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15 FEMDOM IDEAS TO DOMINATE YOUR MAN COMPLETELY

15 FEMDOM IDEAS TO DOMINATE YOUR MAN COMPLETELY

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Katie Lasson
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Sex and Relationship Adviser
Veronika Matutyte
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Medical Doctor
Barbara Santini
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Psychologist and Sex and Relationships Advisor

✨ Key Points to Master Femdom Domination ✨

  • 👑 Be Confident: Command the space like the queen you are – assertiveness is your best accessory.
  • 🔗 Set Boundaries: Define what’s hot and what’s not – communication is key to consensual kinkiness.
  • 🖤 Play with Power: Experiment with different roles and scenarios – the world is your (very naughty) oyster!
  • 💬 Stay Vocal: Don’t shy away from commands and dirty talk – your words are the most potent tool in your arsenal.

💡 Expert Tips to Elevate Your Femdom Game 💡

  • 🕯️ Create the Mood: Light some candles, put on a sultry playlist, and set the scene – atmosphere is everything.
  • 👠 Dress the Part: Slip into your most empowering outfit – lingerie, leather, or nothing at all – it’s all about feeling fierce.
  • 📜 Establish a Safe Word: Safety is paramount – agree on a safe word to ensure both of you can fully enjoy the ride.
  • 🔮 Experiment with Toys: From whips to restraints, explore different accessories to add an extra edge to your domination.
  • 🗣️ Feedback Loop: Aftercare isn’t just cuddles – discuss what worked, what didn’t, and how to take things up a notch next time.

People think that women are supposed to submit to their men. Women aspire to dominate their men and enjoy the power of exchange. 

You get pleasure, whether new or skilled in the game. BDSM has rules to ensure that the sub is safe if performed for long:

Femdom Ideas

Learn how to perform allocated tasks. Some femdom activities techniques are cruel and unpleasant to your partner. It is beneficial to both partners. Get something from female domination as your man does from submission. There are practices to follow for harmless activities. The scene before to minimize the risk of adverse effects. Below are femdom ideas to help dominate your man.

Bondage

Tie your lover with a cuff. Bind the wrist and ankles on separately. Employ the hogtie type to bind the four together. Bondage devices are gags that restrict your man from speaking. Use blindfolds, nipple clamps and leg spreaders.

Teasing 

Every femdom scene needs teasing. Tease your lover whether you have bounds or instructions restricting you from touching. Teasing acts as light touching.

Spank with your hand, a long-tailed flogger or a paddle that provides backing than a bite.

Foot Worship

Nothing is more subservient than a partner who adores or licks your shoes. Wear thigh boots, heels or socks to make it sexier. Step on your man to draw his attention.

Cuckolding

It is when a man takes pleasure in watching his partner have sex with others. It makes him cuckold. Do not allow your man to watch to make it sadistic.

Teaching Him Manners

Femdom is about controlling your man to your heart’s desire. Make sure that your submissive partner learns his manners by using polite words like “please” before touching you. He needs to seek permission before doing anything. He should thank you and apologize for the disappointment. Let your man address you as instructed. For example, he may use “mistress” or “mom” when addressing you.

Cock and Ball Bondage

Use cock rings on size for pleasure. Upgrade to gates of hell metallic device featuring multiple rings. Consider a cage for wrapping his genitals to prevent them from erecting.

Sissy Play

You can leverage the sissy play of your sub to your advantage by punishing or rewarding him with something lacy. Keep reminding him of how weak he is and spine comments in a negative way as you praise him for rocking the look. You can come up with a feminization nickname for your man.

Service

People love to be served drinks and food and massage. Make him Paint your nails. Incorporate femdom teaching on how you want the services.

Orgasm Control

It is a femdom where you control your man's orgasm through physical means like a chastity belt or cock cage. Induce pain or work on his body to stop orgasm and allow him to cum when you decide.

Humiliation

It is a dominatrix idea since not every male likes to be humiliated. Go for the tried-and-true penis humiliation or use the body humiliation. Make a guy shave or force him to perform a feminine act.

Make a Mess

Remind your partner you are in charge and make him shower if your partner spits.

Degradation

It is using insults to put you into control. Employ nicknames.

Bathroom Control

Asking permission to use the bathroom humbles a guy. Holding waste leads to an impacted bowel. Urine contains a byproduct that backs into the kidney causing kidney failure.

Oral Play

Ask him to go down on you to achieve femdom humiliation. Use dildos and comment how they are more satisfying than him. Make him penetrate himself.

The Bottom Line

Women can be dominant through femdom. Rules ensure the activities are harmless and minimize adverse effects.

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