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HOW TO HAVE AMAZING HAND JOBS

HOW TO HAVE AMAZING HAND JOBS

  • by Jekaterina Gussarova
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HOW TO HAVE AMAZING HAND JOBS

  • by Jekaterina Gussarova

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🌟 Quick Fire Summary 🌟

Get ready to spice things up with a few simple tips to transform your hand job game! 🌶️

  • 💥 Take your time—slow and steady wins the pleasure race.
  • 💖 Use a little lube for the smoothest of moves.
  • ⚡ Play with pressure—light and firm strokes for ultimate variety.
  • 🎉 Communication is key—let your partner be your guide.

🧠 Key Advice & Tips from Our Experts 💡

  • 🚀 Pro Tip: Try switching up your grip throughout for a truly wild ride.
  • 🌸 Fancy a little flair? Add some wrist action for a touch of drama.
  • 🎯 A little bit of teasing goes a long way—build up the anticipation!
  • 💬 Communication = magic! Don’t be afraid to ask what feels good.

Hand jobs are fun and extremely intimate in pleasuring your playmate. Sex therapists noticed that hand jobs rarely occur in most bedroom sessions. Engaging in an intimate skill that you aren't used to makes it infinitely hotter. The brain is oriented to crave something new, even if it's old-fashioned. This article discusses tips for giving an amazing hand job

Talk Over It With Your Partner

The best sexual experience starts by communicating about what you want. Begin by finding out how your partner likes pleasuring themselves. Let them inform you or demonstrate what they do on themselves as you watch and take note. Notice that you not only understand how he inputs speed and motion, but it also steams you up. Most individuals would get turned on when seeing a partner masturbate. 

Note What You’re Working On

You can perform a hand job on a circumcised or uncircumcised penis. A circumcised penis is mainly sensitive at the tip where the foreskin was removed. Perhaps it would help to spend more time here for more pleasure. An uncircumcised penis is more sensitive around the hood, as they’re unexposed. Be keen on this type, especially when given a chance to watch how he pleasures himself. Be careful to notice if he pulls the foreskin or not.

Never Forget a Lube

For the best hand job, lube is extremely significant. Unlike the vagina or mouth that contain natural lubrication, the penis and hands are dry. Therefore, lube is important to reduce skin-to-skin friction, easing things by making the hands and penis smoother and more enjoyable. More interestingly, you can use some spit to moisturize it, although it evaporates quickly and dries up, unlike a good lube.

Embrace Pressure

Men's biggest issue is that women are extra weak with the cock. It may not be a woman's fault since her clit's sensitivity is high, and that's why she tends to handle the cock with such care, not knowing she can be firmer. This doesn't insinuate that you squeeze him too tight to turn his eggplant purple. Wait for his penis to harden before hooking your hand and increase the pressure slowly. Ask him to inform you when to increase or reduce the motions. Don't be surprised to realize how much more pressure he'll ask for.

Use Different Hand Skills

High odds are he’s used to climaxing only doing the up and down hand motion. Therefore, be simple when giving a hand job. Don't complicate matters with techniques that can strain him and ruin the mood. You can swap skills every few minutes. This doesn't mean you stop and abruptly switch to other things, but a slight tweak, including slowing down or moving faster with more pressure, can help. One or two techniques can help transition the mood. For instance, cup your entire hand around the cock's base and begin to twist, moving up and down along his shaft. Fasten the motion for more intensifying pleasure.

All Hands at Work

The best technique to quickly pleasure him is to involve both hands in the cock party. His masturbation sessions are likely through one arm. Adding a second arm only spikes up things leading to more excitement and sensitization. Moreover, engaging both hands mainly shows your commitment to offering this great performance. Be sure he'll treasure the hand job more, knowing you're a pro and love it too.

Practice on Multiple Areas

Ball plays bring out a different type of arousal. You can smoothly rub your fingers on them or safely cradle them in your hand to bring out sweet sensations. Remember to experiment with the perineum since it's extra sensitive due to the numerous nerve endings. Your partner might love some butt action. However, don't try to stimulate other parts without his permission. Consult him first before progressing.

Focus on His Cues

Your partner should inform you whenever there's discomfort and when to stop doing something. It's important to focus on his guidance by observing the body language

The Bottom Line

Touching and caressing develop a different intimacy level and appeal to most people. It's up to you to opt for what suits you best.


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