TOP TURN-ONS: WOMEN’S COMMON SEXUAL FANTASIES LAID BARE

Women are sexual creatures. Therefore, it is normal for their minds to flood with many sexual fantasies. These sexual thoughts may stem from a memory of an erotic sex scene they experienced or a thought buried in the imagination they are dying to experience. Sexual fantasies are like a creative window that allows your mind to wander off to a feel-good destination. According to (Scrotun, 2006), sexually motivated thoughts people experience are great in giving sensations to your body. What are these erotic thoughts that most women fantasize about? Be it creepy or sensational. Below are women's sexual fantasies.

Women’s Sexual Fantasies

Threesomes

 Valovirta (2021) noted that the threesome analogy is a prevalent sexual fantasy among women and men because it offers the parties involved a chance to enjoy unlimited sensations. Some women identify as heterosexual but having a female explore their bodies sexually is a mind-blowing thought they would kill to experience. Most women are in tune with their bodies. They know which buttons to press to get the reaction they desire. Men, having another man in the bedroom may be compared to Mufasa and Scar in the Lion King film. Each may want to be the one fulfilling her desire. Either way, threesomes are perfect.

Outdoor Sex

Some women feel the need to break out of the monotonous bedroom environment regarding sex. Having sex in any place other than within the four-bedroom walls is enough to warm your blood. Most women feel like having outdoor sex brings out their naughtier alter egos. The thought of being caught pants down coupled with your partner's deep thrusts gives that chilly sensation. You could have outdoor sex in the forest, surrounded by birds and nature, or on the beach as the waves slap your naked skin. Scan the area of your choice to avoid surprises like children, arrests, or nosy people.

Men In Uniform

Seeing a man in uniform is enough to make their hearts race for some women. It may sound cliché, but uniforms are admirable. However, this criterion does not fit everyone. Starters have to be groomed, have a clean-shaven face, neatly pressed clothes, and they should also have a ton of masculine energy. Men in uniform may be policemen, politicians, firefighters, bikers, masons or soldiers. It is the thought that they are brave that adds to the sensation. Women want to feel safe, regardless of who they are and men in uniform, according to some, are the perfect safe space.

Submission

According to Watts et al. (1998), women are supposed to submit to their male counterparts, but sometimes, some feel like this is too much to ask. However, for some, submission is the perfect gift they can offer their male counterparts. The act of being commanded to do something in a masculine voice is enough to have them bow to submission. Also, women love the thought of asking their men to please them in a certain way, and in return, the men attend to her sexual whims. Submission may work best in a submission setting. Think of which role may suit you and your partner, especially those with power roles like teachers and students.

An Unknown Entity

It may sound scary, but some women fantasize about sex scenes with someone they have never met. Their physical appearance is dependent on their imagination. They fantasize about meeting them in a pub or on the commuter train as they head home from work, holding their gaze the whole time before a heated session of intimacy. In society's eyes, having such an encounter, sex with someone you know nothing about screams nothing but taboo. Women are taught to be calm and collected when it comes to matters of sex, but not even society can beat a woman's sexual fantasies.

A Sex party

Imagine throwing a party and inviting consenting-only adults to engage in night-long orgies? It would be similar to a sex party, a wild adventure that will feed your erotic desires. The sounds of people moaning in the garden, the pool, the bathroom, and the kitchen are enough to have most people squirm with erotic energy. Most women would love a night of their lives engaging in intimacy. Some women would make this their go-to activity every time they feel the urge to engage in sex and if given a chance.

BDSM

 Watching the highly-rated erotic film, Fifty Shades of Grey, most women spent their days fantasizing about being on the receiving end of pain, be it through hot wax, spanking or flogging. The thought of their partner inflicting pain on their bodies is enough to have their adrenaline rushing. The pain offers them a door to walk away from their normal routines. The pain taps into your physical being, making you more susceptible to erotic pain and the sensation that comes with it.

Watching Your Partner Having Sex

This thought may not sit well with most married couples, but most people embrace the thought of their partners having sex with other people at this time and age. Provided that both parties consent to it. Most women fantasize about watching their partners making love to another person, regardless of gender. The sensation heightens when they see how the other person responds to whatever their partner is doing, whether oral or penile sex. You may invite a random person or a friend you trust.

The Bottom Line

Women’s fantasies encompass a wide range of desires, most may not make sense to the ‘reserved women’ in society, but it is what it is. What feels right for one woman does not have to make sense to you; you should not feel the need to bash a woman because of her erotic thoughts. Most women are lucky enough to relieve their sexual thoughts, while others carry these desires to their graves. Do not let any chance of living your sexual fantasy waste away because you need to conform to society's thoughts. This article states that women harbor many sexual fantasies; therefore, be bold and chase what feels right for you.

Reference:

Scruton, R. (2006). Sexual Desire: A Philosophical Investigation. A&C Black.

Valovirta, E. (2021). Repeated Pleasure: Reading The Threesome Ménage Romance As Digital Literature. Powerful Prose, 45.

Watts, C., Keogh, E., Ndlovu, M., & Kwaramba, R. (1998). Withholding Of Sex And Forced Sex: Dimensions Of Violence Against Zimbabwean Women. Reproductive Health Matters, 6(12), 57-65.