LADIES, LET’S MAKE SELF-ISOLATION SEXY: 12 NEW WAYS TO GET OFF ALONE

With the pandemic making isolation a norm, one can do plenty of things to pass the time. You can try out a new hobby, finish up a project you have been putting off, learn something new out there, or even about yourself. For ladies who masturbate, we have the usual ways you are used to getting yourself off when you get the time. 

Privacy and isolation can be exhausting in a way. What can we do not to make wanking boring? Whether you are single, dating, or in a long-distance relationship, here are some new ways to get off that you can try with the plenty of time available now.

Try a Sucking Toy

Maybe you are tired of using the normal ways, and it is starting to get boring. One of the ways to spice up your alone time is by trying out a sucking toy. A sucking toy will remind your clitoris of how it feels to have a human tongue there, or even better. If you are into fingering, try out the finger vibrator. 

Use A Butt Plug

Anal sex is one way to enhance our sexual experiences. A butt plug is like a small dildo that can be inserted inside the anus. Try different types of butt plugs, start small if it is the first time using them and remember to use lube. If you do not want the usual butt plugs that stay in place, experiment with the anal beads, prostate massages, or vibrating butt plug.

Try Squirting

Nigro (2018) explains that squirting is an excretory act in females. Don’t we all crave to get to that point where this clear fluid is flushing out of our vagina like we most see in porn videos? If you have never experienced squirting, use your time alone to get yourself to that point. Check out tutorials if you have to, and try out the steps needed to have at least that experience. You owe yourself that with all the time in your hands.

Try Vaginal Ejaculation

According to Hoy et al. (2021), it is easy for most females to orgasm through clitoral stimulation but very hard to orgasm via vaginal stimulation. Using your fingers or toys, try getting yourself to the big ‘O’. With patience and the right stimulation, you can get there. Penetrate your vagina and move your fingers or the toy in a circular motion. Apply pressure to the G-spot as the vibrations build up. Increase pressure and speed and maintain the motion to get that explosive orgasm. It takes time to get the hang of it though some may not experience it.

Pillow Hump

This is also known as the classic dry humping. If all you have been using are your fingers or sex toys, why not give yourself a break and try the classic pillow hump. Use your hips to rub your vulva or clitoris on a pillow, sheets, or blanket. Make sure the surface or object will not cause any damage to your lady parts. Dry humping can be a way to pleasure yourself using the cowgirl position.

Change the Position

We have all read the Kamasutra. We use these positions and more while having sex with our significant others. Why not trying out the styles while having fun with ourselves? This way, we will be satisfying our desires while alone and practicing for that time we get to do it with someone else. If you are used to getting off while lying down, why not try doing it while standing up?

Make Some Noise

Instead of muffing up the noises and moans, you produce while getting off, use the time you have alone to let it all go. Do not restrict yourself to stuffing a cloth so that people won’t hear you. Let yourself hear your moans. This can be a good way to encourage yourself and know what makes you make those noises.

Imagine a Threesome

This is something most people wish to try once in their lifetime. If alone, you can let your imagination do the work. Use different toys to give the illusion that you are having a threesome. You can use a butt plug (go for the vibrating butt plug for more action), a finger or tongue vibrator and a dildo of your choice. You can as well opt for the duo dildo plus a vibrator. Play around with the toys to get what works for you as per your imagination. According to Silverberg & Kaufman (2016), exploring different sexual pleasures is great since it allows you to enjoy sex to maximum satisfaction

Public, or the Illusion of Public Wanking

For some who have tried wanking in public, the feeling is ecstatic. If you are too shy to try this, do it in a space that gives you the illusion that you are masturbating in public. You can have a sensual evening out on the patio or the balcony. Make sure you are comfortable with doing those settings.

Read Erotica Stories

According to Marcus (2017), you can explore the fantasy world by getting into erotica novels to widen your imagination. Erotica novels and articles let your mind run wild with their visual description of sex scenes. Get into reading, and in no time, you will find yourself so aroused in a way you have not felt before. If you are not into reading, try listening to erotica audio books which can be as arousing as reading.

Try the Reflection Way

If you haven’t heard of it, this is getting yourself off while looking at your reflection in the mirror. This can be a good way to learn what gets you excited and turns you on. You can try any style in front of the mirror as long as you can see what you are doing.

Use the Orgasm Balls

These toys not only help with kegel exercises but also help you achieve orgasms. An egg vibrator can rub the clitoris while contracting the balls inside the vagina. You can walk with the orgasm balls around the house while doing your chores, and that orgasm will just come out of nowhere. This can be one way to enjoy your alone time while getting off.

Conclusion

Quarantine and self-isolation do not have to take your sex life away or make masturbation boring for you. Explore these different ways to pass that alone time while giving yourself orgasm after orgasm. What a great time to master masturbation than alone time.

References

Marcus, S. (2017). The Other Vietorians: A Study of Sexuality and Pornography in Mid-Nineteenth-Century England. Routledge.

Silverberg, C., & Kaufman, M. (2016). The ultimate guide to sex and disability: For all of us who live with disabilities, chronic pain, and illness. Cleis Press

Hoy, M., van Stein, K., Strauss, B., & Brenk-Franz, K. (2021). The Influence of Types of Stimulation and Attitudes to Clitoral Self-stimulation on Female Sexual and Orgasm Satisfaction: a Cross-sectional Study. Sexuality Research and Social Policy, 1-12.

Nigro, S. A. (2018). Stopping Sex Assault and Rape by Stopping Prurience. ARC Journal of Addiction, 3(2), 20-22.