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How To Talk Dirty To A Guy – With 10 Examples

How To Talk Dirty To A Guy – With 10 Examples

How To Talk Dirty To A Guy – With 10 Examples

Talking dirty will leave your man salivating and get his pulse throbbing. Herein is how to talk dirty to a guy, including starting slow, being confident, and complementing your partner.

Harris, D. (1995) stated that dirty talking is one of the most distinguishing features of sex. Most girls find it difficult to talk dirty to their boyfriends. Talking dirty to your guy will make him cling and cringe at you. Talking dirty to him can turn him on, and he probably will enjoy hearing from you more frequently. Dirty talks should be comfortable since it’s fun for both of you. Therefore, find words that are sexy and suggestive and not awkward.

What is Dirty Talk?

Talking dirty is not all about being gross. This entails sex talks with your partner in an arousing way. It could be before or after engaging in a sex session. Dirty talks enhance your sexual activities with your partner, creating an awesome tension. Men enjoy dirty talks. However, whether you are a newbie or a master in dirty talks, there is an infallible way to spice up what you say to your partner. When talking dirty to your partner, you have to sound sexy. 

How to Dirty Talk 

Talking dirty should be done effortlessly. Talking dirty can be intimidating. There are a lot of ways to make it fun and sexy. Below are ways that will help your dirty talk. 

Start Slow

Don’t just start talking dirty when you are unsure of what you want to say. You don’t want to say something embarrassing and not sexy. Say a few things when you are intimate with your partner. You can’t be the best dirty talker on the first day of trying.

Be Confident

Having confidence when talking to your partner may sound convincing and sexy. With confidence, you can have a lot of dirty talks that won’t be viewed as traditionally sexy. 

Compliment Your Partner

If you don’t know where to begin, you can simply start by complimenting your partner. You can comment on their clothes and tell them how hot they look and how perfect they are at what they do. This isn’t dirty talk, but you can try to sound a bit sexy. Giving compliments while making love sounds dirty and sexy.

Try Whispering

If you feel shy and can’t talk out loud, whisper in his ears. According to Zindel (2012), dirty talks are hotter when whispered. You can take things to the next level by licking or biting his ear. This will turn him on. 

Be Open

Talk to him about what you want. This can be a perfect starting point if you don’t know where to start. Tell him how much you want him to ride on you. This is extremely sexy and a great way to get what you want in bed. 

Be Descriptive

Being descriptive is a great way to start learning how to dirty talk. Start by saying how much you love every specific thing your partner does. Be romantic and tell them something sexy.

Notice Their Interest

Sometimes you may notice that what you say does not turn your partner on. You can try something else. Some men do not like compliments. Probably, they like hearing commands. Therefore, pay attention to your partner to notice their reaction. 

How To Turn on Your Partner

Below are tips you can follow to turn on your partner.

Always Speak Your Mind

Let your partner know that you are horny. Sometimes while having sex, our minds tend to have naughty thoughts. Whatever thought you have, tell it to your partner. It is probably going to sound dirty if you are aroused. 

Engage in an Active Imagination

Imagine you have a casual one-night stand with a hot partner. At this point, sex would be amazing, and you will have a perfect orgasm that you have been craving. Imagine all that and talk to him. Also, think of the fantasies that arouse you.  

Fantasize Passionate Moments

Having an erotic affair while fantasizing about passionate moments is sexy. 

Moan to Let Him Know That You Love It

Sometimes you don’t have to use words to talk dirty. When making love, moan to show him that you are enjoying it. 

Maintain Eye Contact 

Levy (2009) noted that looking into your partner’s eyes while talking to them is a good way to make him go crazy on you. You should also speak with confidence.

Body Language is Important

Use body language to communicate with your partner. You can play with your hair, bite your lips, run your hands over his body, or lick your lips. 

Words to Use to Talk Dirty to Your partner

I feel so weak when I’m in your arms.

I want you to kiss me from my lips to my breast till down my body. Feel comfortable adding something even dirtier.

I want to be your personal toy tonight.

I want you to make my pussy leak.

What are you wearing under your clothing?

When I look at you dressing, my panties wet. 

Tease me till I can’t take it anymore.

I can’t get enough of you.

I love it when you touch me here.

I’m horny right now.


Harris, D. (1995). Dirty Talk. The Baffler, (7), 91-97.

Levy, D. (2009). Love And Sex With Robots: The Evolution Of Human-Robot Relationships (P. 

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Zindel, P. (2012). Let Me Hear You Whisper. Graymalkin Media.