Skip to content

What are you looking for?

WHERE IS THE CLITORIS: THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE FOR EVERY WOMAN!

Where Is The Clitoris: The Definitive Guide For Every Woman!

  • by Jekaterina Gussarova
Trending

Weekly Best Sellers

Indulge in the luxury of choice at your fingertips

EROTIC LINGERIE

Abierta fina open red lace body lingerie one piece - peaches and screams Abierta fina open red lace body lingerie one piece - peaches and screams
Abierta fina open red lace crotchless lingerie set - peaches and screams Abierta fina open red lace crotchless lingerie set - peaches and screams
Cottelli lace and chain bondage crotchless set - peaches and screams Cottelli lace and chain bondage crotchless set - peaches and screams
Cottelli red crotchless bondage set with lace and o rings - peaches and screams Cottelli red crotchless bondage set with lace and o rings - peaches and screams
Abierta fina open lace body crotchless lingerie in black - peaches and screams Abierta fina open lace body crotchless lingerie in black - peaches and screams

VIEW ALL

BONDAGE

Taboom silicone supreme penis ball gag for bdsm play - peaches and screams Taboom silicone supreme penis ball gag for bdsm play - peaches and screams
5 piece dragonskin bondage set with faux leather lining - peaches and screams 5 piece dragonskin bondage set with faux leather lining - peaches and screams
Taboom bondage essentials doggy style positioning set - peaches and screams Taboom bondage essentials doggy style positioning set - peaches and screams
Taboom malibu whip faux leather bondage accessory - peaches and screams Taboom malibu whip faux leather bondage accessory - peaches and screams
Taboom malibu rose ball gag with adjustable strap - peaches and screams Taboom malibu rose ball gag with adjustable strap - peaches and screams

VIEW ALL

ANAL TOYS

Me you us inflatable anal plug with squeeze pump - peaches and screams
California exotic silicone pink crystal booty duo butt plugs - peaches and screams California exotic silicone pink crystal booty duo butt plugs - peaches and screams
Blush novelties silicone pink beaded butt plug with finger loop - peaches and screams Blush novelties silicone pink beaded butt plug with finger loop - peaches and screams
Rocks off 4 inch silicone black rechargeable butt plug with remote - peaches and screams Rocks off 4 inch silicone black rechargeable butt plug with remote - peaches and screams
B-vibe silicone purple rechargeable butt plug with remote - peaches and screams B-vibe silicone purple rechargeable butt plug with remote - peaches and screams

VIEW ALL

FOR LADIES

Xocoon harmony dual touch g spot vibrator - peaches and screams Xocoon harmony dual touch g spot vibrator - peaches and screams
Rocks off chaiamo gspot vibrator rechargeable silicone toy - peaches and screams Rocks off chaiamo gspot vibrator rechargeable silicone toy - peaches and screams
Xocoon everlasting love g spot rabbit vibrator - peaches and screams Xocoon everlasting love g spot rabbit vibrator - peaches and screams
Xocoon timeless love curved g spot vibrator - peaches and screams Xocoon timeless love curved g spot vibrator - peaches and screams
Seduction roxy bullet waterproof rechargeable vibrator - peaches and screams Seduction roxy bullet waterproof rechargeable vibrator - peaches and screams

VIEW ALL

FOR MEN

Lovetoy ridge vibrating penis and scrotum sleeve - peaches and screams Lovetoy ridge vibrating penis and scrotum sleeve - peaches and screams
Bvibe sleek prostate plug with vibrating p spot stimulation - peaches and screams Bvibe sleek prostate plug with vibrating p spot stimulation - peaches and screams
Jock tightening masturbator with adjustable grip sleeve - peaches and screams Jock tightening masturbator with adjustable grip sleeve - peaches and screams
Kylie rocket ultraskyn pussy masturbator for men - peaches and screams Kylie rocket ultraskyn pussy masturbator for men - peaches and screams
Toyjoy hero mini masturbator block textured pocket stroker - peaches and screams Toyjoy hero mini masturbator block textured pocket stroker - peaches and screams

VIEW ALL

Where Is The Clitoris: The Definitive Guide For Every Woman!

  • by Jekaterina Gussarova

Content Verification

Katie Lasson
Written by:
Katie Lasson
Sex and Relationship Adviser
Veronika Matutyte
Medically Reviewed by:
Veronika Matutyte
Medical Doctor
Barbara Santini
Fact Checked by:
Barbara Santini
Psychologist and Sex and Relationships Advisor

📝 Quick Summary 📝

  • 🔑 Key point #1: Here’s a crisp, bite-sized takeaway from the article!
  • 🔑 Key point #2: Something to make you go “Ahh, I get it!”
  • 🔑 Key point #3: Important bit to remember - it’s all about balance! ⚖️
  • 🔑 Key point #4: Keep this in mind for a perfect experience 👌

💡 Expert Tips 💡

  • 💡 Tip #1: Don't overthink it – a relaxed approach works wonders!
  • 💡 Tip #2: Trust yourself and always stay curious – that's the key to enjoyment.
  • 💡 Tip #3: Keep it fun, spontaneous, and totally YOU! 😏
  • 💡 Tip #4: Practice makes perfect, so go at your own pace. 😎

Many women have a problem locating their clitoris even though they have stayed for decades with it. It is quite cool that society uses the word penis but refers to the clitoris, labia, or vulva as down there the vagina. The clitoris is unseen when standing.

The clitoris is a female organ that corresponds to the head of a man’s penis. It is sensitive and has most nerve endings responsible for women’s orgasms

Female Clitoral Anatomy

According to O'CONNELL et al. (2005), the clitoris is a multiplanar structure with a broad attachment to the pubic arch and via extensive supporting tissue to the mons pubis and labia. The vulva touches the whole external genitalia, the clitoris being part of it. The clitoris consists of two parts: the clitoral hood, a covering of skin that tenderly retracts. It differs in size and the extent it covers every person. When you draw below it, there is the glans clitoris which the clitoral hood covers.

It also has crura [legs] and vestibular bulbs that widen through the labia. They have erectile tissue that swells with blood during sexual arousal. When it swells on either side of the vaginal canal, they increase lubrication while increasing sensual incitement and sensation. It takes the shape of a wishbone. 

How To Find The Clitoris

Simply put your finger down the pubic bone. You will feel a hollow exactly where the vaginal lips meet, and at the top of it is the clitoral shaft till the end, where there is the opening of your vagina. You have to spread your labia to identify it a few inches from the vagina

How To Stimulate Your Clitoris

Everyone has a different turn-on and sexual sweet spot. There is no specific way to stimulate the clitoris. Still, you have to experiment first as it is part of the sexual contentment.

Do Not Judge Yourself and Know That It’s Healthy to Masturbate

Society views masturbation as bad and dirty, and we should not be talking about it. However, Brancato (2021) noted that masturbation reduces stress and enhances the production of feel-good chemicals, such as oxytocin and dopamine.

Have A Good Attitude

You can set the mood in different ways. Get in a place where you are comfortable first. It may be in a shower or a bedroom with a well-set pillow. Touch your nipples slowly; imagine those porn videos in your head and what exactly they do. Touch his body parts, foreplay, or kiss him your partner. 

Indirect Stimulation

Touch the clitoris over the labia and not pull back the clitoral hood. The clitoris is sensitive. It is not a must you directly touch it for stimulation.

Use Lube

The clitoris can be irritated easily because of how sensitive it is. Try to use a lube with no fragrance and chemicals to make it smooth. Move your fingers slowly before speeding it up as you would love. This will increase sensations by reducing friction and make you feel more pleasure.

Use a Vibrator

Fingers for others will not work. Alternatively, you can use a toy on the clitoris with a different speed for more stimulation.

How Can You Stimulate Your Partner’s Clitoris?

Your partner will be happy to feel stimulated by the person they love. 

Get Suggestions

Do not be afraid to ask your partner about her desire. Ask your partner indirectly how you would love to be a part of their sensation and discover her pleasure.

Get touchy

Some sex positions like spooning and missionary allow some space that you can use to stimulate the clitoris while in the act. Stretch your hands in between your partner's legs and touch the clitoris. It is going to increase the stimulation.

Pull Over a Pillow 

Placing a pillow under your partner's pubic bone makes it pleasurable. It creates a better position for your partner to lick the clitoris.

Use Your Furniture To Be Creative 

You can decide to use your chair, for instance. Let your partner hedge the hips and support by grabbing your back. The clitoris would be better positioned to reach for awesome stimulations.

Reverse the Ride

This makes your partner balance you though you will have faced away. As you push, your partner can extend their hand between your legs and rub your clitoris.

Twist the Thighs High

Let your partner straddle one of your legs, not both. This will have twisted the angle of your partner's hips. Riding up and down will stimulate your clitoris.

Use Your Tongue

If your partner enjoys oral sex, it's advantageous to use your tongue quietly to circle the clitoris. The sensation increases.

Use a Toy

Vibrators provide a greater sensation than using a finger since some partners can't produce orgasm no matter the pressure. You can also change the vibrator.

Keep It Varied

Using the right speed blows it all. Start slowly, then go harder according to your feelings, and slow down again to stimulate your partner's clitoris.

Size of the Clitoris

The clitoral hood and the glans clitoris vary from one person to another. Androgens determine the enlargement of the clitoris while developing in the womb, during childhood and adulthood. As a woman ages, her clitoris enlarges more than when they were young.

Variation in Sensitivity

Just as size varies in women, so does sensitivity. The size of the clitoris does not determine a woman's sensitivity. You may find that a woman with a smaller clitoris has difficulties achieving orgasm, unlike a woman with a larger clitoris.

CONCLUSION

Have you learned any technique you feel is going to make a difference? Find your clitoris and get to experience an awesome pleasure. Do not have problems achieving orgasm because of having vaginal sex without complimenting the clitoral stimulation. Share with your partner about your clitoris for you to increase the pleasure.

References

O'CONNELL, H. E., Sanjeevan, K. V., & Hutson, J. M. (2005). Anatomy of the clitoris. The Journal of urology174(4), 1189-1195.

Brancato, S. (2021). " Feeling Myself": Masturbation In Women's Coming Of Age Novels. Georgetown University.


Previous     Next
Our Community

Loved Across the UK

From bestselling sex toys to confidence boosting lingerie, discover why so many people choose Peaches and Screams as their go to destination for intimate products.

Featured Burlesque Performer Scarlett Tales

Known for her captivating burlesque performances and artistic style, Scarlett Tales explores BDSM accessories and restraint essentials designed to elevate intimate experiences.

Robyn Quinn's Favourite Finds

Peaches and Screams ambassador Robyn Quinn showcases bestselling vibrators designed to enhance pleasure, confidence and self discovery. Explore powerful favourites chosen to help you enjoy every moment your way.

Discover Love Eggs with Ella Murphy

With a loyal social media following and engaging online presence, Ella Murphy showcases discreet vibrating love eggs designed for excitement, confidence and hands free pleasure. Explore remote controlled favourites from the Peaches and Screams collection.

Trixie Blue's Lingerie Favourites

Award winning burlesque performer, producer and entertainer Trixie Blue shares some of her favourite erotic lingerie styles from Peaches and Screams. Discover confidence boosting designs made to help you look and feel your best.

TOP RATED

Most-Loved Products

Abierta Fina Open Red Lace Body Lingerie one Piece
Regular price£88.99
Abierta Fina Open Red Lace Crotchless Lingerie Set
Regular price£87.99
Cottelli Lace and Chain Bondage Crotchless Set
Regular price£65.99
Regular price£76.99
Regular price£79.99
Cottelli Open Matte Body with Open Bust and Crotch
Regular price£44.99
Regular price£62.99
Regular price£23.99
Add Order Note
Coupon Code

    Get In On The Secret

    Sign up today for exclusive discount codes and instant offers. Be the very first to shop our latest arrivals and secret drops.

    4-inch lelo silicone pink rechargeable mini clitoral vibrator - peaches and screams

    Someone liked and purchased

    4-inch Lelo Silicone Pink Rechargeable Mini Clitoral Vibrator

    62 Minutes Ago From Birmingham