HOW TO READ BODY LANGUAGE AND KNOW WHAT HE’S THINKING
People express different body language in different situations. Sad, happy, moody, and romantic moments differ in body language. Lovers may not speak their mind when offended or wanting something but show certain gestures. Herein is how to read your man’s body language, including; body language cues, eyebrows movement, lips part, catching your attention, lingering in the hug, and facing you in a group.
According to Borg (2009), you can know somebody’s inner thoughts by observing their body language despite no uttered words. This is how individuals show their feelings. It could be hand gestures, head tilts, or smiles that replace words. The same applies during dating; body language matters. Men are mainly in the picture. You understand how different communication can be between men and women. Suppose a man isn't great at self-expression; you should look for some movements and cues if they interest you. Below are various body language hacks to watch out for in a man you're vibing with.
Body Language Cues For A Man In Love
Eyebrows Movement
According to Fitzgerald (1991), some men’s eyebrows may rise and fall when seeing someone they're attracted to. If they like us too, their eyebrows raise. It can take a fifth of a second. It happens worldwide, regardless of race, age, and class. Eyebrows lift open the eyes, allowing more light reflection off the surface. This makes them appear brighter, bigger and inviting. It may suggest that someone likes you even before they admit it. You can extend it up to a second to up the chances of informing him about your interest if you like them back.
Lips Part
Lips will part when a guy likes what he’s seeing. Your guy’s lips will open slightly and instantly when your eyes lock.
Catching Your Attention
A man struggling with exaggerated movements tries to be unique in the crowd. Some may become boisterous and loud, whereas others might do quiet signs ensuring you notice the movement flash. He may also detach from friends and move away slightly with hopes of getting noticed.
Never Forgets Your Touch Preferences
Your guy recalls your boundaries and touch preferences. Experts say it signals your responsiveness. It shows you know your needs; it is your major factor. For instance, you shared your love of cuddling with your pet. It might tell you you prefer physical touch or quality time, especially in low moments. Whenever he inquires to know if cuddling will calm you after a tough day, be sure it denotes an attraction.
No Attachment To His Phone
A man that's not glued to his phone shows a bare minimum but implies well. You can’t imagine how many people in restaurants scroll and text instead of talking. It's an indicator that your guy may be interested in you if he doesn't use his phone actively instead, looking at you occasionally.
Lingering In The Hug
A normal hug lasts about two minutes. According to Floyd & Voloudakis (1999), hugs may confuse because platonic people do it. However, focus on the embrace. It may be a sign if his hugs are firmer and last longer than usual. His intentions seem more meaningful and intimate. You can consider your man’s lead-in during hugs. He might take your arms and hook them on his shoulders when hugging. It shows he’s into you because this position mostly goes with a kiss. You may kiss if you intend the same.
He Faces You In A Group
Groups give a dynamic setting, especially one involving friends or alcohol. That’s why it allows a good opportunity for doing body language detective practices. He may face and address you as though you were the only one round. It's a vibe.
His Engagement In A Conversation
Look out for the unexpected. Your guy refers to past experiences and discussions in a conversation. That suggests they pay attention when they spend moments with you. They could be developing a special bond.
An Open Posture
The guy stands with his legs hip-width apart, arms crossed, and shoulders relaxed. An open body language indicates that the man is curious and concentrates on you.
Smoothens Or Messes Up His Hair
Of the two, the gesture chosen relies on his hairstyle type and what will make it look more flattering. Most men do it involuntarily and more frequently. Be keen next time you get out of the restroom, and you'll see his hands on the hair messing it up.
Does Some Magic With His Socks
Earlier, guys mainly dressed up following special events. While their suits may have been in mothballs for months, the socks continually got worn out. They could take a whole night pulling them up to look better. It acted as part of grooming but was surprisingly accurate. For this reason, if he adjusts his socks, the sign is almost 100% that he has an interest in and trying to appeal to you.
He Ensures You See Him Looking At Your Body
‘Visual voyaging’ is the term used, as described by experts. His eyes go around your body and stop at the sweet spots. Be certain he scanned your entire body the first time he saw you. He wants to ensure you notice him checking out your body. The main reason could be he considers you as a sexual partner.
Touches His Face More As He Looks At You
According to La Barre (1947), a man interested in you will stroke his cheeks using fingers and rub his chin and ears. This response combines preening, excitement, and autoerotic touching. In the presence of someone we're attracted to, our skin becomes more sensitive to stimulation and touch. Suppose you smoke, more cigarettes will do, and the same applies to alcohol. You may keep touching your mouth at the lips because they're sensitive and feel wonderful. Besides, it initiates the idea that kissing may be good for your guy’s mind.
The Bottom Line
Maybe you locked eyes with a guy across a dimly lit room, and more questions crossed your mind. You wonder whether your guy likes you and if he's single. It may be a sign that you're attracted to him. Therefore, keep gazing at him and check out the clues given in the above discussion. You can up your hopes depending on the situation if you find any.
Reference:
Borg, J. (2009). Body language: 7 easy lessons to master the silent language. FT press.
Fitzgerald, F. S. (1991). The Great Gatsby (1925). na.
Floyd, K., & Voloudakis, M. (1999). Attributions for expectancy violating changes in affectionate behavior in platonic friendships. The Journal of Psychology, 133(1), 32-48.
La Barre, W. (1947). The cultural basis of emotions and gestures. Ardent Media.