5 Hot Sex Tips For Nasty, Kinky Sex

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It's about time you spice your sex life and make it as hot and nasty as you've always imagined it to be. Herein are sex tips for nasty kinky sex including; using lubes, sharing your fantasies with your partner, making a love movie, talking dirty and switching up roles.

Your partner may want to experience a different sexual feeling but fail to communicate. Here are tips to help you and your partner experience the hot sexual experience that will have you both wishing for more from each other and wondering why you waited so long to start having kinky sex.

USE LUBES

Men love to watch it slide in and out. That is why getting wet excites many; therefore, Introduce sex lubes to give your partner the best sexual experience. The addition of a massage lube will turn your normal sex around, apply it all over the body and enjoy massaging every part of your partner’s body while getting ready for the main game. Adding sex lube will help make things easier if your sexual pleasures are filled with slight pain as you penetrate your lover's hole. Philpott (2006) noted that sex lube enhances every penetration and can help give you the best feelings. Whenever you feel like spicing things up for your lover, sex lube can turn your experience into unforgettable kinky stimulations.

Sex lube can work for anal and vaginal stimulations if you feel like using the back door for a new experience. They help your first time be more enjoyable and less painful.

SHARE YOUR FANTASIES WITH YOUR PARTNER

Some people have had wild sexual fantasies, whether with their partners or a hot fictional character in a novel. Sharing these thoughts with your partner helps them understand what you love most to give you a wonderful experience. Tell them about your fantasies and favorite character, and let them pretend to be that person during role-play. Role-playing is a great way to turn your fantasies into reality with your favorite person; let them play cop while you are a robber and steal your affection with their mind-blowing skills. 

This kinky experience will help make your relationship stronger and make sex more enjoyable. Tell your partner how you like being touched, when and held to give you a better experience when having a hot session. Sharing your experiences is one of the tips that are easy to follow but will take a lot of courage for most people. Letting go of inhibitions and letting yourself go wild with someone who loves you is something everyone should try at least once in their life. Who knows what kind of experiences it could lead to?

MAKE A LOVE MOVIE

Sex after having a romantic date in the movies might be great, but getting to be the actors in a sexy nude movie is better. Brosuis et al. (1993) suggested that you can introduce your partner to the addictive act of recording your love session for watching later; the thought of just recording the act will give an amazing rush of adrenaline. There might be modern variations of the good old sex tape recording but holding a camera while your partner rides the hell out of you remains one of the most pleasurable fantasies. Your partner may not be comfortable recording you while making love, but you can start with more simple experiences, such as taking naughty pics of your nude bodies to send a blush or giggles as you make love. 

You can also introduce a large mirror to your room. This way, your partner can watch you as you enjoy each touch of their body. Imagine bending over while your partner gives you the strokes while watching your partner love it through the mirror. The mirror is a great way to spice your normal boring sexual experiences. 

Some partners might choose to take the fun a notch higher; some partners are open to the idea of having sexual experiences out in public. You don’t mean having it on the beach with people watching, but you can turn your normal hike experiences into something more. You can enjoy a wild sexual experience out in the woods while you are bare for an out-of-this-world rush of adrenaline. The thought of someone secretly watching in the woods will make this experience hot for you to last any longer. 

DIRTY TALK

Dirty talk is the most ancient tactic to give your partner an easy turn-on. Let your partner know what you will do to them before you do them. You can give them a detailed description of the steps you will do to make them crave your touch. This detailed description will make them want more and more from you and help you feel every sensation. Weinberg et al. (1984) suggested that you can pair dirty talk with a little bit of spanking to keep yourself extra dominance. Tell them how they have been a good or bad girl and how they are making you enjoy your time together. 

This simple but efficient addition to your normal sexual experiences will shockingly turn things around. You and your partner will enjoy your time and get to know each other better. Dirty talk is one of the most common methods of adding up to your kinky night of pleasure.

SWITCH UP ROLES

You can turn your experience into an out-of-this-world sensation by playing a simple game. Let your partner be you for the night, and you pretend to be them; you can then choose to stimulate each other and turn each other on while acting to be the other. According to Nichols (2006), switching up roles helps you know each other and experience an interesting time finding out how you sound and look when trying to turn your partner on. You will send a giggle or laughter to your partner with your awful acting, but that is also part of the experience. This kinky experience will help bond both you and your partner more with an experience that you will love to feel again and again. 

The Bottom line

Trust between both partners is the key to achieving hot sex, especially if you want it to be as nasty as possible. A lack of trust between both partners is the beginning of a downfall; a partner can't let their guard down, making any sexual encounter less satisfying because it doesn't allow either partner freedom of expression. These few tips can be paired with other tips or used on their own to give the best kinky sex.

Reference:

Brosius, H. B., Weaver III, J. B., & Staab, J. F. (1993). Exploring the social and sexual “reality” of contemporary pornography. Journal of Sex Research, 30(2), 161-170.

Nichols, M. (2006). Psychotherapeutic issues with “kinky” clients: Clinical problems, yours and theirs. Journal of Homosexuality, 50(2-3), 281-300.

Philpott, A., Knerr, W., & Boydell, V. (2006). Pleasure and prevention: when good sex is safer sex. Reproductive health matters, 14(28), 23-31.

Weinberg, M. S., Williams, C. J., & Moser, C. (1984). The social constituents of sadomasochism. Social problems, 31(4), 379-389.