BDSM Collars -Learn About This Important Kink

BDSM is a term used for sex to show control, submission, and dominance. BDSM can be dividend in the following bondage, which involves restricting your partners with ropes and handcuffs from moving. Discipline is a punishment from the dominant partner as they exert control over the other sadism and masochism. These are the pleasures a partner receives by inflicting pain or receiving pain.

There are many BDSM tools that an individual can use in the relationship. Many have fantasized about having a relationship where they want to dominate and control their partner’s sexual desires. People of different ages and gender can practice BDSM practice. Among other tools, there are the BDSM collars which are worn around the neck. The collars showed submission or an enslaved person. Some people exercise collaring ceremonies to solemnize their relationship, just the normal marriages where the ring is used. The collars can be used in role-playing in erotic games because they symbolize control, just like they are used on pets. Most people see the BDSM collar as primarily for the master-slave relationship, which is literal. When you wear the collar, it shows that you are under consideration to be a slave or submissive to your partner in the relationship. Have you been wondering about the BDSM collars? This article highlights some things you can learn about this important kink.

Types Of BDSM Collars

Training Collars

Rose (2021) explained that these collars could be used in training. They are mostly used by enslaved people who put them around their necks while training. It is also a symbol of progress in a relationship. When you finish the training, the dominant partner believes you are fit to level up to another collar.

Protection Collars

Most kinksters believe that when they have these collars on their neck, it shows they belong to someone. It might also be considered the symbol of ownership and protection. When this collar is won, the partner is free compared to the one who has the training collar. They can move along with the dominant partner, not having so much consideration and follow-up.

Play Collars

The play collars are won during the scene, considered the most relaxed collar of all the bunches. Most people who have used the collar believe it is the best since it is useful and a symbol of power exchange.

Day Collars

The day collar is useful to those who want to collar or be collared. It looks like a piece of jewelry, thus making it difficult for others to notice it is a BDSM tool except for you and your partners, who know the meaning and purpose. It makes you avoid some awkward questions, which might lead you to give out the symbol of your kinky relationship. They come in different designs and multiple styles where each has a look for each occasion.

Permanent Collars

Yang et al. (2021) explained that the permanent collars are used as a symbol for the binding and connection of a couple, a symbol for your permanent relationship status. To other people, they appear as a piece of jewelry that an individual can take off, but they cannot. The collar has a locking mechanism for others, but their partners (dominant) have the key. They cannot be taken off that easily unless for unavoidable reasons. Similarly, when it is taken off, it can mean the relationship is over or taking a break from the relationship.

Functions Of the BDSM Collars

• De Neef et al. (2019) explained that collars are used in the BDSM scenes to show the role of a person; there will be a dominant and submissive partner, which will be easy to differentiate the two.
• They are a symbol that shows the commitment between the partners in the D/s relationship.
• The collars can also be a sign of ownership and protection
• Some use it in the considerations for a new relationship, yet to be decided if it would be temporary or permanent.
• Some only come out when it is time to get kinky

Types of the BDSM Toys And Their Functions

Pillows

Pillows are not only limited to BDSM but can also be used in the vanilla sex better by providing support for better sex positions. It can be used together with other tools such as the handcuffs to make it be in a position to feel the sensation you desire.

The Handcuffs

Handcuffs come in different forms; some have straps that allow suspending them on the door, but it is not strong enough to bear the weight of your body, so you are not supposed to hang on them. Similarly, some look like jewelry where you can have them on top of your hands, and no one will notice what they are used for; you can wear them as a fancy wrist late as they wait for the hours.

Kegel Balls

Marshall & Llewellyn (2017) explained that these are ball-like beads for strengthening the pelvic muscles. They are put in the vagina at night to strengthen the muscles, thus having a massive orgasm. An individual cannot notice them as it will be your secret. To put them in the position, you need to contract the muscles in the pelvic area.

Over The Door Sex Swings

The swing contains straps that can be suspended and strong enough to bear the body's weight. It is a way of spicing up your relationship by trying new positions, making you have the best non-bed sex.

The Bed Restraining Kit

The kit comprises nylon ankle and arms restraints which can be tied under the mattress so that the straps can move on the way around for easy accessibility.

Conclusion

Some people do not take the BDSM collars seriously and of much importance, but most people do. Also, consider discussing how you feel about the collar with your partner so that they can agree. It should have the consent of each partner so that there is a mutual understanding between you as a couple in the relationship. For example, you should know what the collar stands for; if one sees it as a symbol of marriage but the other wipes it off after and during every fight, there might be a disconnection that would be hard to resolve. Similarly, consider knowing the meaning of the bondages so that you know what you are in that relationship.

References

De Neef, N., Coppens, V., Huys, W., & Morrens, M. (2019). Bondage-discipline, dominance-submission, and sadomasochism (BDSM) from an integrative biopsychosocial perspective: A systematic review. Sexual Medicine, 7(2), 129-144.

Marshall, K. J., & Llewellyn, T. L. (2017). Effects of flexibility and balance on driving distance and club head speed in collegiate golfers. International journal of exercise science, 10(7), 954.

Rose, C. (2021). Alien Encounters. Crimson Rose Erotica.

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