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HOW TO FINGER YOUR GIRL FOR SCREAMING, SHAKING, AND CRYING ORGASM

HOW TO FINGER YOUR GIRL FOR SCREAMING, SHAKING, AND CRYING ORGASM

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Barbara Santini
Written by:

Psychologist and Sex and Relationships Advisor
Veronika Matutyte
Medically Reviewed by:

Medical Doctor
Katie Lasson
Fact Checked by:

Sex and Relationship Adviser

📚 Key Points to Ponder

  • 💖 **Communication is Key:** Chat openly about desires for a delightful experience! 🗣️
  • ✨ **Techniques Matter:** Experiment with different motions and pressures! 🎉
  • 🌈 **Be Adventurous:** Don’t hesitate to explore new angles and positions! 🔄
  • 🍭 **Add a Dash of Fun:** Use flavoured lubes or tantalising toys for extra thrills! 🍒
  • 🚀 **Enjoy the Moment:** Remember, pleasure is about fun—keep things light and enjoyable! 😄

💡 Tips & Tricks from the Experts

  • 🔍 **Pay Attention:** Tune into her body language—it's the key to unlocking pleasure! 👀
  • 🎨 **Get Creative:** Use your fingers like a maestro—different strokes for different folks! 🎶
  • 🕯️ **Set the Mood:** Soft lighting and relaxing tunes can turn the ordinary into the extraordinary! 🌙
  • 💋 **Explore Together:** Try new things as a team—it's all about the shared experience! 👩‍❤️‍👨
  • 💖 **Stay Relaxed:** The more relaxed you both are, the more pleasurable the experience becomes! 🧘‍♂️

As you will be fingering your girl it is advisable to get her feedback on whether or not you are satisfying her or just causing her discomfort. This communication is crucial as it is ingredient to being the best she never has had.

Rubbing Her Clit

From facts, majority of women prefer clitoral stimulation. It is conformed that the clitoris more sensitive compared to the vagina in terms of having more pleasure. Despite the fact that vaginal stimulation contributes to orgasm, majority of women have their clitoris more sensitive region and therefore should be caressed, aroused, rubbed and loved the moment you want to arouse her by fingering her.

Even by doing nothing else, rubbing the clitoris is just more than enough to take the woman to climax as long as you had placed her on the mood by first removing the brakes like from the bad passed experiences to her sex drive by accelerating her sex drive.

Long, Slow Stroking

Stroking your girl from the end of her vagina to her clit is another way to pleasure her. It is fun when you also cover your finger on her natural lubrication. You need to vary on how fast you move your finger and also changing stroking position. Compliments also goes hand in hand with this technique, you can complement her as you please her.

Four Fingers of Fun

It is the rubbing of the four fingers over her clit and the vagina in a cyclic motion. Covering your fingers with her natural lubricant will make it slipper, wetter and pleasuring her even more. While varying the pressure during the round motion.

Her U Spot

It is a matter of stroking her U spot. For effectiveness, extend your finger up to her clit as you stroke will assist to increase the amount of satisfaction.

But being pleasured by stroking the u spot so if your girl is not for it then use another technique.

The Clitoral Hood

Some women are not pleasured by rubbing their women rather it causes them discomfort as their clits are so sensitive and rubbing it directly hurts regardless of the lubrication. Fortunately, there exists a simple solution that is, rubbing clitoral hood instead.

This clitoral hood behaves as buffer between fingers and you can provide her with plenty of pleasurable stimulation.

Orgasmic Meditation

Orgasmic meditation is easy to perform and if you do it correctly, you are able to give your girl a 15 minutes orgasm and once you see the benefits you guys will be hooked.

For this to work, your girl should on her back with legs wide open. You on the other hand should be on a comfortable position and then stroke her upper left clit but only with lubricated fingers. The touches should be as light as possible. Move your fingers back and forth only applying sight amounts of pressure to her clit. This is a perfect technique for your partner to ask for more.

Squeezing/Massaging the base of her clit

Massaging the bottom of her clit by placing your thumb and the index finger on the sides of the clit and then gently squeeze down and inwards but be careful not to squeeze the displayed part of the clit as this will definitely hurt her.

It is good to start off with gentle pressure then vary the pressure later. Do these repeat ably as you can for feedback with stimulation, she enjoys the most.

Loving Her Labia

Although the labia are not as sensitive as the clit, slowly rubbing them up and downwill bring her near orgasm without her climaxing and this makes a perfect foreplay.

Using either her natural lubrication or the bottle will definitely make stroking her labia more pleasurable.

Humping and Grinding

As most women learnt how to masturbate through rubbing against pillow or a blanket and you can use this to your advantage.

When she is laying place one of your legs in between her as then moves it up and down pressing her vulva but ensuring you are maintaining the pressure. Besides, make her be in a position she is able to grind on you.

Pearl Necklace

This involves basically taking a necklace with lots of circle beads and slowing moving it on your girl’s labia so that it runs over her vagina. Addition of some lube will make it perfect as it will be slippery.

Fingering from Behind

As this varies from one woman to the other the best way forward is to simply ask your girl with position of fingering she finds pleasurable or by experimenting.

Fingering from behind actually involves fingering opposite side of her vagina to her G spot.

Fingering Her G spot

The G spot is amongst the sensitive spots inside the vagina. It is actually located where you are able to access her clitoris internally. Therefore, as you will be rubbing her vagina inwards and clit outwards, she will feel lots of pleasure. Besides, G spot will make her squirt.

Fingering Her Anally

Fingering her vagina is not the only option as you can also finger your girl anally. Not all the girls will enjoy this so you should inquire from your partner. If she enjoys then that’s a perfect starting point before proceeding to anal sex. If your girl is not into anal fingering then just focus on orgasm, making her squirt and eating her pussy. If you are going for the anal fingering, you should remember you need to have lube.

Your Fingers and a vibrator

You can use your fingers on her clit while penetrating with the vibrator and there is no harm mixing the two. The trick is always trying mixing and doing this differently to discover which is more enjoyed by your partner.

Fingers Inside and out

Since there might be no vibrator, this technique will work as you will be incorporating internal and external stimulation. While doing this you can grind your hand on clit for stimulations.

Bottom line

In summary, not all of the techniques will apply to your girl because women are different but you can use another technique that works for both you and your partner. Besides, one should keep in mind that the best person to teach you how to finger is your girl.

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