform the up and down standard job of the hand.

This technique can be made very easy with lubes, and this will make your partner well satisfied.

Double Handed Backhand

The traditional technique will feel enjoyable to your guy, though it may be difficult to memorize quickly. The easiest way to perform the traditional technique is by using both hands.

Use one of your hands on his shaft, jerking it upward and downward. The other hand should be on his penis head.

The escalator

This technique is called the escalator because your hands continuously move. For starting, use your right hand to stroke him from the tip of his penis to the bottom. When your right hand has reached the bottom, you can just now withdraw it, don’t stroke it upward again.

Use your right hand one more time before employing your left. The hands should alternate while using them.

Balls in play

Here are the techniques to employ;

Squeezing; take the testicles of your man in your hand, then squeeze them softly.

Pulling; be careful here not to injure your guy. Grab his testicles gently and pull them softly from his body; this will extremely stimulate him.

Sucking; this one falls on the realms of oral sex. As you give a hand job, put his testicles on his mouth, then softly massage, suck and lick them using your tongue. Don’t use your teeth so as not to hurt him.

Anilingus Hand Job

Setting your man up is very crucial. As you give a hand job to your man, it makes in the best position for anilingus. Just lick the anus of your man and the areas around it.

The Frenulum Is Your Friend

The most sensitive areas of the penis are the glans or the head. In most men, the frenulum is the most sensitive part of the glans. Just touch the tiny skin on the lower side of the penis of your partner, near the shaft and the head, and get him aroused. Remember to be gentle with this part of the penis not to injure your partner.

Bottom line

It is good for you to know that an impressive hand job is just like a great fuck like a woman. At times, it may be fast or slow; however, it cannot be very fast than a lady can use her vagina while sitting in a cowgirl position.

Putting a blindfold and a gag over your partner's mouth is another great option since it is sexy to most men.