7 ACCESSORIES EVERY PLEASURE DOM NEEDS

If you are into trying out different fetishes and kinks, then the pleasure dom is one of the things you should try. Some of the accessories you may need include; handcuffs, ticklers, and a blindfold.

Being a dominant person requires you to try and get different things that you can use to show your power and control to your partner. The accessories are used by both you and your partner. They should bring some pleasure during sexual activities. When it comes to BDSM, you can include plenty of domination accessories in the bedroom for some fun. It is always attractive to see your dominant partner having full control and power over you, and getting you to submit to them comes naturally. Some of the accessories that be used with every pleasure dom include;

The Under the Bed Restraints  

Domination is interesting when it comes to restraints. The fact that your dominant partner ties you down makes it real as all the power belongs to them. Once the wrists are tied together, all the power is transferred to the dominant. You can try riding on the dominant with your wrists restrained and get to feel the pleasure it gives out. They exist as ankle and wrists sets that tie you down until you are ready to pull and get off them while playing with your dominant partner. They make you helpless for a while, but they are still important because they make you get pleasured differently. They are very comfortable and cannot harm you in any way.

Ticklers    

This accessory helps to bring out different sensational feelings. It may sound like a terrible idea to use a feather on your partner's skin to tickle them. When controlling the use of it, it can work perfectly. If you want to build sexual anticipation, a great way to tease and tickle your partner will be through gentle tickling and stroking them softly. This helps build the desire and makes them long for more pleasure than the feather tickler is giving them. You can try tying them down on the bed and try to tickle them gently. This will work its magic because all the focus is on the feelings that the tickler is giving them. 

Paddles and Crops

Most people have the idea that a paddle is painful on the skin. This is never the case. It is similar to spanking a person. You get some intense feelings, but it does not inflict pain. When being paddled, the smack is not the same as that received through spanking. It is more spread than the one spanking. It may feel like you are being caressed but with a slap. If you get the ones that inflict pain, you should not use them as they should not be used in pleasure games. The crop accessory has a different sensation. You may feel like it is a sting. You can always try and mix up these two accessories in the pleasure dom activities.

A Blindfold

When someone is blindfolded, the other senses are very active because they have to rely on them to feel. These senses will be responsible for the pleasure that they feel. Being blindfolded means that you have given complete control to your dominant partner. You are then left with the sense of touch, taste, and hearing to make you get through the sensations you can get and feel. The best blindfold is always the sleep mask, or you can improvise and use a light cloth and tie it on the eyes.

Handcuffs

We always feel like leaving the restraints and using the handcuffs for a while. According to Taormino (2012), cuffs are used when you do not mean to restrain your partner's body but still want them to be limited to moving. The sub can be cuffed with their arms at the back and be requested to give a blowjob to pleasure the dom. They will then have to know how they will pleasure their dom by giving them head within the set limitation. The great thing about the cuffs is that they can be carried anywhere, and you may introduce them in the middle of any activity and get to have some fun. The best cuffs that give out pleasure are the ones made from silicone. They should be soft on the skin to avoid hurting the wrists.

An Edge-Friendly Wand

Also known as orgasm control or start-stop technique, edging is a common method to deal with premature ejaculation, as Ventus et al. (2020) explained. You can either use your fingers, the mouth, penis, or even a wand to achieve this. The best feature about this wand is that it can give you several vibrations to stimulate the vagina. This wand's great thing is the natural submission to the pleasure dome and the wand. It is ideal because when you feel that they have been stimulated enough and are about to orgasm, you can put it off so they cannot orgasm. 

A Sturdy Sex Blanket    

Things may get a little bit messy for you. Several times you may feel stuffed up. This will be brought about by the lube you have introduced into the sexual activities, the multiple squirts on the sheets, and she may be so sweaty. According to Wilson et al. (2017), lubricants are used during procreative intercourse to moderate the amount of wetness in the genitals. The best thing to avoid having a lot of stains on the room and bed is to have a waterproof sex blanket. Be sure that the one you have is flexible enough not to move around while having sex and comfortable for you to lie on it.  

Conclusion 

Being dominant does not necessarily mean that you need to inflict a lot of pain on your partner to pleasure them. Most of the stated accessories do not inflict pain on a person as some are gentle on the skin, and if they inflict, it is not that severe. You can be able to withstand it and also feel so much pleasure. In BDSM, you are likely to have a lot of sweat, squirts, and lube. The best thing that you can do is to use a waterproof blanket so that you are free to enjoy yourself without the fear of ruining your moment.

References

Wilson, S. L., Adam, J. K., & Krishna, S. B. N. (2017). Effects of vaginal lubricants on in-vitro progressive spermatozoa motility. African Journal of Reproductive Health, 21(3), 96-101.

Ventus, D., Gunst, A., Arver, S., Dhejne, C., Öberg, K. G., Zamore-Söderström, E., ... & Jern, P. (2020). Vibrator-Assisted start–stop exercises improve premature ejaculation symptoms: A randomized controlled trial. Archives of sexual behavior, 49(5), 1559-1573.

Taormino, T. (2012). 50 shades of kink: An introduction to BDSM. Cleis Press.