5 Sexy Ways to Stimulate the Clitoris
Whether you’re alone or with a lover, there is an endless number of ways to become creative about smokin’ hot clitoral stimulation. If you want to get incredible clitoral stimulation – and, trust me, you do – here are just some of the sexy ways to experiment with stimulating the most directly erogenous of female zones.
1. Clitoral and Vulva Massage
This is a technique used by many women during masturbation, but it is also a great a way for a lover to provide sexual pleasure. Clitoral massage can be used as a prelude to intercourse, or as substitute in circumstances when intercourse is impossible, due to physical injury, impotence, pregnancy etc, etc. Any men reading should know that your lovers will greatly appreciate your efforts to please her. A few hints and tips on the clitoral massage front: use plenty of lubrication, take things slowly and gently at first, maintain physical contact throughout, and, ladies, talk your lover through what you’d like him to do. Some women even like to show their lovers how they masturbate. All women are different and will, therefore, need different things from clitoral massage.
2. Use a Vibrator
If you already have a vibrator, why not consider using it during intercourse? If you don’t have a vibrator, you don’t know what you’re missing. Yes, there are many ways to masturbate and you don’t need any kind of toy. However, once you’ve experienced clitoral stimulation from a vibrator, it may forever change the way you think about masturbation and sex. An egg (or bullet) style vibrator can be used during intercourse and will not disrupt the rhythm of penetration and thrusting
3. Try The Coital Alignment Technique (CAT)
There is an almost endless supply of information about the coital alignment technique available on the internet. It is designed to provide maximum clitoral stimulation during intercourse and is well worth reading about.
4. Get in The Shower
A great way to masturbate or to enhance your enjoyment during intercourse, is to use your showerhead. This is most effective if you don’t have a fixed showerhead, as you can easily move it, directing the jets of water exactly where you need them. When you’re alone, this works best lying on your back, but can also be achieved standing. If you’re with your lover, get him to sit in the bath (you might want to fill the tub) and place yourself on his lap, facing away from him. While he’s penetrating you, you can place the showerhead to your clitoris.
5. Add a Mix to Missionary
When in the missionary position, a great way to provide great clitoral stimulation is to have your lover place his legs on the outside, rather than the inside, of yours. With your legs closer together, you’ll experience greater clitoral stimulation. In addition, ask your lover to make small circular motions with his hips, as though he’s stirring a cup of coffee with his penis. This motion is great for offering clitoral stimulation.
No matter how you choose to get more clitoral stimulation, remember that for at least 70% of women, it is vital in order to achieve orgasm. So, make sure you’re getting plenty of it.