7 WAYS TO GIVE A SUBMISSIVE BLOWJOB
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🎯 Quick Summary of Key Points
- 💋 A submissive blowjob is all about control – or lack thereof!
- 🔥 Eye contact adds intensity and can heighten the submissive dynamic.
- 🌀 Sloppy is sexy – embrace the messiness!
- 🎶 Use moans, sighs, and sounds to communicate without words.
- 👅 Don't forget your hands – they can add an extra layer of stimulation.
💡 Tips and Pearls from Our Experts
- 🛏 "Find the right rhythm! Too fast or too slow? Switch it up until it feels just right."
- ✨ "Remember: communication is key – verbal or non-verbal cues will guide you to the perfect spot."
- 💧 "Hydration is important – water or a flavoured drink beforehand can help make things smoother!"
- 👁 "Don’t shy away from eye contact – it builds connection and intimacy during the act."
- 🌈 "Play with different textures – ice, a blindfold, or a bit of sensory play can take things to the next level!"
The thought of being submissive during a blowjob might also mean that you are the one with all the power. Some ways you can give a submissive blowjob include; starting with some dirty talk, getting cuffed, and asking for instructions.
Giving a blowjob and perfecting that art will always turn your man wild and look forward to that sexual activity. Giving head will always turn a man on and arouse them. Therefore, a perfect blowjob will always do the trick. Being submissive will mean that it is time to show off and shine to your dominant partner and show them how great you are at giving blowjobs and how hard you are working to please them. Some ways you can give a submissive blowjob include;
Start With Some Dirty Talk
One of the best ways to be submissive when giving your partner a blowjob is by giving them some dirty talk. Harris (1995) stated that dirty talking is one of the most distinguishing features of sex. Your partner always gets excited when you take the penis off your mouth and give them some dirty talk while stroking the penis. You can do this while taking a break for your jaws. This will make you last longer while giving the blowjob. The talk you give out will depend on the submission displayed. You can either degrade yourself by acting like a slut to your partner or ask them if you are doing it correctly. That is if you want to be praised. It might be hard to have some dirty talks as it does not come naturally, but if you can perfect the art, you will likely turn your man on instantly.
Ask For Some Instructions
You can always play the naïve game and pretend that you are new to this game. The fact that you are submissive means that you have given complete control of your power to the dominant. You can ask your partner what they would like you to do for or for them. All you have is to follow the instructions given to you by the dominant. They can walk you through the technique step by step. You can start by asking simple questions like if you can use your tongue or if you can put the penis in your mouth. You can also ask them if they want you to focus on the whole head or how deep they want the penis in your mouth. You can also go ahead and ask them about the best blowjob they have ever had and try to imitate the experience as they tell it to you. This technique always turns into a game and gives them extra control over the deeds. This makes you be in a better submissive place.
Get Cuffed
This technique will make the blowjob more exciting and fun. When cuffed, your hands will be tied behind your back, and you will have to use only your mouth to turn your man on. It is a position that leaves you completely helpless. Your partner needs to position themselves so that it can be easy for you to reach their penis. This position makes you submissive, meaning that you cannot move that much, and all the control is with the dominant one because they are the ones who need to position themselves in a way that they can get pleasured. Getting cuffed while giving blowjobs is hard, but the results are worth it.
Be Blindfolded
Wearing a blindfold while giving head is a great thing to experience. For this to happen, you have given your partner your complete trust. It also suggests that you are comfortable with your partner to the point that you are okay being blindfolded and you feel like you are safe with them and they are taking care of you. This makes it easy for submission to take place. It is the same thing with regular blowjobs. This is because you get to use your hands and the mouth to give the blowjob just like the regular one. It is just a naughty game where the dominant has full control over you.
Get Naked
According to Engebretsen & Bjorbækmo (2019), almost everyone feels vulnerable when they are naked. The fact that you are naked in front of your partner makes you vulnerable, and the submission will come instantly. This is because you have given them all the control you have by offering yourself fully to them. Before giving him a blow job, you can seduce your partner by removing your clothes in front of them seductively. They can also undress you so that you can give them head while completely naked. This will make it seem like you are gifting yourself to them.
Place Your Partner in a Power Position
Submission means that you have given your partner all the power and control to make them dominate you. The position you take while giving the blowjob is the one that will detect who has all the power. You can try kneeling on them while standing and start giving them head. You can, at times, pause for a moment while striking the dick and look up at them with your gentle eyes. You can also kneel while they are seated, zip down their pants, and surprise them with the perfect blowjob.
Make Your Face Be Fucked Gently
You need to be comfortable enough with your partner and communicate what you want them to do to you. There are times you can ask your partner to fuck you in your mouth. You know your limits and what you would want them to do to you. You can give them all the power to take their cock as deep as they want into your mouth. They can even pour the ejaculate into their mouth.
Conclusion
For the blowjob to be successful, you need to prepare your mind and be set. Giving head is one way you can sexually please your man and still make you be in a submissive position. The fact that their penis is in your mouth is an indication that you have given them all the control over you, and they can do whatever they want with you. However, for you to be submissive, it will depend on how comfortable and safe you are with your partner and how they take care of you. It is always about the attitude you have towards each other and your feelings for them. This will make it easy to give them all the power and control.
References
Harris, D. (1995). Dirty Talk. The Baffler, (7), 91-97.
Engebretsen, K. M., & Bjorbækmo, W. S. (2019). Naked in the eyes of the public: a phenomenological study of the lived experience of suffering from burnout while waiting for recognition to be ill. Journal of Evaluation in Clinical Practice, 25(6), 1017-1026.