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9 ORGASM DENIAL GAMES FOR TESTING YOUR LIMITS AND DRIVING YOURSELF WILD

9 ORGASM DENIAL GAMES FOR TESTING YOUR LIMITS AND DRIVING YOURSELF WILD

  • by Jekaterina Gussarova
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9 ORGASM DENIAL GAMES FOR TESTING YOUR LIMITS AND DRIVING YOURSELF WILD

  • by Jekaterina Gussarova

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✨ Key Points in a Nutshell ✨

  • 💥 Orgasm denial can amplify your pleasure
  • ⏳ Time-based games test patience and build intensity
  • 🔒 Control-based games require trust and communication
  • 🔥 Mix things up with sensory play to elevate excitement

  • 🍑 It's essential to have safe words and respect limits
  • 🎲 Experiment with different games to find your favourites
  • ❤️‍🔥 Build trust, tease, and make anticipation your best friend

🌟 Key Advice and Tips from Our Experts 🌟

  • 🔑 Trust is your biggest asset. Without it, the games won't be fun or safe. Build this first before diving into the deep end.
  • 🧠 Get creative with your denial games! Use teasing, roleplay, and props to enhance the experience.
  • ⚖️ Balance is key. While the teasing builds tension, make sure to balance it with moments of affection and aftercare.
  • ⚡ Start slow and gradually increase the intensity to avoid overwhelming sensations. This keeps things thrilling yet manageable!

Why ean individual engage in denial of orgasm? What are some of the orgasm denial games? This article explains nine orgasm denial games that test individuals' limits and drive them wild. Engage in orgasm denial? Does it offer sexual pleasure? How often can 

Most individuals do not relate orgasm denial with sexual fun. They keep asking questions about the idea even though this kinky is common in BDSM. Exploring it will open your eyes to a larger payoff towards the finish. We shall discuss the games involved in orgasm denial that will test your limits and drive you crazy. But let’s begin by understanding more about orgasm denial. 

What’s Orgasm Denial?

According to Fahs & Swank (2021), orgasm denial is a sex play falling under the general term, orgasm control. It happens in three categories, not orgasming completely, for a certain period, or allowed to release after task completion. It may be in solo play, which can help stop excessive masturbation and can be done by partners. People who don't understand may find it weird to deny themselves an orgasm. They may wonder why one would get started only to stop the process. But those that understand know how much chemistry is involved in the concept. They understand how better the outcome of cumming later is. It feels great to control someone's orgasm, especially in BDSM. It entails telling them to avoid cumming despite the stimulation you administer that makes them feel wonderful. It's also hot instructing them to cum when the right time comes. The arousal begins from the roleplay, such as playing the dominant partner or being submissive. Both men and women experience orgasm denial in the ways below;

Complete Denial

Not allowed to orgasm and no permission for sexual activities and masturbation.

Tease and Deny

Teases stimulate and bring you closer to orgasm, but no cumming is allowed.

Ruined Orgasm

You can get to the point of no return, but stimulation is reduced or stopped, making the feeling less satisfying.

Orgasm Denial Games For Ultimately Intensifying Pleasure

Code Word

Oliver (2016) explained that a partner has no permission to cum until the playmate grants the command using a code word earlier agreed, for example, 'cum. ‘There’s fun in commanding someone not to cum, yet you keep tingling their nerves and stimulating them. Talking dirty and saying wild and sexy things can spice it up altogether.

Point System

As a reward, orgasm is popularly known as orgasm denial. You can use a point system to track the time you get rewarded. It's a perfect method for individuals in D/s or total exchange power relationships. Bohunicky & Youngblood (2019) stated that individuals should develop a list with roles for their sub, enabling them to acquire points for completed tasks. Suppose ten points make you orgasm; you may have to finish five varied tasks carrying two points each. Remember, indiscretions can reduce your point, making you delay getting to the target pleasure point.

Levels

Levels involve not allowing an orgasm for a particular number of times before releasing, by yourself or with a partner. You might choose five or ten levels before allowing the orgasm.

Schedule

Deny your partner the chance to orgasm until a given date. Be realistic and schedule a future date. Workaround for yourself or your partner and realize how long it can take. The fun increases when you continue teasing him mercilessly, knowing well he can't ejaculate before the stipulated time.

Homework

Writing essays may not sound sexy, but in this game, it's a good one. An orgasm is allowed but mainly after coming up with sexy narration. It could also be an erotic memory of your biggest fantasy or scene for your playmate to enjoy reading. The assignment should be challenging enough to make it hard for them.

Red Light Green Light

Greenlight in children's games means go, but here, instead of going, arouse yourself. Red in kids' games implies to stop. In orgasm denial, red means stopping action on yourself and now pleasuring your significant other. Do this until the next command is called, green light.

Tit for Tat

Tit for tat game only allows you to orgasm once you have given your partner an orgasm. You can make it more overwhelming by refusing the use of hands, using the non-dominant hand, pussy eating, being blindfolded, giving an orgasm within a specific time, or having to offer multiple orgasms.

Desperate Times and Desperate Measures

An orgasm may be allowed but only without using the hands. Or, you can only allow using the weaker hand. Restrict the hands behind your partner to make it more difficult.

Timer

The game mainly delays an orgasm but does not deny it. Therefore, avoid getting alarmed. Set your timer on an app without pun intention.

Toys for Orgasm Denial

Chastity Belts

Women's chastity devices are metal and leather belts with a band between the legs and waist to prevent satisfaction. They resemble harnesses available in internal dildo forms and butt plugs. Lee (2016) stated that the two are for helping someone orgasm rather than deny. They can be worn beneath normal clothing for use, even in public. Ensure to buy a fitting chastity belt because they're expensive. An adjustable type is also great for a more comfortable fitting.

Cock Cages

Most men’s chastity sex tools don’t resemble harnesses, but the market contains some looking like harnesses. The devices are worn on a soft penis. The materials used for making them include metal and plastic that prevent your manhood from hardening. Suppose you get aroused; the erection pushes against the cage but won’t be bigger. That’s why cock cages are more sadistic compared to chastity belts. Their fitting is easier as they don’t wrap around the waist.

Conclusion

Orgasm denial may not work well, especially for women with a lower sex drive. It may be more boring because they did not want sex in the first place. But orgasm denial is exciting to many individuals. It does not require a partner to exploit. This way, you can establish objectives concerning how often you want an orgasm and the duration you can stay without trying it. The concept may be hard for people with a high sex drive, but they can explore to have a new encounters sexually. 

References 

Bohunicky, K., & Youngblood, J. (2019). The Pro Strats of Healsluts: Overwatch, Sexuality, and Perverting the Mechanics of Play. Gender Studies

Fahs, B., & Swank, E. (2021). Reciprocity, partner pressure, and emotional labor: Women discuss oral and anal sex negotiations. Sexuality & Culture25(1), 217-234.

Lee, S. (2016). Toxic Toys, Bad Vibrations.

Oliver, K. (2016). Hunting girls: Sexual violence from the hunger games to campus rape. Columbia University Press.


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