17 INTENSELY INTIMATE SEX TECHNIQUES FOR PASSIONATE SEX

Some couples engage in intimate sex, while others fail to experience erotic pleasures. However, there are ways to experience intimate sex using techniques including; maintaining eye contact during sexual activities, being vulnerable to your partner, kissing, sensate focus, and talking about fantasies.

Sex shouldn't be confused with intimacy as many people do. Sex can be vigorous and sweaty but without intimacy. Also, it can be gentle, intimate, and loving. Busy individuals may practice sex routinely, making them unable to achieve the desired closeness. It can happen inside or outside a private room. Today, we will discuss how to have loving, passionate, and intimate sex with 17 varied techniques.

The Most Intimate Sex Techniques

Eye Contact

According to Argyle & Dean (1965), you can gaze into your partner's eye during sexual intercourse for it feels nice and intimate. Some people feel objectified without it due to the lack of a sense of connection. Most individuals prefer sex positions, such as missionary style, and others that allow eye contact.

Vulnerability

Vulnerability accompanies honesty and openness. It doesn't matter if that's how you feel about your significant other. Vulnerable practices involve making eye contact, talking with, or telling your partner how much you love them. It’s similar to removing your outfits, not switching off the lights, letting your partner appear or sound the way they will during lovemaking, and uncovering your stomach. Vulnerability means being open and allowing your partner to know you're human with imperfections.

Kissing

While some people can't allow kissing because, in a no-strings-attached relationship, others find kissing necessary for sex to be intimate. Perhaps you dislike kissing during morning glory; you can consider a glass of water and mints for a fresh breath.

Sensate Focus

According to Linschoten et al. (2016), sensate focus practice can help make sex more intimate. The practice was designed for treating sexual concerns at the Masters and Johnson Institute. The involved get a chance to know one another's bodies via touch without judgment.

Oral Sex

Many partners reserve this intimate practice only for committed relationships and not one-night stands. It's similar to kissing.

Body Contact

People can have sex without involving body contact except for the genitals. For instance, there's no kissing, eye contact, or touching each other's body but the genitals. That isn't intimate. Body contact is good for connection. You should hook your arms around your partner's waist, put your breasts on his chest and press slightly, rub his sensitive parts, such as legs and feet, run nails through her back, and tease one another's sweet spots. Ensure your body touches theirs t two points in any instance. It'll ensure you feel the intimacy in that session.

Saying Nice Things

Words such as 'I love you' increase intimacy in a love relationship. It's best to inform your partner how you adore them. Express how you've missed them and how good it feels to be together. 

Caring For Their Desires

Care for your partner's welfare during sex differentiates between relationship and casual sex. A constant is that men have orgasms mostly unlike women and may not get sufficient foreplay and stimulation for arousal. Women may perform oral sex, but men won't. It may also happen in a relationship with a selfish man or inexperienced. Therefore, mutual care is meant for more intimacy.

Sensual Massage

Sensual massage works properly during foreplay. It involves skin-to-skin contact between partners, but sex doesn't have to follow. Be sure it'll be an excellent performance if it happens. Rubbing your body relaxes the muscles making you ready for sex.

Cumming and Sex without a Condom

Some individuals find unprotected sex more intimate. It’s also a key ingredient to an important biological process of getting a baby. It feels great having your partner cum inside you. 

Talks and Laughter

Some people take sex seriously. Sex with appreciative moaning and talking with your lover is a great method for ultimate intimacy, whether in the bedroom or not. It brings happiness to your relationship.

Name Calling

There's sweetness and intimacy in hearing your partner calling your name while moaning. It confirms their presence during the entire time.

Holding Hands

Holding each other's hands during sex increases the closeness feeling and intimacy. Show some love to your man by locking your fingers in his when he goes down on you.  

Talk About Fantasies

Sharing fantasies and sex talk are more intimate. Nothing is intimate like expressing your secret thoughts and desires to your partner when flying solo. It's thrilling to do that. According to Jordan (1997), knowing your desires can make you two feel more intimate with each other.

Cuddling

Wirobski et al. (2021) noted that physical contact and cuddling cause oxytocin release, the hormone that increases bonding. Rest your head on your man’s chest to listen to the beats. It also helps enjoy the feeling of not abruptly jumping from the fantasy space into the actual world. Cuddling can buffer you before fixing your kids, obligations, and chores.

Take It Slow

According to Polomeno (1999), quickies are excellent when the urge comes, but there's not enough time. They aren't the most effective if intimacy is your recipe. Therefore, slow it down. Dry hump and make out all you want. Undress each other slowly. Kiss her all over and target the sweet zones to make her run crazy. Be patient before penetrating, and do it slowly when the time comes. Let her feel your manhood and read every detail in your face. Slow down the stroking and keep planting more kisses on her. Slow down, pull back, and start again when about to cum,.

Pillow Talk

Pillow talk goes together with cuddling. Have some silly talk whenever you have intimate sex with your man, and avoid rushing to dress.

The Bottom Line

All the above aren't necessary for attaining sexual connection. You also don't need to aim for intimate sex whenever getting clothes off for sex. Everybody has a way of having sex that feels intimate. Perhaps it's the moves they observe in porn videos. Apply the tips for intimate moves.

Reference:

Argyle, M., & Dean, J. (1965). Eye-Contact, Distance And Affiliation. Sociometry, 289-304.

Jordan, J. V. (1997). Clarity In Connection: Empathic Knowing, Desire And Sexuality. Women’s Growth In Diversity: More Writings From The Stone Center, 50-73.

Linschoten, M., Weiner, L., & Avery-Clark, C. (2016). Sensate Focus: A Critical Literature Review. Sexual And Relationship Therapy, 31(2), 230-247.

Polomeno, V. (1999). Sex And Babies: Pregnant Couples’ Postnatal Sexual Concerns. The Journal Of Perinatal Education, 8(4), 9-18.

Wirobski, G., Range, F., Schaebs, F. S., Palme, R., Deschner, T., & Marshall-Pescini, S. (2021). Life Experience Rather Than Domestication Accounts For Dogs’ Increased Oxytocin Release During Social Contact With Humans. Scientific Reports, 11(1), 1-12.

PADMA SHANKAR CORAM, Lifestyle and Wellness, Grace Belgravia