3 THINGS TO TRY THE NEXT TIME YOU ARE GIVING A BLOWJOB

Not everyone is a fan of giving blow jobs. Others do not like receiving it. It may be that the giver does not know how to do it and maybe the receiver does not feel any pleasure from the blow job. Oral sex also has hints of kinky sex for it not being accepted by everyone as conventional behavior as discussed by Rehor (2015). You can always try and learn new ways in which you can give the perfect blow job to your significant other. Some of the things that you can try the next time you are giving a blowjob include; getting sloppy and wet, using a blowjob stroker, and using the washing machine technique. 

People have been having oral sex from time immemorial. Gilges (1967) discusses that oral sex was existing in 1414. Giving head is never as easy as it seems. You may start going down on your partner with all the confidence in you but still fail to get them turned on. The best thing, in this case, would be to take a break and learn what you are going to do so that your blow job game will be topnotch or at least improve. It is always okay not to be great at everything but you can always try and give your partner a decent suck even if you are not great at it. The best thing to do when you plan on giving head to your partner is to suck their cock and make them feel you are enjoying it. Be spontaneous and switch things up.be playful with them and not too serious. Try and be experimental with these things. Explore the different techniques there are for you to give a perfect blowjob and make the whole activity fun and enjoyable. Some of the things you can try include.

Get Wet and Sloppy

There are times when you want to look classy while giving head. You try all means possible not to spit or make a mess everywhere. However, by doing so, you are likely not to enjoy the moment. Try and enjoy yourself. Get in the moment and allow yourself to do everything that you want to do. Do your best to make things sloppy and wet when you are giving head. All the extra wetness makes giving blowjobs a sensory experience. Your partner will love the feeling of the warm spit on their cock and the way the mouth will glide effortlessly on their cock. Striking the penis with the hands will give so much pleasure with all the lubrication. The wetness drip on the balls will also make your partner feel very good. Your partner is not the only one benefiting but you are as well. An easier blowjob will happen when the penis is wet. Your mouth will not be sore. Salivate the penis as much as you want. Spit on the head of the penis and drool on your partner's shaft. You can as well use flavored lube on the penis but be sure not to use too much of it as it may be overpowering. Lubrication is very important as explained by Angel (2022). Also, according to Wilson et al. (2017), lubricants are used during procreative intercourse to moderate the amount of wetness in the genitals.

Use a Blowjob Stroker

Using your hands when giving a blowjob has always been a good way to prolong the action. At times, let the mouth take a break and switch things up with stimulation. Try and use a stroker to give a blow job to your partner. A stroker does several things that a hand cannot do. They have bumps, ridges, and textures that give out intense and pure stimulation. When you combine the stimulations given by the blowjob stroker and the mouth you are guaranteed to give one of the best pleasures your partner will ever experience. Make sure you use lube on the blowjob stroker. This will make the whole activity fun and exciting. However, be sure that you first get consent from your partner before using the blow job stroker on them. A lot of guys are against using it because of the stereotypes surrounding them. It sucks that they may be cheating themselves out of the pleasures that the blowjob stroker gives. Once they agree they may put it as one of the activities that should be performed on them.  

The Washing Machine Technique

When giving your partner a blow job, you will always find yourself alternating between using your mouth and your tongue. The washing machine technique gives you the ability to use both at the same time. It involves wrapping the lips around the cock taking it into the mouth and making your tongue run around the head of the penis. The feelings gotten will be amazing. The warmth and the wet mouth as well as the use of the tongue will give more intense stimulations.  

You can as well try and bob the head of the penis while giving blowjobs. Your partner is going to get the full blow job experience while the tongue is also doing its part and doing the magic on the penis. Incorporating some suction will at times do the trick. It will help in adding some little pressure which can stimulate the penis and make one experience intense pleasure. If you find it difficult you can always stick to the basic technique that you are used to. Either way, you are guaranteed to make your significant other moan and experience intense stimulations and pleasures with or without the bobbing and the sucking.   

Conclusion 

Giving head to your significant other is so much fun and exciting especially when you are creative with what you bring to the sexual activity. You can always switch things up and be spontaneous so that the both of you can enjoy the whole activity. Get rid of doing the normal things when giving your partner a blowjob. It will always seem like a routine and it will become less exciting for them. When they know what to expect next, the whole activity will be all about the physical stimulation and less of what they expect you to do for them. It will as well not be exciting for you since you will have to go through the same emotions, techniques, and moves and the reaction from your partner will always be the same. Try and explore new techniques and make blowjobs more fun than what you are used to.

References

Angel, K. (2022). Tomorrow sex will be good again: Women and desire in the age of consent. Verso Books.

Gilges, W. (1967). Virgines venenata. Central African Journal of Medicine, 13(1), 17.

Rehor, J. E. (2015). Sensual, erotic, and sexual behaviors of women from the “kink” community. Archives of sexual behavior, 44(4), 825-836.

Wilson, S. L., Adam, J. K., & Krishna, S. B. N. (2017). Effects of vaginal lubricants on in-vitro progressive spermatozoa motility. African Journal of Reproductive Health, 21(3), 96-101.