HOW TO GIVE A GOOD HEAD: 15 WILDLY SATISFYING TECHNIQUES
Do you crave giving your partner the best oral sex he has ever experienced? Sharpen and perfect your skills of giving head to your partner by learning more in this article.
Giving your man a better head is not an easy task. It requires a certain degree of professionalism to make sure you are doing it the right way and make him enjoy your session. If you are a beginner or an experienced expert in giving head, you need to know the styles to keep your game upfront. According to Grundmann, R. (2003), blow jobs were considered taboo. However, that has long gone been lifted and considered a misjudgment. The fifteen techniques for giving head discussed in this article will help anyone be a professional in giving head to their partner. If you master them, you can combine all of them in one play or use your favorite technique. Using any of these techniques when giving head to your partner will make him love you alone because he can’t afford to lose that kind of pleasure.
Communication
This is the common aspect that people ignore when giving head to their partner. To offer a good head, you need to keep communicating with your partner on matters related to what you are doing. There is something you are doing that he either likes or hates. If he tells you he hates it, you can adjust your ways and give him something he loves. Although you can learn a lot of ideas about giving a good head from a website, the only person that can tell you how they like it is your man. Therefore, if you don't communicate, there is nothing you are getting out of it even if you have mastered all the techniques. If you don't talk to your partner when giving head, you will never find out what he loves or hates.
Secret Spice
Everyone has different sexual preferences. Your partner may enjoy ejaculating on your face but hate it when you swallow it. He may also love as you gag during the deep throat or hate it. Furthermore, he may like being submissive when giving head or enjoy it as the dominant. Therefore, you must be careful of your partner's preferences, and that will be one way of giving your partner a great head. The key is to discover these preferences yourself and then use them when giving him head.
What To Do If He Doesn’t Ejaculate
It is normal for some men to fail to orgasm when giving oral sex. However, that does not mean you don't know how to give head or do it the wrong way. It is the same in ladies’ cases, where some don’t climax easily. If your man is in this case, there are two things you can do to make things easier for him.
Let Him Stop Masturbating
Even though Brancato (2021) noted that masturbation reduces stress and enhances the production of feel-good chemicals, such as oxytocin and dopamine, when masturbating, your man might be using a strong grip that is not the same as your mouth or the vagina. This type of grip is referred to as the death grip. When a man masturbates using a death grip, their penis adapts to that situation, and they will need a lot of pressure on their penis to ejaculate. Therefore, the pressure provided is only a grip when using your mouth. Hence you have to stop your partner from masturbating so that the penis can adjust back to normal.
Be Consistent
If your man can't orgasm, be consistent and stimulate his penis.
Next
To give your partner a great head, you should not stick to one technique for a long time. You can learn of all the things that make him excited, and that's what you will need to provide him with earth-shattering pleasure.
How to Tell If Your Man Is About to Orgasm
It is easy to know when your man is about to orgasm when giving him head. If you don't want him to ejaculate in your mouth, or you want to have a facial, you must know when he will release it. You can listen to his breathing, pay attention to his body’s tense nature and listen to the vocals he produces. Some signs may be the same to you when you are achieving orgasm, and that will be easy for you.
The Final Position
When your partner is about to ejaculate, your position matters a lot. Do you want to be dominant or submissive? Do you want to have a mutually pleasurable experience, or is there something specific you want? There are many sex positions you can try and achieve what you need.
Eye Contact
Making eye contact with your man when giving him head allows him to have a great experience, especially when he is about to orgasm. Staring into the eyes of each other forms a connection, especially when orgasming. Also, you might feel submissive while on your knees and looking up to him.
Intimate Finish Off
Some people practice oral sex, but they doubt it can make them climax. Oral sex can make anybody climax. For instance, holding hands when giving oral sex can make your partner climax easily due to the connection you make. Additionally, telling him how you feel will make him want to finish you off easily.
Body Painting, Facials, and Pearl Necklaces
There are many ways to let your partner finish off in your mouth. One way is to allow him to release it on your neck. This is referred to as a pearl necklace. You can also allow him to finish off in some sexy parts of your body, and that's body painting. The last option is to allow him to release it on your face – facial.
The Bottom Line
Following these techniques will allow you to give your partner the best head. Don’t forget the main aspect – communication. This is the common aspect that people ignore when giving head to their partner. To offer a good head, you need to keep communicating with your partner on matters related to what you are doing. There is something you are doing that he either likes or hates. If he tells you he hates it, you can adjust your ways and give him something he loves. Although you can learn a lot of ideas about giving a good head from a website, the only person that can tell you how he likes it is your man.
References
Grundmann, R. (2003). Andy Warhol's Blow Job (Vol. 48). Temple University Press.
Brancato, S. (2021). " Feeling Myself": Masturbation In Women's Coming Of Age Novels. Georgetown University.