Blowjobs – fun or frustrating
Blowjobs – fun or frustrating
We all have some things that we like to do and some other things that we just don’t like to do. And when it comes to sex everyone has different tastes and preferences. And hopefully, the person who you have chosen to be with is sexually compatible for the most part.
It can be very frustrating if you are not happy with your sex life and if it is something that doesn’t feel like can be fixed. Some people just can’t quite get it together to find some common ground when it comes to how to make love. But the only really want to combat that kind of problem is to talk about it, but sometimes that just doesn’t work with your partner.
And that can be very problematic and in the end you might just decide that it is not going to work out no matter how hard you’ve tried to fix things. But other times you can just decide that you are going to give it one more good old college try and that may mean doing something that you have not really liked to do in the past but are willing to give it a go.
So let’s talk about blowjobs for a minute. There are very few men that don’t love to get BJs and for a lot of them it is really their most fantasized sexual act. Although, we can’t know for sure, it just must feel super great but it must also just give them an extra thrill knowing that their woman is willing to do that for them.
If you were brought up in a pretty sexually repressed way or if someone told you that blowjobs are just not proper, then the first thing you really need to do is to let go of that antiquated thinking. Giving head is really just one more way of adding some variety to having sex. Sure it feels great for him, but if you really just allow yourself to get into it you can end up having a lot of fun.
It can be a real turn on knowing that your partner is getting turned on. And you don’t have to just go at it without getting something in return. Lots of guys like giving and receiving at the same time, so if you are still not so sold on going down on him, ask him to go down on you at the same time. That will keep you distracted enough to not mind playing with him.
There are lots of great resources available about how to give a good bj and if you are going to give him one, then you might as well make it fun and as enjoyable as you possibly can. So why not surprise him next time you hit the hay. You might just end up enjoying it more than you thought you would – and guaranteed he’s going to love it!