7 Ways To Spice Up Oral Sex
Oral sex is very important for a couple’s sex life and it should be performed by both men and women. It is usually performed as foreplay to stimulate each other’s genitals and prepare both partners for the intercourse!
Despite common belief, women tend to perform oral sex to their men more often than men. Most of the times, women don’t allow men to go down on them for a number of reasons. Some of them feel shy about it, others don’t feel comfortable with their body, while others still consider it a taboo! However, the purpose of this article is not to give advice on how to make your girlfriend let you perform oral sex on her; this article will help you spice up oral sex!
The following tips address to both men and women and they can help all couples enjoy foreplay and sex! All of you who have girlfriends that love oral sex, pay attention and next time take advantage of the following advice to rock her world!
#1: Let her know how much you like her Body
Like I mentioned before, one of the reasons why women won’t let you perform oral sex is because she doesn’t like her own body; and even if she lets you do it, she still feels uncomfortable most of the times! The best thing you can do to encourage her is to keep telling her how much you like her body. Every time you go to bed to “play”, start with kissing her entire body from head to toe working your way down! Kiss her neck, her breasts, her stomach and then go to her pubic bone and clitoris. To make her feel even more confident, you may talk to her while you’re heading to her private area. Of course, you’re not going to talk about the last football match; tell her something sensual or even kinky concerning her body!
#2: Set the Mood
There are various ways to carry this out! You can organize a romantic dinner in a restaurant or at home (personally, I prefer at home) to show her that you care about her and boost her confidence. After you go in the bedroom, don’t rush to do anything; take your time and go smoothly. A relaxing massage in her back (especially her lower back) is a good way to begin the foreplay, but don’t forget the front of her body; start massaging her breast and tummy and then move on to her inner thighs. While you’re in that area, start massaging her pubic bone to stimulate the clitoris area and lower your head to touch her clitoris with your lips. Since she’ll be already quite relaxed after your massage, she’ll be able to enjoy a good oral!
#3: Don’t focus only on her Clitoris
We all know that clitoris can produce the most powerful orgasms and 80% of women climax easier through clitoral stimulation, but you shouldn’t neglect her vagina! When you go down there to “play”, try to share your time between her clitoris and her vagina. Start with her clitoris and once she gets wet, go lower and spend some time stimulating her vagina. After that, you may go back to her clitoris or follow her orders!
#4: Ask for Directions
Men don’t read mind and women know that! The majority of men don’t ask anything because they think that they might seem inexperienced, but that’s not true at all. On the contrary, women appreciate it when someone asks about their preference because it means that he really cares! So ask for directions and follow her orders to satisfy her. After all, it’s a lot easier to get the job done when you know exactly what to do! Let her guide your head; follow her movements and you’ll definitely get there!
#5: Be Loud
Of course, this tip is for women! Don’t be afraid of making some noise; it’s not “dirty”, it’s not a taboo! Men really like noisy women because they excite them. They feel like sex Gods and once they hear some noise, they try their best to meet the expectations! So be loud, scream or do whatever you feel like at that moment and you’ll instantly feel great and you’ll have fun!
#6: Sit on a Chair
Lying down is the most common position for a woman when she gets an oral, but using a chair can provide a huge advantage that lying down totally misses! When a woman sits on a chair while she’s getting an oral, she literally feels like she’s sitting on a throne! The reason why this position is so unique and special is because she can actually watch her boyfriend stick his head between her legs and she can also reach for his head more easily to guide it or grab his hair to turn him on (when she lies down she can’t watch her man and it’s harder to reach his head with her arms)
#7: 69
It goes without saying that 69 is the best possible sex position for oral sex! Both partners are satisfied at the same time and a powerful orgasm is very possible to happen for both of them; it doesn’t get any better! All you have to do is take your time, go slow and enjoy the greatness of this specific position.
Having said that, oral sex is just as important as intercourse and sometimes it can deliver more powerful orgasms than intercourse to both men and women! There’s no point in trying to avoid oral sex; just keep in mind that hygiene is the key and your genitals (both men and women) should always be clean and groomed in order to enjoy and be safe as well!